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Need encouragement for working FT while at home with the kids  

post #1 of 10
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About two months ago I found myself with a WAH job opportunity that has expanded rapidly. Originally I thought it was going to be about 10 hours a week, but every couple of weeks since then it's grown - and this past week I worked 42 hours.

I'm currently doing work that will eventually be delegated to 2-3 staff people who will work under me. I'm doing writing/copyediting/research, managing correspondence and reports, and almost completely running the virtual office for a team of five people in different states. When I have staff, I will be able to make sure things don't fall through the cracks, but I will almost certainly be working 25-35 hours/week even then.

My work is very flexible and is nearly all computer-based, with a conference call or two here and there.

I have four kids ages 4-10 and we homeschool (unschool). We live rurally and go to town 2-3x a week for playdates and activities. So far I've been able to protect those blocks of time and work around them easily. The challenge is finding enough time to fit it all in, and so far I think we're doing pretty well.

My DH works out of the home but also has some computer-based contract jobs on the side that he does on evenings and weekends. That work is also flexible and will end in a matter of weeks. It's interesting seeing how my DH is stepping in to be with the kids, where before I was always the primary parent.

Getting childcare is not an option. But I'm able to drop my work instantly if the kids need me, and I am up and down at my desk pretty much all day long. The kids seem really fine with it. My youngest is very independent, my oldest two are really helpful with the youngers, and in the two months we have been doing this it's been just fine. Also the hours expectation is not set in stone and I can choose how much to work...but the job is a big one and I want to do well.

I guess I am just bewildered and feeling like I landed in Oz unexpectedly, because I didn't seek out this job, never imagined I would work fulltime or even halftime with kids this young, and after 10 years of SAHM (not working) it's a big adjustment. But the timing is perfect - my DH was nearly laid off at the time I got hired for this, and his job may not be stable with the economy changing. My new job is a lot more stable and would be insurance against him losing his. Also we can pay off our small debt and then save for a downpayment on land, which is our ultimate goal (to buy land, build, and be mortgage-free as soon as possible).

I could really use some encouragement from anyone who has BTDT with this level of hours working at home. (Please, no flames - I need positive support). I could never in a million years have imagined this situation or that it would work out for us, but I can imagine it now, and I'd like some reassurance that other people have successfully done something similar.
post #2 of 10
I haven't been in your situation- I am just figuring out how I can work PT from home with one little one! However, I wanted to offer some support. I think once things happen you will be able to find a routine that works for everyone. Good luck!
post #3 of 10
I don't have advice--sorry! But, if you need any underlings, I'd be glad to take some of the workload! My online writing/research job vanished, and I'm looking for another one.

We're unschoolers, too.
post #4 of 10
You sound a lot like me. I only have two kids though. I have changed our "school" hours to Wednesday-Sunday. I work pretty full days on Mondays and Tuesdays. This way when one of my WAH jobs doesn't allow me to work I have more time to school the kids on the weekend. We have school after lunch and I still work in the mornings on Wednesdays and Thursdays. On fridays we do leave the house and I catch up when I get home. We've gone through many stages and I think the schedule may be ever evolving. While I'm doing the bulk of the conferences call type of work while the little one is asleep on Mondays, Tuesdays, and very late during naptime on Wednesdays.

Sometimes I work at my desk and let them wonder throughout the house, sometimes I take my laptop into the living room to work but they know they are always welcome in my office. They also know to be quiet when they enter those doors.

So far this has really been having my cake and eating it too. I spend lots of time with my babies and still get to keep my mind engaged and get a pay check.
post #5 of 10
It's a hard road, and a rewarding one, and a mama's gotta do what a mama's gotta do, right?

It sounds to me like you really have your head on straight about this adventure and your family is supportive and wonderful. You're going to do great!

post #6 of 10
Do you enjoy it?

I've been doing a SAH job of about 20 hours a week since March. My job is sales so it requires more phone calls, and follow-up calls that should sound professional. Anyway, I hate it. My boss specifically asked me to ensure that there were never screaming kids in the background, so I've hid in my bathroom or closet more times than I can count to finish up a conversation. I also hate the up and down from the computer. It's distracting for me, and my kids get frustrated and act out. But my kids are also younger than yours.

Anyway, it sounds great in its flexibility. My job's biggest problem is the number of times I have to make phone calls. I always try to get people to switch to email so that I can work after the kids are asleep, but my boss doesn't like that either. OK, I'm rambling here so I'm going to wrap up this post by saying that I've decided to quit and do home daycare.
post #7 of 10
I don't have a lot of advice, but if you're needing to hire help, I'm available. We're moving to Putney as soon as our house sells.
post #8 of 10
My old job was exactly like you described - so much so that I wonder if you work for my old company.

It was extremely tough for me to manage with DD being home, because I couldn't focus on her and work at the same time. I ended up working when she was sleeping, and then eventually, she went to preschool, and I worked around her school schedule, which was much easier.

It sounds like it's working out for you pretty well, though. I think the key in your case is that you've got 4 kids, so they keep each other entertained. Mine is an only child, so she would get lonely if I was busy working all the time. I think that the hardest thing you'll be up against is motivating yourself, because when you work at home, it can be sooooo tempting to watch TV, or fold the laundry, or find some other task, because when you're at home, there's always something to be done.
post #9 of 10
I've just started what I hope to have as a full-time career at home. I do understand the need for some sort of schedule with the career, kids, family, etc. I do sometimes wonder how that would work when it gets that far. My kids (two) are also older and know when I need time to do things for others.

You've got my support! I agree with some other posters that you do seem to have a good system going and things are doing well for you! Trust in the flow of it. It's working and will evolve and work even better for you, your clients, and future employees.

post #10 of 10
I just started working full time from home, and am still trying to get the schedule juggle down, myself. Right now it involves more TV than I'd like, so I'm trying to make some adjustments there.

Watching this thread with much interest
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