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My 19.5 month old dd attends a wonderful childcare center two days a week. They send out a letter to parents each week. I was reading it this weekend and one of the activities they mentioned doing with the children was role-playing. They said they were wearing firefighter hats and that they were wrapping up the babies and feeding them. I immediately got a visual of a group of one-year-olds sticking bottles into the mouths of their babies at the suggestion of their caregivers. :

So, I've been thinking about it for a few days. What should I do? Should I go to our conference next week armed with scientific articles? Should I write a letter?

Today when I went to pick dd up her head teacher was alone in the classroom because everyone else was playing outside. I decided to bring up my discomfort with the baby bottle thing. She said, "Oh, I'm so glad you brought that up. I totally agree with you. You know, sometimes you just do what you do and don't remember to think outside the box. I don't think we can have the children lifting up their shirts to nurse the babies, but I am fine with taking the bottles out of the equation." As she was talking to me she walked over and took the baby bottles out of the cupboard and put them away. They aren't going to use them anymore.

We went on to have a great conversation about breastfeeding and the AAP and WHO recommendations about breastfeeding.

She is awesome! I still can't get over how well it went.

P.S. Dd often wants to nurse as soon as I pick her up, so I have plopped down and nursed her right in the middle of the day care a number of times...I was always thinking that they might tell me to do it somewhere else, but they never did.
post #2 of 6
huh...i think it's weird that she said she wouldn't let them lift up their shirts to nurse...

the kids at my preschool do it all the time! That being sad we also do have bottles because (as the kids have pointed out) that babysitters/caregivers/dads etc. sometimes "give the baby mama milk out of a bottle"

but glad she was supportive
post #3 of 6
We can too have them lifting up their shirts to feed the babies, lol. Why the heck not. It's darn cute.

Good for you for speaking your mind in a way that was productive, glad she was receptive.
post #4 of 6
I thought it was cute when my daughter lifted her shirt to feed "her baby" when I was nursing her brother. My husband, though, put the kibbosh on that--so she started using the bottles and saying it was juice or that it is mama milk in the bottle. I can't wait to see what they do when I'm nursing this one. Maybe they'll act like they are nursing their babies. Maybe my son will be "gender appropriate" and pretend to give his "babies" bottles--just like daddy gives the baby a bottle (I WOHM, he is a SAHD) and my daughter will probably get to give the (real) baby one bottle a day after school before I get home.
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Playing devil's advocate here, but the teacher may just have meant that as teachers they can't say "Okay now, babies are hungry, lift your shirts and latch them on." Not that they would forbid the kids from doing it on their own, just that the teachers can't tell the kids to lift up their shirts.
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Originally Posted by mommyto3girls View Post
Playing devil's advocate here, but the teacher may just have meant that as teachers they can't say "Okay now, babies are hungry, lift your shirts and latch them on." Not that they would forbid the kids from doing it on their own, just that the teachers can't tell the kids to lift up their shirts.
This is more how I took it. That the teachers would not be leading an activity of breastfeeding the babies as a group that included lifting up their shirts. Just logistically, can you imagine all those one-year-olds deciding it would be fun to take it a step further and take their shirts off! Fun, but maybe not necessary.
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