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post #1 of 14
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Had our baby boy last night, October 16th, 2008 at 9:25 pm after 2 1/2 hours of active labor. (39w 1d). Weight: 7lb 4oz

I'm still processing it all, it was not the experience I'd imagined and I feel sad and PO'd at myself because I feel I lost my 'composure' during the final stages...Hoping to go over the whole birth with our midwife when she visits tomorrow...I did get my homebirth though and I do have a healthy baby boy and I am very grateful for that

Short-medium version of birth story: NAK
Ctx 10 min. apart for about 6 hours, down to 5 min. apart for an hour, called midwife, around 7pm hit active labor 2-3 min. apart, water broke 8:30pm, babe's head and body completely out with ONE long, excruciating push at 9:25pm

Babe was born 'flat'/limp and not breathing at all for 4 full minutes :

Dh called 911, in the meantime, midwives had to resuscitate using CPR/oxygen etc. By the time paramedics arrive, babe was breathing on his own but still sounded congested..EMS assessed/monitored for a bit and babe looked good. Midwife decided we should go to the hospital to be on the safe side for a condition called pneumothorax We went with sirens on just cuz of the cold air but it was very laid back, chatting and calling up friends to let them know about the birth.

3 hours later in ER triage we were on the clear but Ped. recommended we stay 24 hours for observation. I didn't want to but hubby did, worried if he stopped breathing at home we could lose precious time. I agreed and we got a really nice private room for free (normally $250 a night) cuz it's all they had available: I'm glad we did stay. We chilled, midwife came in the a.m and discharged us just 12 hours after we were admitted.

Babe was shocked and sleepy and didn't/couldn't latch and nurse until 4 hours after the birth, but then he was a pro!

Just a very tiny 'superficial' tear, surprisingly!, didn't have it stitched, feeling good but exhausted.

No name yet and everyone has an opinion of course Hopefully the perfect name will pop up soon..

Anyway off to bed now...Hope everyone left is enjoying their babes soon!!!
post #2 of 14
congrats on your little boy!!! I am so sorry things didn't go so well but i'm glad to hear your little man is doing well now and that you are home. Sounds like your midwife did an amazing job!!!
post #3 of 14
Congrats, glad everything turned out ok.
post #4 of 14
Congrats mama, on the arrival of your sweet boy. I'm sorry reality turned out to be not what you expected (I've had a hb experience like that, too ) but I'm glad everything worked out in the end.

Rest up and enjoy your babymoon...and do let us know what you decide to name your little guy!:
post #5 of 14
Not in your DDC, but I just wanted to give you a big hug! My oldest was born with bilateral (two) spontaneous pneumothorax, and it was really scary. My son appeared fine for the first minute or so, and then quickly went downhill. I'm glad you were able to have your home birth, though. And I know staying in the hospital is a pain, but after something like that, it can be worth it simply for the peace of mind. I'm so glad things worked out fine for your son, and that you all are doing so well now. : Great job on the nursing!
post #6 of 14
Congrats mama! I'm glad to hear everything is good now and your little boy is well. I can't imagine how scary that was.
post #7 of 14
Congrats, so glad everything turned out ok!!! : Enjoy your little man!
post #8 of 14
NAK
Congrats and glad everything turned out well!
post #9 of 14
Congrats mama! I'm so glad everything turned out okay. Baby had a nice gentle birth even if he did have to get observed....I'm sure it made it more tiring for you and DH though. That's cool you got the private room though, how neat especially after coming from home.

We didn't name our baby right away. It took us a whole day.
post #10 of 14
Congratulations mama! Glad both of you are doing well.
post #11 of 14
Congrats on your little one! I'm glad he's okay!!
post #12 of 14
Oh how traumatic and scary for you! I'm so glad you all are okay. Congratulations: on the birth of your new baby boy!!!
post #13 of 14
That sounds like a scary few hours, and I am so glad that all is well now. Enjoy your babymoon!
post #14 of 14
congrats! it took usa couple daysto pick a name too
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