Wabi Sabi
02-17-2004, 05:28 PM
Since I do not yet have a midwife, I have yet another question for all of you wise, been-there, done-that, experienced mamas!
I hate to admit it, but I'm a bit out of shape. Nothing too horrible, but I have NEVER in my life been one to exercise at all. I don't exactly lead a sedentary life- I am a childcare provider who spends my days keeping up with toddlers- but at the same time I'm not really as fit as I ought to be. The main reason that I've never really been an exercise freak is that I really just have never found anything that I enjoy doing. DH and I take short day hikes on a fairly regular basis when the weather is nice (certainly not now) but other than that I've never found anything that I enjoy enough to do on a consistent basis.
I want to have a natural birth and feel that I need to get my body strong and prepared in order to do so. I eat fairly well (not perfect, but still far better than the average American woman) and my weight isn't a problem, but I still tire easily, have low energy, etc.
As soon as we found out that I was pregnant one of the first things DH said was, "This is going to be the hardest thing that your body ever has to do and you've got to get prepared! You're going to have to commit to working out several days a week even if it means I have to drag you to the gym! You have nine months to get yourself in absolute peak physical condition!"
I explained to him that it wasn't a good idea to overdo it; I know that I shouldn't try to run a marathon if I've never even run a mile, but within realistic limitations, how much can I do? What is safe?
I hate to admit it, but I'm a bit out of shape. Nothing too horrible, but I have NEVER in my life been one to exercise at all. I don't exactly lead a sedentary life- I am a childcare provider who spends my days keeping up with toddlers- but at the same time I'm not really as fit as I ought to be. The main reason that I've never really been an exercise freak is that I really just have never found anything that I enjoy doing. DH and I take short day hikes on a fairly regular basis when the weather is nice (certainly not now) but other than that I've never found anything that I enjoy enough to do on a consistent basis.
I want to have a natural birth and feel that I need to get my body strong and prepared in order to do so. I eat fairly well (not perfect, but still far better than the average American woman) and my weight isn't a problem, but I still tire easily, have low energy, etc.
As soon as we found out that I was pregnant one of the first things DH said was, "This is going to be the hardest thing that your body ever has to do and you've got to get prepared! You're going to have to commit to working out several days a week even if it means I have to drag you to the gym! You have nine months to get yourself in absolute peak physical condition!"
I explained to him that it wasn't a good idea to overdo it; I know that I shouldn't try to run a marathon if I've never even run a mile, but within realistic limitations, how much can I do? What is safe?