i really like the chime thing. i will put one on their door. i always close their door at night b/c the dog tries to sleep on the bottom bunk with DSD2 and she doesnt like it. so i can put a chime on their and then she will know tha ti know that she is up. she did tell me that she spies on purpose. that bothers me as i allow everyone to have privacy (to a safe extent) and that it is wrong to cross my fence like that. she did "see" it as she had a very good description to tell her mother. i am not worried about the catching us part. i have caught my parents before. however, she has been molested before. an older girl got her to submit to some exploration a while ago. she is in therapy and i have told her therapist about it. she has a habit of crossing peoples boundaries. i will get a door chime. i do have a lock on my door. i have used the lock. however sometimes we DTD on a spur of the moment, oh-my-goodness the baby rolled over to her own bed and we are still awake enough to want to times, kwim? the chime on her door might be enough to encourage her to sleep through the night too. she is always so tired in the morning and says she doesnt sleep at all. i know she sleeps b/c she is sleeping soundly when i go to bed, and sleeping soundly when i wake up. but apparently not in the middle of the night. she sees her therapist tomorrow morning so we will talk about the not sleeping thing and the boundaries again.
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10/21/08 at 1:30pm