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So here's an update. I went back and forth over whether to even go for this ultrasound so early. In the end I went because I thought maybe it would reassure me considering a miscarriage in Sept. As it turns out, it was too early to give any information. There was a yolk sack but no heartbeat. Meaning, so the doc tells me, it's either too early or the pregnancy isn't viable.
Why did they send me in there when I'm not going to get anything but more stress? Why are they doubting viability already? Even if it wasn't viable, what could I do about it? Then the OB (I normally would see midwives) tells me I "need" to come back next week to do another one. I told her I wouldn't. If it wasn't viable, I'd rather go through it at home rather than wait for the inevitable. She was shocked that I wouldn't want to find out if I'm pregnant. I AM PREGNANT! Who is she to cast doubt? I'm just furious. I'm thinking of either venting to my midwife or leaving practice altogether. Thanks for "listening". |
Based on what you wrote (obviously, I wasn't there) I don't think the doc was doubting viability. She just gave you the two scenarios so you would know. Also, many women (when a heartbeat isn't seen, especially because the scan was too early) are worried and want to see the heartbeat to reassure themselves, not to confirm a m/c. She offered you another u/s so you wouldn't have to worry yourself for another 4 weeks.
While I know you're annoyed, think about how many patients this doctor sees every day, how many viable and nonviable pregnancies she sees. I worked in OB for 3 years, I can't tell you how many people I saw come back a week after an ultrasound that was done too early and were SO relieved to see that little heartbeat. I doubt she meant any offense.
Anyway, I'm sorry you're upset.
I'm sure everything will be fine! 










