Ooooh, I'm glad I found this thread!
We're tandeming as well and we've had some minor glitches we've had to work through. I did read ATN when pregnant and was surprised at how handy it came in afterwards but could use a little advice on my little issue.
DS was slow to gain in the first two weeks (1oz in a week) so I had to time things differently with how they were nursing and ensure DS was getting enough. It was the first time I'd ever had to restrict DD's nursing in any way so we've both found that tough. We're hitting our groove now and I've slowly been able to add in more and more time for DD. Because of that momentary glitch, though, I'm more hyper aware of how much DS is getting and worried about DD draining me right before he might expect a feed - anyone else worry at all about this? I HATE saying no to DD and want to get back to having unrestricted nursing for her but I'm not quite sure how we do that...DD would nurse incessantly, and did until DS's arrival.
I do nurse them both at the same time a couple of times a day but prefer to nurse them separately. I haven't quite figured out the most comfy positions as DS is getting longer and sticking his feet in DD's face (which thankfully she doesn't seem to mind) and I kind of enjoy taking time for them each alone when possible.
I find it so pleasant and easy to nurse DS, no soreness or anything this time which is amazing - he does make DD's strong teethy latch feel like a hoover at the best of times though...
Overall, I'm so proud of us for what we've worked through to get to this point and am so grateful it's going this well.
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