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post #21 of 24
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Originally Posted by Marylizah View Post
Sorry, I don't want to hijack the thread, but I'm in the same potty learning boat. DS HATES underpants. We've tried Thomas and Elmo and plain and I can barely get him to try them on. He definitely won't wear them. Is this normal??
Maybe try boxers? I know a little guy who hates briefs, but will wear boxers.
post #22 of 24
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Originally Posted by acsammel View Post
We started using underwear as soon as we decided to start potty training. Wearing a pull up was just like wearing a diaper to him, he would just pee in it whenever he wanted. ...

One had a kid that just went without underwear under his pants. The other had a kid that would only wear boxer style underwear, which are very hard to find in small sizes.
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Originally Posted by Marylizah View Post
I think the first pair we tried on were tight on his tummy, and he literally won't let me put another pair on. It isn't a wet issue, because he won't wear them, so he hasn't wet in them.
Dd wouldn't potty train until she was in underpants, for exactly that reason. If she's in a pull-up, she has no reason to pay attention to her body's signals.

On the underpants front I really recommend Hanna Anderson things. Yes, they're more expensive than some others, but they're also much higher quality; the elastic isn't as tight; and you don't have to even think about characters. And for boys, they do make the boxer style.
post #23 of 24
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Originally Posted by claras_mom View Post
Dd wouldn't potty train until she was in underpants, for exactly that reason. If she's in a pull-up, she has no reason to pay attention to her body's signals.
Yep, DS1 showed absolutely 0 interest in potty training and if there is a real difference between a pullup and regular diapers he didn't see it. I knew from his diaper schedule that he was holding in for pretty long periods though so physically he was probably ok for it.

We just took off his diaper one day when he was about 3, put him in underpants and cleaned up a few pee puddles the first couple days while he figured out that underpants don't work quite like diapers. It really didn't take any more than that before he was pretty much trained. Fortunately I had gotten him in the habit of pooing on the toilet already (just picked him up and stuck him on it when I saw he needed to go starting around 18m) so for us that wasn't an issue. There was a fair amount of laundry for "leaking" right before he had to go though in the beginning so keeping a large stock of fresh undies was important. It was about another 6 months in pullups at night though but even that went pretty well all things considered ymmv.

In our case we don't have wall to wall carpeting so floor cleanup was a lot easier than it would have been otherwise. If I had all carpeting I would probably have been a lot more reluctant to try the "take it off and see" approach.
post #24 of 24
I didn't do any potty 'training' with my first, and my second (now 2y8m can stay in diapers until we all believe he's completely ready to learn potty going the fast way (hopefully :-). When DS1 was 3y2m old we mutually agreed on trying undies for the 'next Saturday' and we had to convince him again in the morning, but after a full day in undies and going to the potty when he needed, he did not want a night diaper on :-). The first two weeks he had a few bowel and other accidents here and there but that was soon getting less. He still had to learn to get to the potty in time. We kept his night diaper for about a month but it was not necessary because it was never wet. We only kept him in a diaper on long outings or outings by car, just to be on the safe side, for the next couple of months. He could agree on everything. Basically, he was totally out of daytime diapers in 1 day and nighttime diapers in one month. I am very happy that we didn't start an earlier long-lasting 'training' that would've probably meant many many months of trying and clean-ups maybe frustration with eventually the same result around the same age. We really let it up to him he was both physical and mentally ready so that it wasn't any trouble at all.
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