Oh, I have a good one that's been building up for a long time!
As a bit of backstory, there's this woman in my grove (a pagan "church") who's perfectly fertile but has had one stillbirth, one miscarriage, and no living children. I am working on pregnancy #6, kid #1.
Due to my history of loss I know all to well how much it hurts when people rub their pregnancy in your face, so I did my best to not mention it much around her except when it was explicitly relevant. Notably, I developed SPD at 10 weeks which has limited my mobility significantly and which has a direct impact on my ability to attend grove functions. So, obviously, most of what this woman hears is about that, and only vaguely.
Today the SPD flared up pretty badly and I was in some excruciating pain, and complained about it on facebook. So I get not one, but 2! messages from her about how I'm not "appreciating" my pregnancy enough and that, and I'm quoting here, "every pain is a gift."
So apparently I'm supposed to be in excruciating pain for 6+ months and bear it all with a smile? While during her first pregnancy she was complaining about how even KICKS hurt. I've tried my best to be gracious and considerate, but no I don't get the same courtesy. (*$)@J)I)(#QLK@)$!! WHy yes I want to cuss her out, a lot. Not like she didn't have a bad habit of rubbing her pregnancy in my face shortly after my 2nd miscarriage.
This is the same woman who was giving me all sorts of horrible advice, monitoring what I consume and generally butting her nose in to things that weren't her business all. the. time. She's also (recently) delighted in telling me birth horror stories! She's like every bad stereotype of the way society treats pregnant women, all on her lonesome. I'm SO SICK of this, and finally went off on her (very very gently) tonight. If she keeps this up, oh the words they will fly!