Well, that was my immediate thought!
And that her questions come from an assumption that vaxes work, and that those who don't get vaxed need a bunch of medical care to help with the consequences of the diseases they get.
I want to be able to formulate a thought-out response to her question about anti-vax research. I think the only vax info she gets is whatever she sees on TV and hears from her doctor/ped. She knows we don't vax our kids and I think she thinks we are crazy, but doesn't do any real digging herself.... just asks her doctor and watches the news.

I want to respond to her in a way that will make her think, and not turn her off to me as being cooky. I've been a non-vaxer for so long I have lost nearly all perspective on how to talk to a pro-vaxer.... and try to meet her where she is in her thought process.... which is very much "vaxes have saved countless lives and it borders on child abuse to keep such proven life-saving substances away from an innocent child"