Mama, I'm so sorry about all this. I hurts my heart to read it. Its unfair and mean and I want to be there to do something, to shake him awake. I agree that it would be perfect if you could give him that post. Unless he reads it, you're guaranteed he will never change. If you're like me, when you're overtired and exhausted you'll just cry, really hard, when you talk about this with him. Which, if you're like me, will just make you feel like an hormonal basketcase, but thats obviously not the case. I wish I could do something.