May Mamas...End of April

[kanpope]

OOPS...totally missed the May-bee thread! Well, can we start a new one since there are so many pages? :o

Just want to see how all of you are doing at this late date!
We had our home visit with the mw Vicki on Monday and it was great! She brought a great energy to the house and made all of us very excited for the birth! We reviewed procedures and such for the birth. She told us some things about how she operates, as far as when we can talk about things and when we just need to follow instructions :-). It was so neat to have a prenatal visit on my own bed! It was just sooooo awesome! She took a tour of the house and she was excited about the size of our tub and bathroom! The dogs were GREAT! They were totally mellow and listened so well. Dd stayed home from school to be here. Both the kids were so cute. As Vicki checked my belly and listened to the baby's heartbeat, ds stood next to me and rubbed my hand. Dd sat in the background with dh and watched so intently. Vicki offered to check my cervix but since dh is going out of town on the 27th, we are going to go see her before we take him to the airport. She will check me then. If I am thinned out or dialated...my man stays home! LOL

So, next Monday, I have the green light to go into labor! But it could still be another 5 weeks! I have been feeling a TON of pelvic and cervix pressure, not to mention the feeling like my hips are coming "unglued"! LOL Vicki said that it is the baby trying to engage into my uterus! WOW! Working with Vicki, I have learned so much this time around. There are just so many things that an OB just says are "normal" and a midwife explains. She loves to educate her clients! I really like that! Anyway, things are going well.

My mom and MIL will be here soon - my mom on the 20th and MIL on the 30th. I am excited for them to come! It think it will be fun to have a house full of supportive women!

I am going to try and have this baby starting on May 1st. I think that I will just try EPO (with my mw's ok), sex, and lots of walking. I don't think that I could handle nipple stim. I have heard that the herbs (like the cohoshs) make for a harder labor (just like pit) or maybe I heard that you can have unproductive contractions unless the baby is truly ready. Since many of those techniques will not work unless your body and the baby are ready for labor. YKWIM?

Have you had any feelings or intuitions about when the baby would come? Did you think of dates through your pg? I have been feeling (it may just be hoping, since the mw is going out of town) that the baby is going to come before May 6th (she is leaving 7,8,9). It sounds so silly when I write it out. I just feel like I may go earlier instead of later. But I refuse to go to the hospital, so I am sitting in the tub and drinking some wine while she is gone! :-)

Anyway, that's all for now! How are you? :D

[Sarah'sMama]

Thanks for the new thread kanpope! I'll come out to play! :wave

Had my 38 week check today. All is well in pg land for me. Didn't gain any weight in a week. :banana Baby still really high up in my ribs, which is just fine with me, since my OB is leaving town for the weekend, and I really don't care for the OB who will be covering for him. My OB is in a solo practice, but I know the other solo practice OB covers for him,, and I just don't get a good vibe from him, so I'll be sitting with my legs crossed and avoiding laughing too hard or sneezing this weekend. :LOL I have a feeling it *might* be next weekend, but :shrug I only say that b/c dh has to work next weekend, making things more difficult. I delivered my first on a weekend that dh was working, and I specifically did not want to go into labor that weekend either. So it will be my luck to have to labor by myself while dh finishes work. :( Mainly b/c there is no backup for him on the weekends, not b/c he doesn't care. Plus, bil/sil who will be taking care of dd#1 while I'm in the hospital are having a friend in from California next weekend, so all signs point to it being the worst weekend to go into labor, so its a sure bet.

I'm so excited, I'm going to book my Mom's ticket here tonight. I just have to check with her tonight on the phone the weekend I picked to make sure it is OK with her. Unfortunately she'll only be able to come for a Thurs-Sunday visit but I'm thrilled she'll be able to come meet this new little person. Even better, the price I had been seeing on NWA's website is now $40 cheaper. So that makes me a happy camper. I think I'm going to have her come the weekend of May 20-23. Dh's and my 5 year wedding anniversary is the 21'st, so hoping we can *maybe* sneak away for an hour or so after the kiddos are sleeping (well, at least our 2yo anyway).

I'm really chatty about myself today. Feeling a little self-centered :LOL

Take care May Mamas!

[kanpope]

Originally posted by Sarah'sMama
I'm really chatty about myself today. Feeling a little self-centered :LOL

I think that all my pregnancies, I have been pretty much self-centered! :LOL I am constantly thinking about how I feel, about labor, about birth, about people being here for me, about the new baby, about what the new baby needs, what I want the new baby to have...and then I try to save a fair share for my dd and ds! :LOL Poor kids, when I am pg, they watch way too much TV! Then, I have to wean them! :splat

Anyway, don't feel bad! These are the only times in our lives when it really is all about us! :LOL

[mittendrin]

sarah's mama, where in NE are you?

