post #21 of 21
Falling in love with someone who has kids is an entirely different experience than being with someone who is childless, isn't it!? I am really glad, though, that the child in this case is being given the opportunity to express her feelings, have a continuing relationship with you on some level, and can have healthy closure. That's got to mean a lot. It's horrible to have that extra layer of grief for you, though. Big hugs.