Not in your DDC, but I wanted to say how truly, truly sorry I am for your loss. You and your family are in my heart. Sending you love and light.
There is an online community for women who have lost their babies, and I thought of it when I heard your story. Here is the link:http://www.glowinthewoods.com/
This is the blog of one of the participants:http://www.sweetsalty.com/sweetsalty/
Her latest post includes a speech she just gave at a gathering for babylost parents.