[Sarah'sMama]

I'm in Maine Anika-are you in NE too? We're having the best weather here today. 60 and sunny! Took dd oustside for a ride in the wagon, she had a ball!

[KKmama]

Here's a link to the old thread...

http://www.mothering.com/discussions/showthread.php?s=&postid=1344197#post1344197

Do you think we should do some sort of a roll call? We have a ton of names on our "list", but not a ton of participation, and I was wondering how much we might be wondering when May rolls around... I could do something really dorky like put an asterisk next to "active" names (any better ideas are welcome!). And I think there are some recent joiners who aren't on this list...

User name (name), #which, EDD

Mcsarahb, 4/29 Its a GIRL!!!
Pottermamma, #2 4/30?
Sandra Dee, #5, 4/30? or 5/8?
Sarah'sMama (Sherri), #2, 5/1 It's a GIRL!!!
Dandjsmama (Wendy), #3, 1st week of May
NorthernLight, #2, early May
Fiddlefern, #1, ??, It's a BOY!!! (Luke)
Frankies_Mama (Julie), #2, 5/2 It's a GIRL!!! (Cecelia Louise)
Shalom, #3, 5/3
GoodWillHunter, #5, 5/3
Bekahsmom (Robbie-Lynn), #2, 5/3
Mommasuz (Suzy), #2, 5/4 It's a GIRL!!!!
MorningDove, #1, 5/5
BurnsideMommy (Rissa), #2, 5/5, It's a BOY!!!! (Hunter)
Andriagirlie, #2, 5/6
KKmama (Kristine), #2, 5/7, unmedicated hospital VBAC
Owen&mama (Dinah), #2, 5/10
Learning #1 5/10
Kanpope (Nicole), #3, 5/10, homebirth, It's a BOY!!!
JesikaJ (Jesika), #1, 5/10
Defenestrator, #2, 5/12
Mollyeilis, #1, 5/12
Marbles (Rayna), #3, mid-May
SquirmyWorm, #2, mid-May
Mere, #2, mid-May
Babywearingmama (Mary), #3, mid-May?
Pipermomma, #2, 5/14
PoeticNSoul, #3, 5/15
The Lucky One,#2, 5/18
Mamameg (Megan), #1ish, 5/18, It's a GIRL!!
TwirlGirl (Carla), #4, 5/19
Gus'smama (Elsa), #2, 5/19
Renae, #1, 5/19, It's a BOY!!!
Merpk (Amy), #4?, 5/20
Anothermama #2, 5/20-ish, It's a BOY!!!
2nurturemore, #6, 5/21
Phishmama (Julie), #3, 5/23
Kittymama, #1, 5/23
Theelves, #2, 5/23, It's a GIRL!!! (Kathryn Nadine)
A&L+1, #1, edd 5/23
Scbegonias (Stephie), #1, 5/24
Heatherfeather, #1, 5/25
Andrea0408 (Andrea), #3, 5/25, It's a GIRL!!
Kidatheart (Jennifer), #1, 5/26
Jacqulyn, 5/26
Sagesmamacrystal, #2, 5/28
PattyCakes, #1, 5/28
jakobsmami (annika) #2 5/28
Karenpl, #7, late May
Chanin2000, #2, 5/30
Liz-hippymom, #2 or #3?, 5/31
Jacqueline, #1, late May
Kids'ncows, #3, late May, unmedicated hospital VBAC
TurboClaudia (Claudia), #1, late May/ early June
OlyMama (Trish), #2, ??
DawnaRose (Dawn), #3, ??
Ahimsa, ??

If you have any additions or changes, please feel free to pm me or post a message, and I will update as soon as I can.

[KKmama]

Ug, I realized Friday that I had been feeling a little puffy and headachy all week, so I called the drs. office... no big deal, told to rest. Then dh later told me he'd been feeling the same... wondered if it was just the tummy bug lingering. Anyway, I've felt great this weekend, I've done a lot of yard work, get to pee in a cup tomorrow and see if anything's up (I doubt it, at this point).

Kanpope and Sarah's mom, I have been thinking that about myself! The world revolves around me, me, me! ;)

I feel like I have the green light (as of tomorrow) too... I was 37 wks on Friday, my doula's out of town this weekend, but then back tomorrow for the long haul. I feel like a bit of a dork admitting this, but I still have my + HPT. Tomorrow, I'm going to burn it or destroy it or otherwise get rid of it (did this in my last pg, too)... symbolizes to me that I'm ready to give birth....

