AACCKKK. I've been doing lots of reading here and elsewhere and feel more confused than when I started. I am lost, and need someone to point me in the right direction. I'm posting all that I think is relevant, and anything that *might* be relevant. Please bear w/me.
From the beginning. During pregnancy I ate a typical crappy diet. Vegetarian, but made up for the meat w/lots of dairy. Sugar and more sugar. Some good stuff, but mostly crap (although better than what most people in this country eat).
Before I missed my first period, I received a tetanus shot. At 28 weeks, I received Rhogam (Aidan is A-, totally useless) , shortly therafter, I received a flu shot (as recommended by my midwives
).
We had a long labor (60 hrs) and as I was GBS + I received lots of antibiotics during. W/I 18 hrs after his birth he was whisked away to the NICU in NY state. He was poked and prodded by every instrument known to man (and woman). They thought there was something wrong w/his heart, and would not let me breastfeed. They gave him some magical stuff that was full of corn syrup. He was given LOTS of full spectrum antibiotics in case he had a bacterial infection, which it turned out, he didn't. (I was taking acidipholous at this time). He did not recieve Vit K injection as I had been taking Vit K drops myself and supplemented him shortly after birth. He had a simple PDA that resolved itself shortly after birth (about 3 days later).
At home, he is a happy baby, very easy going, very happy. Woke every 2 hrs to nurse, nursed every 2 hrs during the day. Everything was wonderful. I thought I was getting some thrush so we treated w/some Nyastin and it went away. In hindsight, it might have been just initial nursing uncomfortable nipple stuff. His poops were good, no diaper rash, nothing. A happy guy.
My new ped (my old ped fired me at 2 months as I was holding off vaccinations), talked me into HIB. I remember that day crystal clear.
Shortly after the vaccine, he became different. Crying, screaming, needing to be held constantly. Not happy at all, only happy while outside in the sling walking. Would only nap for very short periods of time. Crying all the time as he was overtired (I also slept w/him for each nap and still do). A living hell.
He started waking up every 40 min at night and nursing nonstop for the last 2 hrs of sleep, switching boobs. I thought it was a need, and tried to fulfull it so it would go away. I gave up all dairy (hidden too), and I saw some improvement in attitude.
Aidan did not have anything in his mouth besides my breast until he was 8 months old (I wanted to prevent food allergies). He wanted nothing to do w/solids. I figured it was his way of keeping his body healthy. He started having a little taste of solids every day around 13 months. He now eats like most toddlers.
8 months later, I was fed up. My cycles were trying to return and I couldn't take it anymore. At 15 months we tried some gentle "cutting back" nightweaning. I just wanted to get back to every 2 hrs like he did as a newborn. No luck. Lots of screaming and crying. I gave up eggs, some definate improvement, but it didn't last.
I had the RAST allergy test done. Barely tested positive for carrots, corn and peanuts and not positive for dairy or eggs (but I found out that if they haven't had it in their system for a couple of months it will show up negative).
I eliminated those things from our systems as I'm stil breastfeeding (and he nurses constantly all day and all night still).
He is currently allergic (hives, runny nose, out-of-control behavior, bright red anus, crying during the night) to:
dairy
eggs
corn (in ALL varieties)
carrots
peanuts
cayenne pepper
pine nuts
we are temporarily (hopefully) off of these items to see if there is a reaction when I introduce them:
all other tree nuts
wheat and gluten
and as of late he has had an allergic reaction to:
strawberries
peas
parsnips (tonight)
We now eat 99% of our food from scratch. We found a ketchup that is okay, a soy sauce that is corn and wheat free, veganaisse is good, and rice dream, but that is about it. I can't eat anything w/salt in it, unless it is sea salt, as salt has dextrose in it which is corn based. No citric acid, no lactic acid, no nothing. So I'm eating REALLY well. Lots of veggies (esp dark green leafy ones), lost of fruits and lots of whole grains (the ones that are left). I eat basically no crap, the only sugar I get is raw honey for my herbal teas, which I have to make myself b/c there is corn in the bags. We eat all the good stuff, lots of sea veggies, garlic, ginger, miso, tempeh, you name it--I've done my reading. Almost all organic (the wax on fruits and veggies also is corn based). We are vegan and even if we wanted to go back to meat, most animals are fed corn. Lots of corn allergenic people have difficulty w/ eating animals that ate corn too.
About 4 weeks ago, Aidan was started on a probiotic, Primal Defense. Corn -free. I was thinking he might have leaky gut (especially w/the new allergies), but we've seen no real improvement.
Guess what? Nothing has changed. The eczema goes away as long as Aidan hasn't eaten anything that he shouldn't have. His behavior is the same way. But he cannot go more than 2 hrs btw nursings at night. I know the breat milk is helping some pain in his tummy.
I just don't know where to go next w/this.
My hubby lost his job almost 2 months ago, 3 days before we were going to start NAET treatment. We will be starting this as soon as we can afford to, probably in January. This is my last hope.
Does anyone have any suggestions? Does anyone see anything that I am missing?
I don't feel like I can do this on my own anymore and am hoping someone can help me.
