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post #1 of 11
11/10/08 at 2:50pm
Thread Starter 
I don't know how much more I can take.
About five months...has it been that long...I miscarried. Shortly after that my husband decided he no longer wanted to be with me. Three weeks ago my mother was struck by a car and was killed. I may be losing my house and my oldest is moving away to another state.

I wonder how much more can I take because I am not doing so good with what I have lost so far.
post #2 of 11
11/10/08 at 2:53pm
Mama, I couldn't read and no post.

Hug

I'll keep you and your family in my prayers
post #3 of 11
11/10/08 at 4:30pm


so sorry mama. I can't imagine all that at once. I hope you are seeking support during this time.

XOXO
B
post #4 of 11
11/10/08 at 11:20pm
I couldn't read and not post. I will be praying for you.
post #5 of 11
11/11/08 at 12:21am
I'm so sorry. You'll be in my thoughts.
post #6 of 11
11/11/08 at 12:52am
Thread Starter 
Thank you all.
I haven't started to seek support. I've been trying to just take it all in. It really is a shock to the system. I know I need to tho. Can't even imagine where to start. I don't have very many IRL friends that are close to help. The ones I have are going through their own drama.
I've started a new job, but its slow in starting. I have until February to find a new place.

My mom's death is devastating to me and my boys. My 11 year old was closest to her. They would go out to lunch or dinner together, go to the park and play and such.
Because the police kept her personal affects, the hospital didn't reach me til 5 hours after she was hit. She died 5 minutes before we got there. All her contact infor was in her wallet, if the police had turned it over we would have been notified so much sooner.

I still can't think about all that has been going on in these few short months. The death of my baby and my dh's (d not meaning dear either) reaction was a blow. I can't believe someone can be so cruel and callous. But I guess I can. I mean he told me just a couple of months later that he was done with me.

I hope things start looking up.

Thanks for the thoughts and prayers.
post #7 of 11
11/11/08 at 1:22am
post #8 of 11
11/11/08 at 4:25am
I'm so sorry.
post #9 of 11
11/11/08 at 4:40am
Wow, mama you have been through so much in such a short period of time. Please be as gently as possible with yourself right now. Please seek counseling. If you cant get into a routine couseling session know that there are emergency hotlines out there with folks you can just talk to, if need be.
If you dont have friends that can help perhaps a church, community center, parent center, etc. Could help with childcare, someone to talk to, food help, just so you can have a little more time to breathe. And keep breathing. Deeply. love and peace to you.
post #10 of 11
11/11/08 at 10:49am
hugs to you.
post #11 of 11
11/11/08 at 12:30pm
Shianne, I am in tears. I am so sorry you're hurting so much. Please, PLEASE talk to someone in the congregation. Find a therapist. I know you're not ready. I know that. I wasn't ready for a very long time. But when I finally did get help, it was relief.

Why is your 11 yr old moving? (PM me if you need to.)

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