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post #1 of 30
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I've been on freecycle for years elsewhere. I joined freecycle here. Apparently "Needed:" is not permitted. I was used to WANTED: NEEDED: OFFERED: TAKEN: and PPU:.

Okay, they rejected my post for that.

Now it's been rejected again. Why? Because in the past few months I posted 4 Wanted and 1 Offer. Uhm...yeah? 2 Wanted were identical (and was the same as the Wanted I was trying to post again). I have received NO responses for my Wanteds other than one person that was willing to give up a shoe box of legos but would have been an hour's drive for me (adding in that I don't know the shortcuts in a county without any STRAIGHT roads). It wasn't worth the trip or the "waste" of gas and time from my family. The offer I posted? A HUGE lot of homeschool curriculum that I could have sold! Instead I GAVE IT AWAY! Also they had the gall to tell me that posting more offers to wanteds somehow keeps more things out of the landfill. HOW? We are a large family, we live with the basics, we don't buy much extra, we use what we buy, we recycle what we can (metal items are recycled by the landlord's father, we use old oatmeal containers to add to our crafts supply), and the only thing we throw away is actual trash (unless someone wants my used meat wrappers, the paper off of soap bars, or empty cans of shaving cream?). I have even taken broken crayon bits and melted them to make bigger crayon chunks before.


What is the deal? I actually do have a couple of items to post as OFFERED:, but because I didn't post them first (was busy and could only chuck out an email here and there), I'm "rejected". Makes me not want to bother now.
post #2 of 30
Oh, you must be near me.

My local group is very rigid, too.
post #3 of 30
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Originally Posted by 4evermom View Post
Oh, you must be near me.

My local group is very rigid, too.
uhm, yep. I'm a bit "west o Philly" also.

And the waste of time dealing with the nit pickiness. I'm sorry I don't go collecting a bunch of junk just so I have stuff to offer all the time. And there is just ONE ITEM that we really could use...but need to repost it once in awhile, because of no replies.
post #4 of 30
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Originally Posted by mommaduck View Post
uhm, yep. I'm a bit "west o Philly" also.
: That's too funny.

Yeah, I never have any luck with Wanted posts and actually feel like people are worse about pick ups when I respond to THEIR wanted posts than when they are answering offer posts .

[a county without any STRAIGHT roads]

I'm finally figuring out this area after 40 years with a brief patch of the navigational sanity of the midwest in my early 20s.
post #5 of 30
If you are on the west end of the group, maybe try the neighboring freecycle group.
post #6 of 30
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Originally Posted by 4evermom View Post
: That's too funny.

with a brief patch of the navigational sanity of the midwest
Guess where I moved here FROM!
post #7 of 30
Thread Starter 
I'm in the middle of my county...
post #8 of 30
So, if you'd offered the homeschool materials as 5 separate posts you'd be allowed to post another "wanted" now?

Just out of curiosity, what item are you looking for?
post #9 of 30
Thread Starter 
A bed. One child had a loft bed that broke when we tried to take it apart to move downstairs. So I'm looking for another bed. I figured I would check out freecycle before heading to the store. She's sharing a bed with her sister for now.
post #10 of 30
I don't think four "wanteds" and 1 offer is bad! That's rediculous! The problem I have with Freecycle here is they are rude, nasty, and say they "need" (seemingly) rediculous things, like a King-sized Waterbed or a new car. If we had even a king size *mattress* maybe we could all sleep comfortably. But when *I* ask for something, it's horrible.

For example: before we found out we were having a boy, a bunch of people posted that they had some baby boy things to offer. I never heard anyone say the items had been taken, so when we found out we were having a boy, I posted a wanted saying that we could use some baby things. I got an e-mail back from someone offering a crib, a bouncy seat, and a glider. I sent them an e-mail asking if they were sure they wanted to give them away, and if I should come pick them up or if they wanted to drop them off. (I know that it was a lot, and in hindsight I should have known better...) They sent me a response saying that I didn't list a price I was willing to pay, and what they thought was a "reasonable" price. I replied that since it was FREEcycle, and selling things on Freecycle is against the rules, that they were offering them for free. She replied saying that I should get off my bum and get a job, like everyone else, and *work* for things, that I can't go around expecting people to give me a free ride and hand me things. : If I hadn't seen that someone had posted items they were offering, I wouldn't have asked for anything. I always offer stuff, as I'm trying to get rid of a bunch of junk (not really junk) that we don't use/need/that's taking up space. People always respond to my offers, but *never* tell me how they want to get them. :
post #11 of 30
The unspoken rule on our Freecycle is that the person getting the stuff picks up, and the person giving the things away doesn't have to schlepp out to deliver anything.
post #12 of 30
I was a mod for the local group this summer and got kicked out because I approved a post that included 'blank music tapes.'

The owner's reason was that we could not know if they were really blank. We couldn't go over to the house of everyone posting 'blank media' and verify that they were, so this crossed the 'no posting of media' rule.

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post #13 of 30
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no posting of media? I never heard of that! That would include books! (you get how this is a slippery slope)
post #14 of 30
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Software and other forms of taped media fall under various Copyright and End User License Agreements (EULA). Because of the various laws regarding the distribution of these media forms, the owners of your local Freecycle group have elected to NOT allow the posting of Offers or Wants for Software, CDs, Cassettes, DVDs, VHS, and other forms of REPRODUCIBLE media in order to abide by the Freecycle mantra of Free, Legal, and Appropriate for All Ages.

You also can't offer coupons, Boxtops, or gift certificates here.
post #15 of 30
my freecycle owner is edit happy.

the first time i wrote i guess i did try to "sell" my offered item. so she fixed it to just make it bare bones, here is what i have do you want it. (i wasn't actually trying to sell, just trying to make it sound good.)

but i've since learned the etiquette and she still edits my posts. so much so that they never come across exactly how they should. it makes me so angry. i've had to explain to people multiple times that the ad is not what it said, or that it was more or less than what eventually got posted. :
post #16 of 30
My biggest gripe is when people list the things they want, like a new TV etc. ("we are in desperate need for a TV for our son's room") or ask for things and then want you to drop them off as well. I understand having limitations, but how can you ask for someone to bring you things? I'm also fairly certain that there are people taking things and reselling them on Craigslist for profit. GAH!
post #17 of 30
Hmmm... I practically never use Freecycle around here, because it's ENORMOUS... but I remember when I signed up, they were really really clear: it's not a want-ad board. An *occasional* WANTED: for something that people might not think to post was ok, but in general, they discouraged asks.

Sounds like your area has the same policy, but isn't as clear about it.
post #18 of 30
The worst thing on my group is that even if you respond within five minutes, you're never the first responder. Clearly, some people have set up auto response emails, and folks that don't post a lot of offers aren't wise to that. It really bums me out -- it's like the scalpers getting through to buy tickets before the regular folks do!
post #19 of 30
You might want to post on your local craigslist instead ... more sanity!

On our local freecycle (somewhat farther west of philly) there is apparently a woman who asks for everything, even useless things. For fun, the mods posted "large box with address on it" (or something like that) and sure enough, the lady came and got it. Apparently her house is full, her front yard is full, and the township is complaining ... or something like that.
post #20 of 30
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Originally Posted by Ironica View Post
Hmmm... I practically never use Freecycle around here, because it's ENORMOUS... but I remember when I signed up, they were really really clear: it's not a want-ad board. An *occasional* WANTED: for something that people might not think to post was ok, but in general, they discouraged asks.

Sounds like your area has the same policy, but isn't as clear about it.
Actually, their rule is "two Wanted ads a week". I haven't even been doing that much.
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