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post #21 of 38
AmamaAgain - glad to hear your LO perked up after the candy bar!! It's so easy for us to get fixated on *something* at this point, but it's important we acknowledge fear and then put it away. Easier said than done though!!

PW - hope you have a wonderful day focusing on things other than baby coming!!

Tara - I hope whatever stress it is gets resolved, or easily put out of your mind, so that you can focus on your pg and upcoming birth!

Myrmom - sorry you're ill!! Hoping you feel better real soon!

OrchideZ - have fun at your breastfeeding group! I'd send you some Fall weather, but I'm not sure it'd make it all the way down to you... lots of Ca needs rain!

to those getting "watched pot" phone calls!!! I'm really hoping not to have that happen, how annoying!! Like you wouldn't let people know you'd had the baby!

AAM: I lit our furnace pilot light this morning!!!!! : That means it's officially Fall and COLD. We turn off the pilot light in the Spring when it starts warming up, so turning it back on is an acknowledgment that the warm days will be few and far between from now on. It's been super overcast and rainy the past few days, so waking up to a bright and crisp sunny day is awesome. The leaves are fast changing and after our rain a lot of them are on the ground now.

I've got a TON of stuff to do today too! My house is trashed after this weekend since Dh and I did nothing but veg out. I think I slept for 12 hours last night (waking up often to pee though)!

Have a midwife appt tonight, wish me luck! They are drawing my blood again. If there isn't a change for the better I'm thinking of just saying, "Look, this is how my body is. It doesn't feel right to be force feeding myself and obviously the supplements aren't working. I feel healthy, I look healthy, I just want to enjoy the last part of my pregnancy." I'm trying to be positive today so I don't want to whine, but this last week really has NOT been enjoyable b/c of all this stuff.

I can't decide whether to ask for a cervical check or not!!! On the one hand, I think fixating on that isn't helpful b/c we all know it can change in an instant. On the other, it might be nice to have a "baseline" kind of thing since I'm calling my Mom in labor and she's driving 6 hrs to try and make it for the birth. If we knew I was already a little dilated we might call her earlier than if I was tight and closed still. What do you ladies think?
post #22 of 38
Errrr. : Well so much for being positive today. I just got off the phone with Dh; the rumor mill is back in action. My FIL was, by governmental mistake, put on a sex offender registry with someone else's charges. This stayed up for years without his knowledge until it came to a head when Dh and him tried to start a business together. I went and looked and was flabbergasted what was on this official government site when it wasn't true; it was REALLY bad! FIL sued, got his name taken off the registry, got restitution, but they live in a small town and how do you fight rumor that was started by the freaking government?!?!? I don't know why this should involve my Dh's business AT ALL, but apparently it does, b/c a client is "very upset" and is needing to talk to Dh about it immediately. If we lose another job over this I'm just going to cry (we have lost jobs b/c of it in the past - hence my going and looking it up). It's so unfair.

Sorry to blech this at you guys, but I'm really upset about it and needed to get it out. NOT the best timing when I'm supposed to be relaxing and preparing to birth. Instead my Lioness temper is in full swing and I want to hit someone!
post #23 of 38
Holy crap, Amber. I'd be ready to kill someone too. That's a HELL of a mistake to make.
post #24 of 38
Thread Starter 
Well hello. I've just returned from my maternity shoot. We'll see how the photos turn out. I liked the photographer(s), and I'm hoping for some keepers. I'm a bit tired, so I'm going to try to chill a bit for the rest of the day, but I hate to let chores go, so I may not be able to resist...

I hope you watched pot mamas get your babies soon - today would be a good day to have a baby, right? I can relate to the phone calls, etc.. My brother has begun texting me everyday now! I'm not even technically due for another week!

AmamaAgain: I'm so happy to hear that your LO got active again. I've noticed mine has had some days where she was just not as active as usual. Usually she moves a lot, so when she doesn't it's hard not to get a little concerned.