I had dh check my cervix on Friday (didn't want the dr. to do it), and as I expected, no dilation or effacement yet. No big deal.

Sarah, I like both your name suggestions. I think Delta June has more rhythm to it, though.

Morning Dove, sorry about your BP etc. Hopefully, your MW is just doing a bunch of "CYA" activity. How "low" is your iron, out of curiosity? Mine is ~34, and the dr. acts like it's a big crime, but hey, I'm taking the iron and feel great, and I *know* it was lower in my last pg.

[kanpope]

Originally posted by KKmama
I feel like a bit of a dork admitting this, but I still have my + HPT. Tomorrow, I'm going to burn it or destroy it or otherwise get rid of it (did this in my last pg, too)... symbolizes to me that I'm ready to give birth....

I keep my HPTs forever and out them in the kid's baby books!

[Jacqueline]

Hi everyone,
Hope you all had good weekends. We did, but it was too short! I'm very envious of those of you who only have a week or two left of your jobs. I guess I'm not far behind...only 3 1/2 weeks left for me, but it feels longer!

Sarah-I like Delta Katherine a bit more than Delta June. But, they're both nice and Delta is unique.

MorningDove-I understand feeling like the midwife at times can be a bit more concerned about things than I think she would be. Mine had me cut out white sugar & flour and my glucose wasn't even that hight by dr. standards (118). Now that I've cut it out, however, it's in the 80-90 range, so she's much happier. Also, she's been a bit concerned by my bp (normally in the 120/70-75 range) but last week it was 118/62 and she was happier. So, I guess it is a little bit of CYA. I also think in my case it's because we're having a home birth. I don't think she even wants me to approach any kind of high-risk category, so she's highly preventative. I'll take it if it's what I have to do to birth the baby at home, though, so I'm okay with it. Just a little surprised by it.

I just started week 34, so I'm still on visits every two weeks. Last one went well. We talked about getting the group B strep test (or not) at my 37 week visit. I need to research it a bit more, but I'm leaning toward having it. My next visit is next Friday, April 30 and since my mom will be in town, I'm taking her with me! She's been a bit concerned about the homebirth, so I'm hoping if she meets my mw, she might feel a bit better about things. I think my mom thinks it's weird that I'm asking her to go, but oh well. Small steps...

Baby shower this weekend and next, so it will be busy, but hopefully we'll get a lot of the stuff we need.

Have a great weekend anyway!

[kanpope]

Originally posted by Jacqueline
I just started week 34, so I'm still on visits every two weeks. Last one went well. We talked about getting the group B strep test (or not) at my 37 week visit. I need to research it a bit more, but I'm leaning toward having it. My next visit is next Friday, April 30 and since my mom will be in town, I'm taking her with me! She's been a bit concerned about the homebirth, so I'm hoping if she meets my mw, she might feel a bit better about things.

I decided to do the GBS test because in the even that I have to transfer. I don't know if all hosptials are like this but around here, if you don't come in with a negative test, they assume you are postive and put you on an antibiotic drip! :gross I have had two negatives with my other kiddos, so I am counting on this one being the same. If it is positive, my mw will treat me and I can still have my hb. I am pretty sure. Well, I am having the test tomorrow.

My mom is coming into town tomorrow and my MIL will be here on the 30th. I know that she is apprehensive about the hb, so I am a little nervous about the vibe that she will bring. My mom and dad met my mw and loved her! They are totally comfortable (or so they say) with the hb. I hoping my MIL will have a chance to meet her and hopefully it will ease any concerns that she may have. It is so lame, she has said more than once (only once to me, I got annoyed) that she is afraid that the baby could drown in a waterbirth! UGH!:rolleyes: DUH! She also loves to tell us horror stories that ended up well. "Her babies were born at 28 weeks and they did not think that were going to survive. It was horrible. But they made it and they are doing fine!" :splat I don't want to hear anything but happy hb stories! :LOL

Okay, ended up venting a little! Sorry!:)

[pottermamma]

Hey there!!!!

