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post #61 of 67
rachel, i hope you make the right decision for you and your dh. personally, the $2500 we spent on dh's hobby car was just the right amount and we had the cash to pay for it too. plus the car he bought could easily be re-sold if the need arised as they are great 'doing-up' cars. one person has already offered him $3000 for it. we are also putting it on LPG to have cleaner emissions and currently we are getting a $2000 govt rebate because our car will be converted to LPG. so.. overall, it wasn't very large financial burden. the car would probably end up costing us $1500 in the end after all is said and done. in other words, the decision would be no where near as high strung as deciding on whether or not to buy a 25K truck.
you sound fairly confident that you can afford the repayments and that's great, but i didn't realise that you still had debt.

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Oh and we don't have much debt: just the car which will be paid off next year and a student loan which we still have 5 yrs on (at $70/mo).
now there is money better spent. at $600 a month you could finish off your other car loan in 6.5 months time and then your student loan will be done with, in 7 months time. so basically in 14 months you would have ZERO DEBT and savings to boot. what a great position to be in especially in a time like this. you will owe money to no one and are literally free to decide on where you'd like to go next in life.

THAT'S a far better way to spend the money that would have otherwise gone on the car.

think of it this way.. if you had the 25K in savings right now, would you hand it over entirely to buy the truck? if you answered no, ask yourself why.

dh was looking at car parts on ebay today and i reminded him that i wouldn't be 'approving' any car part purchase for the next X amount of months unless it was absolutely necessary (as in no stocking up on car parts just in case) and then i explained at how some people were really struggling to get out of debt, that unemployment is rising and things are not going to get much better over the next few years. i said that we are in a really good position right now because his job is still secure, he brings in a good income and if we buckle down we can be debt free in 6-7 months and that sadly is not a position many people can say they are in right now. he realised just how lucky we were today (from a financial perspective) and how we shouldn't take advantage of his good salary in a frivilous way because it may not be there forever, ya know?
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Forgive me if I'm misunderstanding, but in the OP you said you were putting $1000/month into savings, and you don't have much in the way of savings built up. So if you buy the truck with payments of say 500+ a month, insurance >100/month, gas around 400 a month, it all adds up to about....$1000 a month. Will you then be able to save nothing at all?

I vote for a kick-*ss television and a used car.
I should have been more clear. We have an emergency fund (6 mos worth of living expenses). We have a fund that is for our health insurance, the max amount we would have to pay if we all got in some car accident or something. We have a smaller emergency fund that is for random things like a big problem with the car that needs to be fixed or the dog gets hit by a car or something. Also I've been calculating and can put $10k down on the truck which brings our payments down quite a bit of course. I would never ever ever buy it if it left us with no way to save money every month.
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now there is money better spent. at $600 a month you could finish off your other car loan in 6.5 months time and then your student loan will be done with, in 7 months time. so basically in 14 months you would have ZERO DEBT and savings to boot. what a great position to be in especially in a time like this. you will owe money to no one and are literally free to decide on where you'd like to go next in life.

THAT'S a far better way to spend the money that would have otherwise gone on the car.

think of it this way.. if you had the 25K in savings right now, would you hand it over entirely to buy the truck? if you answered no, ask yourself why.
Now THAT sort of talk is exactly what I was looking for! Thank you!

Although I do have to say that if I had 25K, and I wasn't buying a house, I prob would go out and use it on the truck. Like you said though, if I'm debt free a year from now, and have, say, another year saving, we could go out and pay cash for a new truck. And that would be way cooler than financing it right now.
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you're welcome!

in my mind, there is nothing better than the freedom to live life how you please. and being debt free with savings will help you be there quicker.

it would be a good idea to pay the debt down and wait another year. the same car would have ALSO gone down in price, so you'd have less to pay off then too which is just a double bonus really.
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you're welcome!

in my mind, there is nothing better than the freedom to live life how you please. and being debt free with savings will help you be there quicker.

it would be a good idea to pay the debt down and wait another year. the same car would have ALSO gone down in price, so you'd have less to pay off then too which is just a double bonus really.
You're awesome. Thanks

I just told dh the whole thing. He was sooooo excited when I first started telling him I was thinking about buying the truck for him. Then when I explained your theory he's even more excited about waiting a bit, hooray.
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So yeah, he's materialistic, but being materialistic doesn't always mean you have to get the next newest thing all the time. I've been married to dh for 6 years. Before I knew him I would have said stuff can't make you happy. But you know what? Having a family AND having stuff makes him really freaking happy. He's a good person, if we can't afford what he wants then it doesn't get bought and he's still happy but he's even happier when I can buy those ... for him, so why not if we can afford it?
I think you are right, in that only you can make the best choice for your family but the perspective that I know I come from and I see a lot on this board coming from as well is that even if I can afford it (be that a huge truck or a big house or whatever), using resources is a decision that simply does not impact me or my family but my whole community. So when reading the responses, it might help to understand that many of them come from a different worldview than because I can have it, I should have it and it does not have any other cost or considerations to factor in. Just because I can afford a 2nd car or disposable diapers for example does not mean that I actually believe I should use up those resources and that oil. Driving to work in a gas guzzler for many is simply something that does not compute. So I think many of the answers come from that place, in addition to the whole avoid debt and consider the financial risks factor.
post #67 of 67
woohoooo! you've made my night with your decision too mama! way to go!!

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