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post #61 of 147
10/27/08 at 3:53pm
I pray you find comfort.

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post #62 of 147
10/27/08 at 5:17pm
Oh gosh... I wish I had some words of comfort for you. I'm so, so sorry.
post #63 of 147
10/28/08 at 6:25pm
I can't fathom the grief you must be feeling. Thank you for posting and reminding me to be grateful for what I have. My you find peace.
post #64 of 147
10/29/08 at 8:05am
i know we don't talk directly but i read your story and you and Lucas are in my heart. Cry whenever and wherever you need or want to. there are no rules, no right or wrong way. please be gentle with yourself.
post #65 of 147
10/29/08 at 10:53pm
post #66 of 147
10/30/08 at 11:50pm
I am so sorry. Unfortunately, I know exactly how you feel. My beautiful 4 year old DD passed away from brain cancer 3 months ago. I am so angry and I keep wondering why it happened. I was her mommy, I was supposed to protect her. Why couldn't I protect her? I don't go out. I can't. I cry every time I see little girls and their mommies.

I know there is nothing I can say to help you because there is nothing anyone can say to help me. But I want you to know that although it feels like you are completely alone, there are others of us out here who are going through the same things.
post #67 of 147
10/31/08 at 1:43am
i looked at his pictures. beautiful child mama.
you're in my thoughts always.
post #68 of 147
11/5/08 at 10:42pm
I think of you guys almost every single day. I wish there was something I could say or do to ease some of your pain. It's not fair what happened to your sweet baby.
post #69 of 147
11/11/08 at 7:15pm
Thinking of you and holding you in my heart.
post #70 of 147
11/11/08 at 9:03pm
I'm so sorry for your loss. It sucks. We have to just take it one day at a time or one moment at a time. It's all we can do. Cling to the good memories and keep them alive. I'm almost to the 6 month mark (negligent midwife failed to realize my daughter had under developed lungs and she died in her daddy's arms after being told she was ok). Reach out to others who understand. As for everything else, I don't know. It's hard putting on a brave front for others.
post #71 of 147
11/13/08 at 10:15am
I'm so sorry. I couldn't read without posting.

Take care of yourself.
post #72 of 147
11/14/08 at 12:23pm
This is my first time venturing into this area and I couldn't just read and not post to you.
First, I know the pain of losing a child. My loss came differently than yours but still.. We both lost a child unfortunately.

It's hard. I know it is..
I would never wish this upon any person. It takes great strength to get through this.



I read through some replies and this right here really is true..
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Originally Posted by phatchristy View Post
Please take care of yourself. It is horrible and the most difficult thing a parent could ever go through. Time doesn't take away the feelings, but according to my mom you learn to manage and to sort of make the feelings part of your day to day existance. And, they won't be as raw feeling in the future. You'll be able to manage and will be able to enjoy living again.
I'm so sorry for your loss.. You aren't alone.
post #73 of 147
11/15/08 at 9:40pm
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Originally Posted by katheek77 View Post
kt, I still think of you and Lucas often. Please take care of yourself.
Yes, me too. I'm so sorry, I think about you all the time.
post #74 of 147
11/23/08 at 11:44pm
He isn't forgotten, I promise, and neither are you.
post #75 of 147
11/23/08 at 11:48pm
post #76 of 147
11/26/08 at 6:28pm
Still thinking of you
post #77 of 147
12/3/08 at 5:27pm
kt - I'm still thinking of you and hoping you are having some good days along with the bad ones
post #78 of 147
12/12/08 at 2:52am
I'm still thinking of you too and wanted to offer another hug, wish I could give you one in person. I'm sure this is a tough time of year for you.
post #79 of 147
12/12/08 at 2:41pm
Thread Starter 
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Originally Posted by Cuddlebaby View Post
I'm still thinking of you too and wanted to offer another hug, wish I could give you one in person. I'm sure this is a tough time of year for you.
Thanks, all of you. You're right, cuddlebaby - this time of year, omg. I don't expect things to magically get all better after the holidays have come and gone, but it's just so hard watching all the family-oriented, happy-kid oriented activity going on everywhere. So triggering.

I'm so thankful for all the support you mamas have poured out onto me since Lucas passed. I can't believe how helpful it's been to be able to come here and pour it all out every so often.
post #80 of 147
12/13/08 at 12:55am
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Originally Posted by ktbug View Post
Thanks, all of you. You're right, cuddlebaby - this time of year, omg. I don't expect things to magically get all better after the holidays have come and gone, but it's just so hard watching all the family-oriented, happy-kid oriented activity going on everywhere. So triggering.

I'm so thankful for all the support you mamas have poured out onto me since Lucas passed. I can't believe how helpful it's been to be able to come here and pour it all out every so often.
I am so sorry.

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