((Hugs)) to you and your family, especially dd.
Can someone point me (and others) in the directon of resources in how to have this kind of a safety talk. I'm really impressed with the calm you kept in the situation, especially considering you went through abuse, and the thought that went into how you would educate your children and communicate with them.
I'd like to learn more about this.... obviously this thread is for support for you, but I'd be grateful if there was another thread about that, or one already started, or another resource (website or group)....
And again.... ((Hugs)) and I'lll be thinking of your family.
Oh wait, i see someone asked a similar question.... "the safety talk" here http://www.mothering.com/discussions...d.php?t=983059
I've had a few threads open and been reading for a while, so I missed it earlier.