Tara: I'm thinking about you and wishing you the best. Focus on that baby and let whatever it is go for now, if possible. GL.

Amber: That is seriously messed up. It's completely unfair for your DH to lose work over something like that, particularly since it's not true to start with, but regardless of that, it's not fair. So sorry you have to deal with that.

lovemysunshine: You could offer to pay your sister to clean the oven "since it's a big job" - and then if she wants to do it to help out, she will let you know, or if she doesn't want to do it, she can say "no thanks" ?

Hope everyone is having a good Monday.
post #25 of 38
Sorry I don't have time to respond but I just wanted to check in, still pregnant. Hoping for a baby today.
post #26 of 38
38 weeks here...
Really thought yesterday that I had some *very* early labor going on. I was nauseaus ALL DAY LONG, diarrhea (sorry TMI),lightheaded, more BH than I've been getting lately, though not *that* much and just generally feeling blah..lasted all day, but woke up today with none of that.. of course, that's a good thing, but I'd much rather have it continue into real labour and have my baby

Everything's ready at home, just relaxing at my mom's today and going to nap for a bit actually..hoping I get a surge of energy soon because my dishes, bathroom and microwave all need to be done and I'm too tired to even think about cleaning them..

Hope those who want babe out now go into labor soon (like me for one)
post #27 of 38

Happy Happy Day!!!!

Hello All!!!

First of all, to all of you still working out!!!! While I have been released from 'bed rest' and I may cook, walk around a bit, I am DEFINATELY not to work out, or even clean much! ( like I need another reason not to clean!)

Amber- This would be why I have a fundamental issue with the sex offender registries. I am SO sorry your FIL got put on that list.

Amamagain- What I do to get the BB to start kicking is rest a bowl of cold (ice cream) cereal on top of my belly. Works every time!

: For all of you who are 'overdue'. I hate that phrase!

OWWW! My DS just walked up and wackerd me with his plastic harmonica! Right on the NIPPLE!!! OOOOWWWWWW!!!!! (how is his aim that good?)

AAM- Well, no baby, still good firm ctrx when I'm up and around, but then they fade. Once in the middle of the night when I rolled over, I was having one, and I was like, 'Hmm, ok, ZZZZZZzzzzzzz'

Well, here's the results of my appt today. I am off bed rest!!! : My BP is actually down slightly, I lost 2 lbs over the weekend! And I still have not a trace of protein in my urine. So, she actually said that we're safe to wait until I go into labor naturally!!!!! Yay!!! : She did say, to eat spicy food, find a hot tub (not too hot), and make love to DH frequently. I think I can handle that prescription! I am of course not supposed to push my self or even clean much. But DH doesn't have to wait on me hand and foot either, which is very nice.


I'm feeling kind of sad that I'm spending my last days with DS as just 'his' mommy. I guess I'm just very aware of the time going by so quickly. I have so enjoyed being his mommy, that I know I'll love being a mooma of 2, but I want to make sure DS knows how much I still love him. It's funny, but if we hadn't loved him so much, we would never have tried for another one! I know he won't understand that. I just want him to still feel precious to me. Oh, now I'm gonna cry!
post #28 of 38
heidirk - so wonderful to hear your appointment went so well!! : As for the adding a second child thing though, I'm no help. In fact, I'm quite sure that I have NO idea what I'm in for, what with this being my first.