Had an appt Firday and my BP continues to rise:( So, bummed, but no other symptoms and it goes down considerably (from 120/90 to 120/62) when I lie on my left side....so I am spending lots of time on my left side. We did some blood work as well cause my blood from last time had coagulated prior to being tested??? So, this is actually good cause she ordered a liver screen, which can also tell us if the high BP is a concern. After this appt I decided I'm ready any time, then we can just avoid the whole BP thing ....but Ds is sick now with a horrid cough...so, we'll be waiting on the birth now (like I really have a choice right?????!!!!):)

Re the Vit K...We choise not to do it with Ds and were not going to do it with this baby either...but, When talking to our midwife she suggested we do it...she said she used to be of the mind that it is the parent's choice and she would not push one way or the other (she really doesn't on most things) but she had an experience about a year ago with one of her clients that has led her to advocate for the shot, although she will support whatever decision the parents make. She had a client whose son was born beautifully, no brusing (I actually said the same thing, "well I'd do it if the birth were traumatic or there was visible bruising") no trauma...then about 6 weeks later internal bleeding and he died. Unfortunately the peds should have caught the problem, but had the baby had the vit K at birth there would not have been one at all. I guess there are two forms of the problem, one that happens directly after birth and one that can linger and not be caught till a few weeks post partum. I don't want to freak anyone into doing anything, just want to share another story related to the one McsarahB shared on the last thread. It doesn't just happen after brusing or a traumatic birth. This lady had a great birth, healthy baby, no problems at all...until....
Needless to say, We will be doing the shot this time...and I don't feel pressured, I just feel like this is important and have a different point of view I didn't see/learn with Ds. KWIM???
Isn't it great though that we have do choices and know that we don't have to just accept what our care providers tell us...there are so many options and it is learning about all the possible benefits and risks or each that is important, so we can then make the decision that best suits us. (OK enough rambling!!!!!)

Blessings to all of you...can't wait to see who goes first:love

[kanpope]

Originally posted by pottermamma
Re the Vit K...We choise not to do it with Ds and were not going to do it with this baby either...but, When talking to our midwife she suggested we do it...she said she used to be of the mind that it is the parent's choice and she would not push one way or the other (she really doesn't on most things) but she had an experience about a year ago with one of her clients that has led her to advocate for the shot, although she will support whatever decision the parents make. She had a client whose son was born beautifully, no brusing (I actually said the same thing, "well I'd do it if the birth were traumatic or there was visible bruising") no trauma...then about 6 weeks later internal bleeding and he died.

We were planning on forgoing the vit K shot but your post got me thinking (thank you! :D) and I decided to do a little reading. This is from http://www.babyreference.com/VitaminKinjectORnot.htm

(emphasis is mine)

Vitamin K: Inject or Not

The problem of bleeding into the brain occurs mainly from 3 to 7 weeks after birth in just over 5 out of 100,000 births (without vitamin K injections); 90% of those cases are breastfed infants,3 because formulas are supplemented with unnaturally high levels of vitamin K. Forty percent of these infants suffer permanent brain damage or death.

The cause of this bleeding trauma is generally liver disease that has not been detected until the bleeding occurs. Several liver problems can reduce the liver's ability to make blood-clotting factors out of vitamin K; therefore extra K helps this situation. Infants exposed to drugs or alcohol through any means are especially at risk, and those from mothers on anti-epileptic medications are at very high risk and need special attention.

Such complications reduce the effectiveness of vitamin K, and in these cases, a higher level of available K could prevent the tragic intracranial bleeding. This rare bleeding disorder has been found to be highly preventable by a large-dose injection of vitamin K at birth.

The downside of this practice however is an 80% increased risk of developing childhood leukemia. While a few studies have refuted this suggestion, several tightly controlled studies have shown this correlation to be most likely.4,5

Apparently the cell division that continues to be quite rapid after birth continues to depend on precise amounts of vitamin K to proceed at the proper rate. Introduction of levels that are 20,000 times the newborn level, the amount usually injected, can have devastating consequences.

It goes on to say...

The breastfed infant can be supplemented with several low oral doses of liquid vitamin K8 (possibly 200 micrograms per week for 5 weeks, totaling 1 milligram, even more gradual introduction may be better). Alternatively, the nursing mother can take vitamin K supplements daily or twice weekly for 10 weeks. (Supplementation of the pregnant mother does not alter fetal levels but supplementation of the nursing mother does increase breastmilk and infant levels.)

Something for all of us to think about!

edited to add:
Here are a few other links with info ...
http://www.gentlebirth.org/archives/vitklong.html
http://www.wyethnutritionals.com/answers/q15.htm
http://www.foodstandards.gov.uk/multimedia/pdfs/evm_k.pdf
http://dspace.dial.pipex.com/lrf-/press/comment_vitamin_k_controversy.htm
http://www.findarticles.com/cf_dls/m0950/5_108/80221908/p1/article.jhtml

[KKmama]

Had my prenatal appt. this morning... bp lower than last week (90/50, normal for me... last week was something like 110/60), no trace of protein, weigh less than last week, no headaches, no GI stuff, etc. so we're assuming it *was* a bug (dr. said something's been going around) and that I'm over it.