Thanks for reading if you got this far,
Amy
From the beginning. During pregnancy I ate a typical crappy diet. Vegetarian, but made up for the meat w/lots of dairy. Sugar and more sugar. Some good stuff, but mostly crap (although better than what most people in this country eat).
Before I missed my first period, I received a tetanus shot. At 28 weeks, I received Rhogam (Aidan is A-, totally useless) , shortly therafter, I received a flu shot (as recommended by my midwives
).We had a long labor (60 hrs) and as I was GBS + I received lots of antibiotics during. W/I 18 hrs after his birth he was whisked away to the NICU in NY state. He was poked and prodded by every instrument known to man (and woman). They thought there was something wrong w/his heart, and would not let me breastfeed. They gave him some magical stuff that was full of corn syrup. He was given LOTS of full spectrum antibiotics in case he had a bacterial infection, which it turned out, he didn't. (I was taking acidipholous at this time). He did not recieve Vit K injection as I had been taking Vit K drops myself and supplemented him shortly after birth. He had a simple PDA that resolved itself shortly after birth (about 3 days later).
At home, he is a happy baby, very easy going, very happy. Woke every 2 hrs to nurse, nursed every 2 hrs during the day. Everything was wonderful. I thought I was getting some thrush so we treated w/some Nyastin and it went away. In hindsight, it might have been just initial nursing uncomfortable nipple stuff. His poops were good, no diaper rash, nothing. A happy guy.
My new ped (my old ped fired me at 2 months as I was holding off vaccinations), talked me into HIB. I remember that day crystal clear.
Shortly after the vaccine, he became different. Crying, screaming, needing to be held constantly. Not happy at all, only happy while outside in the sling walking. Would only nap for very short periods of time. Crying all the time as he was overtired (I also slept w/him for each nap and still do). A living hell.He started waking up every 40 min at night and nursing nonstop for the last 2 hrs of sleep, switching boobs. I thought it was a need, and tried to fulfull it so it would go away. I gave up all dairy (hidden too), and I saw some improvement in attitude.
Aidan did not have anything in his mouth besides my breast until he was 8 months old (I wanted to prevent food allergies). He wanted nothing to do w/solids. I figured it was his way of keeping his body healthy. He started having a little taste of solids every day around 13 months. He now eats like most toddlers.
8 months later, I was fed up. My cycles were trying to return and I couldn't take it anymore. At 15 months we tried some gentle "cutting back" nightweaning. I just wanted to get back to every 2 hrs like he did as a newborn. No luck. Lots of screaming and crying. I gave up eggs, some definate improvement, but it didn't last.
I had the RAST allergy test done. Barely tested positive for carrots, corn and peanuts and not positive for dairy or eggs (but I found out that if they haven't had it in their system for a couple of months it will show up negative).
I eliminated those things from our systems as I'm stil breastfeeding (and he nurses constantly all day and all night still).
He is currently allergic (hives, runny nose, out-of-control behavior, bright red anus, crying during the night) to:
dairy
eggs
corn (in ALL varieties)
carrots
peanuts
cayenne pepper
pine nuts
we are temporarily (hopefully) off of these items to see if there is a reaction when I introduce them:
all other tree nuts
wheat and gluten
and as of late he has had an allergic reaction to:
strawberries
peas
parsnips (tonight)
We now eat 99% of our food from scratch. We found a ketchup that is okay, a soy sauce that is corn and wheat free, veganaisse is good, and rice dream, but that is about it. I can't eat anything w/salt in it, unless it is sea salt, as salt has dextrose in it which is corn based. No citric acid, no lactic acid, no nothing. So I'm eating REALLY well. Lots of veggies (esp dark green leafy ones), lost of fruits and lots of whole grains (the ones that are left). I eat basically no crap, the only sugar I get is raw honey for my herbal teas, which I have to make myself b/c there is corn in the bags. We eat all the good stuff, lots of sea veggies, garlic, ginger, miso, tempeh, you name it--I've done my reading. Almost all organic (the wax on fruits and veggies also is corn based). We are vegan and even if we wanted to go back to meat, most animals are fed corn. Lots of corn allergenic people have difficulty w/ eating animals that ate corn too.
About 4 weeks ago, Aidan was started on a probiotic, Primal Defense. Corn -free. I was thinking he might have leaky gut (especially w/the new allergies), but we've seen no real improvement.
Guess what? Nothing has changed. The eczema goes away as long as Aidan hasn't eaten anything that he shouldn't have. His behavior is the same way. But he cannot go more than 2 hrs btw nursings at night. I know the breat milk is helping some pain in his tummy.
I just don't know where to go next w/this.
My hubby lost his job almost 2 months ago, 3 days before we were going to start NAET treatment. We will be starting this as soon as we can afford to, probably in January. This is my last hope.
Does anyone have any suggestions? Does anyone see anything that I am missing?
I don't feel like I can do this on my own anymore and am hoping someone can help me.
Thanks for reading if you got this far,
Amy
















: She didn't think it was heavy metals, didn't want to consider leaky gut, and didn't want to look at his minerals. So, really just a waste of my time. She did recommend another NP who is also a homeopath and might be able to offer advice or help. So not a complete waste of time.
So that is a whole new world for us. It so expensive, and that sucks, but, it seems to be helping, and I'll try anything at this point.
