yes i have an active side and i've been wondering about it. it's weird. when it's the left side, it's really crampy for a long time around O and into the LP. then it goes away with AF. this month, musta been the right side b/c i didn't feel a thing. weird. i haven't been to the gyno since the 6 week post partem checkup (2 and a half years ago)
and have an appt. this month to get checked out for all the regular stuff plus i figure questions like this (i.e., what's up with that)
AFMy cycle, i'm nearing the end of 2ww. i've felt mildly crampy like PMS for most of the LP and got a little paranoid last night when nursing toddler told me "empty" in reference to my breasts. i kinda panicked that what if i was pregnant, not that that's not the goal in all of this, i've been timing BD to suspected ovulation and all... just i guess i'm not ready to quit nursing! i almost took a test this morning just to be sure, but peed before i remembered it, and at this point, DD told me "full" (not empty") several times today (i ate a ton of oatmeal to make sure it was) and i'm thinking it was just "low tide" end of cycle low breastmilk.
it's pretty strange for me to be obsessing to myself about wanting to CLW... when i found out i was pregnant with DD, i didn't think i'd want to bf at all... now here i am on the other side of the coin totally.
i still do want another child though, and at 40... you know, i'd like it sooner than later for a lot of reasons.
but i also think that i'm personally going to be better off the less i think about TTC. this is a great thread for support in TTC. i just don't know about the roller coaster of timing intercourse each month and then wondering worrying waiting every other two week interval.
i guess i'm just feeling a little melancholy. sounds PMSy, doesn't it? i'll update when AF arrives or otherwise by the end of the week. thanks for listening!