Found out the evil dr. has not had her baby yet :eek Oh well. If I go into labor before she does and she's on call, I'll just have to deal with it.

Pottermama, I'm sending you bp lowering vibes.

[mcsarahb]

Hi all-

kanpope, thanks for that info re: injected vs. oral Vit. K. I think we will be going for the oral doses for the babe ourselves. I hadn't heard that about the link between leukemia and the injection; we had just chosen the oral to avoid the shot for the babe. But good info and now I'm even more glad we're getting it.

Not much new here. Mw appointment tomorrow and I think I will have one of them check my cervix. I have had tons of BH in the last week, very low down that feel kinda like menstrual cramps. I *think it's the cervix ripening/dilating kind (my mw said something to that effect) so I decided to go ahead and get checked. We'll see.

Otherwise trying to take lots of walks, do lots of squats, etc. I want to get this baby going! Can't wait to meet her! :love

Oh, and thanks for the responses on the names. I think we are going with something else, after all, but I will keep Delta on my list for next time. :p

Sarah

[kanpope]

Originally posted by mcsarahb
I have had tons of BH in the last week, very low down that feel kinda like menstrual cramps. I *think it's the cervix ripening/dilating kind (my mw said something to that effect) so I decided to go ahead and get checked. We'll see.

What is BH?

[owen&mama]

I've given up on keeping up with you all, but I did want to pop in and give you all a May Mama :hug and lots of peaceful, easy birth energy.

BH is Braxton-Hicks, kanpope, and I've been having them like crazy over the last several weeks. Luckily they are doing something and I am currently about 3 cm and at least 50% effaced. I know I can be this way for another month, but at least that's 3 cm I don't have to do in active labor.

My hypno-birthing class is over and I've been practicing when I can. DH and I are planning a "hypno-birthing date" or two just to get some last minute practicing done without our Toddler on the Edge around. He's been keeping us on our toes, which might explain all the contractions! :rolleyes: I am so looking forward to this labor and birth as a result of these classes. I know it will be the experience that I missed out on the first time.

Anyway, I'm at 38 weeks and praying I make it through the next two weeks of work. Most likely I will, which I am sure will reveal my winning personality as the time drags on.

To all of you agonizing over the different intervention decisions, good luck. My experience has been that one agonizes to such an extent until the final decision, and then, boom, it's done and you move on to the next. There are so many risks we take in this world, so once you've come to peace with your decision, just know that you've done the best you can for your baby no matter what that decision is...and let it go. We really wrapped ourselves around the axle about every decision when pregnant with ds. We made some decisions in 'favor' of the medical community and some in 'favor' of the more holistic community. I found that in both arguments there were gaping holes, but in the long run I have a healthy, happy two-year-old, so nothing else matters. Call it luck, call it the right decisions...I'll never know.

And if you've read this far, forgive what appears to be some sort of advice. I usually don't vent my opinions on the boards since these things are such a personal decision and I'd hate to think my opinion was any better conceived than someone else's. In any event, there you have it.

I look forward to hearing all the birth stories and to experiencing my own! :) We're all so terribly lucky, aren't we?

Peace to you all!

[mittendrin]

kanpope, thanx for the info on the vit k. i think i'll go with a supplement for myself since i'll be bf'ing.

i am just wondering about this...i thought jewish people wait 2 weeks to circumcise when there was no vit k given, to prevent bleeding. i heard that the baby's body starts producing vit k at around that time. so why are all those deaths linked to the fact that the babies didn't get the shots, when they happend at 6 weeks or so. couldn't there have been something else wrong? or did i miss sth?
i hope all you firsttime mamas are going to your LLL meetings to get prepared for breastfeeding. the people i met there are just wonderful, finally some likeminded people.

sherri, i'm in manchester, nh. yep, sure is beautiful weather, we took ds to the beach yesterday and he was digging in the sand like a madman.
i think i'm a bit relaxeder (?) about the new baby and how ds is gonna react. i was so worried for a while about taking mommytime away from him that i even sometimes wondered, if i shouldn't have waited a year to get preggers again. maybe i feel better, cause he finally decided to sleep in his crib all night long with waking up maybe 2x insted of rolling around in our bed all night and kicking me in the belly.:LOL

got my next mw appt tomorrow and i suppose the gtt i took two weeks ago as well as the iron test went fine since i haven't heard from them. told them so!! so much for unneccesary testing...

so mamas, what are you eating these days? still as healthy as in the beginning, or do you think you can let yourselves go now that the baby is almost cooked anyways? my diet still looks the same as in the beginning....right now i'm having vanilla icecream with strawberry topping. hm:confused:

[merpk]

... by jakobsmami
... i thought jewish people wait 2 weeks to circumcise when there was no vit k given, to prevent bleeding ...