Random question for y'all - first off, I told myself weeks ago I would not obsess over every sign and symptom wondering when labor would start. Um, yeah. Anyway, every so often this little critter goes into major wiggle worm mode, and I get sharp punches/headbutts/something to my cervix every so often. As in it makes me wince. I guess I'm wondering if all that movement and motion from the baby down there affects anything? 'Cause I can totally live with the pains if it's changing my cervix. If not, I'd like this little one to lay off.
post #29 of 38
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ps- wanted to add to Lovemysunshine: I LOVE the picture of you on your blog in your bikini from a few weeks ago! You should post it in the belly thread if you haven't already!
Aw, thanks! I do need to get over to that thread; can you believe I've never posted in there?
post #30 of 38
I think pressure from baby's head being down helps with dilation and such, not sure if it helps pre-labor or just during labor, though. I think that's why some people who's baby never engages have trouble dilating.. but don't quote me!
post #31 of 38
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I think pressure from baby's head being down helps with dilation and such, not sure if it helps pre-labor or just during labor, though. I think that's why some people who's baby never engages have trouble dilating.. but don't quote me!
Well, I'll not quote you (except for right here, hee) but I do like the sound of this, thanks!
post #32 of 38
Hey girls I posted Samuel Ray's Birth story over in the birth stories forum! Check it out: http://www.mothering.com/discussions...d.php?t=978845
post #33 of 38
Lovemysunshine:
You have to post it then. I think it will inspire other mamas...I know it inspired me. You look great, healthy and happy on the beach in your bikini and pregnant with your 3rd!

Amber: That is terrible re. your DH/FIL and the whole mistaken identity thing. Yikes. I hope that can work out.
I am thinking about you and your appt. right now. :

Changed: Hoping you get your wish tonight!

Heidi: Glad to hear you are off bedrest!

The breastfeeding support group was great today. There were 11 mamas with their teeny adorable bebes and then 4 of us about ready to become mamas. I liked the LC nurse who led it and I feel I learned a lot.
I met two mamas who just gave birth with my same midwife team and they will be emailing me with their birth stories. Seeing all the sweet, gorgeous babies got me so excited.
It was also a reality check that I need to get my suitcase packed once and for all. The two mamas who birthed with my midwifes were telling me they went into labor at week 37 and 38 respectively and they were both first timers. I am now 38 weeks so I need to be prepared for now or later.
post #34 of 38
Still here. Still pregnant. Still want to cut my arm off to stop the pain. This is ridiculous. I'm losing mobility and at this rate, I won't be able to hold my baby. I'm so, so discouraged. Oh, and the BH are seriously getting on my last nerve!

Sorry. It's been a bad day. And I'm so exhausted but can't sleep. Even better.
post #35 of 38
JMarie- Have you been to a chiropractor? Seriously, I KNOW how you're feeling, and it made me want to cut off my arm too, it just hurts so intensly! Mine is loads better, and I have no clue why, but the chiro helped so much! That and Valerian root capsules. Serious hugs your way!


Lee- Hah! First time or not maybe you obsess about all the little symptoms? I'm obsessing too! Just like I obsessed over every little possible preggo symptom while TTC!!


AAM- definately feeling pukey right now. Early labor symptom, or not? (see, Lee- I told you! )
post #36 of 38
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JMarie- Have you been to a chiropractor? Seriously, I KNOW how you're feeling, and it made me want to cut off my arm too, it just hurts so intensly! Mine is loads better, and I have no clue why, but the chiro helped so much! That and Valerian root capsules. Serious hugs your way!
Yes, I've been seeing a chiro for this since it started. It helps for a little while after the appointment, but gradually just goes back to the excrutiating pain. He's told me that it should resolve itself after I give birth and the excess fluid is released, but I am just getting so discouraged. Not to mention I can't afford to see him every other day. Maybe then it'd be better. Plus, it doesn't help that I have a nasty cold in my sinuses and I'm not sleeping well. It just adds to the cranky factor.
post #37 of 38
I went to the chiro today for the first time in a long time. The adjustment felt great, but he suggested ice for my SI, and it is torture! I have seriously stiffened up as a result, and will see how tonight's sleep leaves me feeling.
post #38 of 38
I'm popping in here so late no one will probably even notice I'm here by tomorrow morning. I just wanted to say Hello

I have to go though b/c the babe is now awake and starting to fuss so I must do my motherly duty

She is so sweet and I'm in love....
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