First pregnancy? Somewhere in the middle? Last pregnancy? First, most likely last.
How many child/ren do you currently have? 0 (2 dogs, 2 cats - are those kids? people call my dogs "furry little people" - talk to them like people, and they have manners like people. the cats are just annoying in their loyalty).
How many children do you want to have? 1, maybe 2 (adoption for number 2)
Is your husband's/partner's answer differnt? nope - we're in agreement. We're aware our feelings may change after #1 comes along, but with the world facing a potential over population/carrying capacity problem, for US (and ONLY us - NOT passing judgement on others in any way - it's a personal decision) it's more ethical to consider adoption for the 2nd kid. There are so many disadvantaged kids who really need help, we have a hard time justifying make more than one of our own - barring any unforseen circumstances. But we're not "young" any more (we aren't old, either - 30ish) - it'll be a couple of years before we add #2, and we would actually like to retire at some point, so we may just stick with this one & pour all of our resources into this one.