No, they don't.

Jewish people have the bris milah at 8 days unless there is a problem like severe jaundice or the baby is very premature. Vit K does not enter into the equation at all. It is irrelevant.

8 days.

[Mama Faery]

I can't get over these smilies or pretty colors! :dust
I think all the faery ones are my favorites! Hehe.
Anyway...I don't have a lot to say...is this thread for everyone to keep up with where we all are at any given time? And the abbreviations kind of confuse me: I've seen dd, dh, and all sorts of stuff I am not savvy on...but I'm a dork. Sorry for the silly questions. :hippie I'm new to this forum and I have mommy-brain!
So yes, this is my first child, I'm 36 weeks along as of tomorrow (so that makes me due on the 19th of May), and I am in the phase of my pregnancy where I am just not comfortable! My back hurts, my legs/feet hurt, my wrists and shoulders hurt, my lower pelvis hurts! Every friggin' thing pains me! :( Not to mention my little one's body parts getting jammed up in my ribs!
I've scheduled a prenatal massage from a professional who was HIGHLY recommended by someone in my yoga class, for next week! I am so looking forward to it, because, I tell ya, it is SO needed right now!
I am on my "maternity leave" (actually, I quit my job so I can be a SAHM for a little while...not sure how long since money will be tight but I will do what I can!) now so the realization that this birth is just around the corner just blows me away! I am so excited and scared a little, too. :eek My baby shower is this weekend and I can't wait!
Not much else going on though...I go to my OB this Thursday. Still trying to find a pediatrician and really really enjoying the fine weather here in New England. I try to go out whenever I can.
Good luck and hello to all you fellow May mamas! I'm really excited to find such a great forum!
:fairy

-Renae

[kanpope]

Originally posted by renae
And the abbreviations kind of confuse me: I've seen dd, dh, and all sorts of stuff

Renae -
Check out http://www.mothering.com/discussions/showthread.php?s=&threadid=2080

That will help you out! Welcome!

[theelves]

MCSARAHB......Did these cramps you had feel real severe, real low, like just above the pubic line?? That is what I had this past weekend while camping. I thought I just needed to go to the bathroom. By the time I walked over to the building, I was doubled over with pain! It sure scared me a bit! I was wondering how I could get help, I was far from my family! After sitting on the potty a little while, it went away. After I got back I took some Maalox, thinking maybe it was gas. It hasn't happened again like that, but that was scarey! You think that was a BH?
Today i feel SO SLUGGISH! I can barely walk when I have to. I feel like I swallowed a bowling ball! I am ok as long as I am sitting or laying. But forget walking! And I still have 5 weeks to go!!!:eek I hope this is just an "off day", and I will return to "normal" tomarrow! This sux!:rolleyes:
I was wondering if I should start doing a walking program now? I have not been exercising regularly this whole time...with the problem of my knee and all. But now I am considering doing some walking, not a lot. Do yall think this would do any good this far along, or am I wasting my time?.......hugs...Elfmamma

[kids'ncows]

Welcome Renae!

Elfmama - I thought you were going to lay off the excitement! :hug My experience with bh is that they are not severe, although with this one if the baby is in a certain position they can cause me to need to seek a bathroom! Were you dehydrated? That can cause premature labor. My SIL had a case of that with one of hers around 5 or 6 weeks early. (She was on a car trip and trying to avoid the restroom.) I would guess that walking would be OK, but you probably ought to double check. I don't want to eat much now and what I do want doesn't have much protein so I've been sluggish, too. I sure notice a difference on the days that I start out with 2 or 3 eggs, take my vitamins and keep up the water - too bad I don't want to!

Owen&mama, glad you checked in!

No new news here.

OK, I need to get back to work! Everybody take care of yourselves and your little ones.

[mcsarahb]

Good afternoon-

jakobsmami, funny you said that about LLL - I just went to my first meeting this morning., You're right; it was great. Lots of like-minded mamas and good info. The leader was good and went out of her way to get people to talk about early bfing issues just for my benefit (I was the only pg mama there this time). I know most of the stuff from reading, being a doula, etc. but of course it will be different when it's actually happening to me! I'm glad to have such a great resource of mamas who have BTDT, and are local!

Elfmama, the feelings I was talking about are not gas or other intestinal pain; they are definitely contractions. They're not super painful, just uncomfortable and low, I think where my cervix is. My mw said that ones like that that feel like menstrual cramps usually mean that the cervix is "ripening." (My dh hates that word for it...he says it makes him think of a piece of rotten fruit:LOL ).

