UPDATE: We went to the wedding and...We went to the wedding and I was x-tra cautious to be discrete bcs it was there wedding and i knew that was important to them. I nursed mostly in the mei tai and was always wearing nursing clothes and not a mm of skin was showing ever. I did not cover with a blanket and did not excuse myself to nurse just as we had agreed upon.
The whole weekend went great, the wedding was beautiful, met some new people and had a great time. The groom told me how glad he was that i came and that he was glad we had worked everything out. (this was the day after the wedding just as we were leaving).
We got back sun. night and tues. morning dh gets a voicemail from his bff that he had just received a call from someone complaining about my nursing at the wedding. That he is upset at us and wants to talk. Dh is so upset and hurt by this. I am beyond frustrated. There is absolutely nothing i could have done diff. except cover w/ a blanket or excuse myself every time she nursed which i had already stated ahead of time that i was unwilling to do that but it would be ok for me not to come.
Who calls someone on their honeymoon to complain about their wedding? They were a guest.
I am so frustrated bcs i have been nursing strait through for almost 7 yrs and have never had a prob. now it is someone close to us that is doing this.
I am just letting dh deal w/ this but am saddened that his bff is doing this to us. I am really hoping that they can resolve it w/out ending the friendship.
Thanks for all of your wonderful support before the wedding. Any nice thoughts or prayers would be great.