Although I DO have plenty of gas pain...:LOL ...but I can tell the difference. Sorry you had such an experience. Hope that doesn't happen anymore. I agree, maybe you were dehydrated.

Off to my mw appointment!

Sarah

[Mama Faery]

kanpope--thank you for the link to the thread! It was just what I was looking for. I felt a little lame not knowing some of the acronyms! :lol
I figured the dh, dd, ds were SOMETHING to do with immediate family (like, "darling husband", etc). I also wouldn't have gotten the one for La Leche League--I would have just spelled it out! Hehe.

But now, I think I am cool. :jammin
(I got the smilies down! Heck yea!)

Obviously I just posted. No new stuff here. My back still hurts when I sit here at the computer so I guess I will go rot my brain at the teevee with my husband. Blah.
Oh, about LLL--I was supposed to go to my first meeting last Thursday, but I totally forgot because I didn't write it down and there was some discrepancy with where it was going to be held and I thought the leader was going to call me, and it was my last day of work on top of that. *sigh* I was sad I missed it, it would have been my first. :angry
I will try to make it to the one in May (they're the third Thursday of the month where I am) but I may be busy with the new babe by then! :love
I WILL make it to one, oh yes I will.
Ow, back. Gotta run.

-Renae

[Ahimsa]

I had a midwife apointment Friday. I am 1cm dialated and a little bit effaced. I am exited. My fiance is coming home next week, after being gone for two months. I cannot wait! I've been feeling good except for being a bit puffy these past few days. Hopefully, it's nothing. Baby hasn't engaged yet. Maybe he's waiting for daddy to get home. I have been really tired and lazy. I can't seem to get off my butt and take a walk. I have managed to do my yoga a few times a week. I wish I could motivate myself to walk. I know it would make a big difference. Besides that I've been getting everything ready for my homebirth.

Ahimsa
:belly

[Marco Esquandolas]

Hey hey May mamas! Welcome aboard, Renae. :D

I'm feeling really good tonight...just got a two day dosage of unseasonably warm spring weather in *gasp* the spring!! I feel so rejuvinated....much needed after all the bh contrax and pelvic pains I've been experiencing of late.

Had a good appt last night-all vitals in check and bp was down-WOO HOO!! I've put on 41 lbs this pg so I'm right on w/what I gained with ds#2 (Ian). I am at weekly appts from here on out and scheduled the remainder of my appts last night too.

I'm feeling more ready for the baby to get here-I've been nesting a bit and now all the layette clothing is washed and put away, the last of the diapers and covers are purchased and here, ready to go, and I just got both a maya wrap sling and pouch. Dh is ready too and he's convinced the baby will come in early May. I still won't let myself get excited b/c only time will tell and no matter what, I'm gonna have this baby in my arms "soon". :)

Well, Ricky's 5th birthday is tomorrow :eek so I better close and get wrapping his gifts.

:grouphug Keep on keepin on, mamas! Should we start wagering bets on who we think is gonna go first?! :D

[mittendrin]

merpk, thanks for clearing that up for me.

renae, i had a hard time with all the abbreviations at first. go and check out the diapering board,:LOL you'll go crazy...:LOL

on the vaginal exams: my mw's usually don't check until at least 38 weeks, but i'm thinking about not having any at all. any other mamas here who say "no" entirely and wait until they go in labor?

my :moon is hurting a lot lately when i sit down for a bit longer. i can barely make it through dinner and checking my mails and posting a bit is a big challenge these days. but i'm thankful i don't have those excruciating backpains like i had them with ds.

[Defenestrator]

Originally posted by jakobsmami
on the vaginal exams: my mw's usually don't check until at least 38 weeks, but i'm thinking about not having any at all. any other mamas here who say "no" entirely and wait until they go in labor?


None for me! Just isn't a standard part of the practice for my midwives. It is entirely possible I might make it all the way through the birth without one as well. Sometimes they will do an early labor check to gather info that helps them tell whether or not to call in the apprentice and second midwife, but I have a history of fast births, so if I look like I am in labor, they will probably all just show up.

Prenatal vaginal exams can be so misleading. I have known women who remained at 6cm for weeks, and women who were 0% effaced and not dilated who had their babies 36 hours after the appointment. There are times when they can be useful, but my provider would have to give me some pretty good reasons for doing them before I would consent.


I had my first of my weekly prenatals yesterday. Everything is fine, except my bp, which is creeping up, but it did that last pregnancy as well and never got too high. I have no swelling or other pre-e symptoms, though, so I am not too worried.

My house is still a total disaster. In my nesting efforts, I have torn everything up and have several projects running at the same time. My four-year-old has been showing signs of new-baby-worry-stress, including a bit of potty training regression, so I am trying to soothe him a little bit.

Dh and I have a date this Friday, when my mom is taking my ds overnight. I am so looking forward to being alone for 18 hours or so. We are broke, so we will probably not do anything too extravagant, but dinner, movie, sex, sleep, sleeping in . . . it's all good enough for me!

Take care everybody. I hope we hear some birth stories soon!

[KKmama]

Welcome, Renae! Ahimsa, are you new, too?

I did the GBS because I figured it would be better to know, I could always refuse interventions, and odds were likely that I was -. The gamble paid off (I'm -).

Hugs to you, Pottermama. I really hope your BP stays as low as possible!

More and more BH here, which makes me feel positive...

Sarah, did you get checked?

Maybe owen&mama will go first...

Elfmama, take it easy! Would it be possible to swim instead of walking? I wouldn't want to exacerbate the knee thing... I'm sorry it's still bugging you. It's been months since you fell, hasn't it?

I agree on going to LLL meetings *now*. I wish I had done it when I was pg with ds... I was so busy (and grumpy), but it would have been a good thing.

I'm still eating pretty darned healthy, but I can't squeeze as much in. ;) Sometimes protein is a chore.

I've decided that I'm not going to have any internals unless there is a good reason to do it... I don't see that there's any huge benefit to them, and I'm pretty sure I won't accidentally go into labor and have the baby without noticing. ;) If I get really curious, I'll have dh wash his hands really well and check me. I'm less worried about his flora than what might be floating around the drs. office or hospital.

[KKmama]

I'm wondering if we want to do some sort of check-in or something as May approaches (with regard to the roll call list)... It seems like we have a lot of people listed who are sort of MIA or lurking or whatever... I just don't want to wonder if so and so ever had her baby.

What do you think about putting an asterisk next to the people who have been actively posting (well, around sometime in the last couple of months)? I'd be open to other ideas, too (or doing nothing at all).

Anyone?

[shalom]

38 weeks today and starting to feel READY for this baby to be born!!!

I feel so silly asking this, being my third and all... but both my babes were born in December and I am totally lost as to what kinds of clothes this spring baby will need!:confused:

How long does a newborn wear long sleeves, 'sleepers', etc. in warm (MN) weather? When do they start needing short sleeves, shorts, etc? I'm way to picky about clothes and I hope I have enough???

Can some of you enlighten me- or sorta list your "layette" contents?

Thanks and many BH blessings to all :love

[fiddlefern]

Hey, everyone :)

I must have lurked too long, because I've stopped getting e-mail notifications.

So hello again- I'm here- just been too Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz to bother typing messages most of the time.

peace!

fiddlefern

[fiddlefern]

Oh, and I've got a question-

I think I've been experiencing what Theelves described.

I get these REALLY strong sensations of discomfort (OK- I'll say it- pain) around my cervix.

What it FEELS like to me is that baby is pushing his head down really firmly on my cervix, which of course isn't open, and it hurts like heck. It lasts for a few seconds at a time, and occurs every minute or two for about 10 minutes, once or twice a week for the past 2 weeks or so.

I don't really think it feels like BH. Of course, I've only had about 3 of those in my entire pregnancy so far. BH felt more like my whole womb was tightening into a smaller ball, and they didn't really hurt.

This doesn't feel like a big muscle contracting- it feels like a localized, intense, low, pain.

At my last appt, I asked one of my midwives (of couse it was one of the males, so he's never actually experienced this) if it could just be head-ramming on the cervix rather than BH, and he said yes.

What do ya'll think?

[Marco Esquandolas]

Shalom-My oldest (5 TODAY! :D ) was a spring baby and I had a bunch of short sleeved onesies for him for under his clothes and then the sleeper sack jammies and full length ones too (long sleeves and some with feet in them). I guess I had about 4-5 sleepers and about as many pj's. It is still chilly here in PA in April and May (ave temp is around 60's for a daily high). He wore those in the 0-3 and 3-6 mos size and by the summer (Junish) I had him in little shorts sets w/short sleeves that were 3-6 and some 6-9. He had a couple of light weight hoodies too and maybe one or two pairs of lightweight pants for just in case. He used those little infant hats too, and definitely needed socks in the spring. When my boys were really little, I didn't usually put them in outfits unless we were going out. I just kept them in pj's and sleepers and most of those seem to come with long sleeves anyway. For this baby, I've got leftovers from both boys (read-too much crap!) so that's about double the numbers of sleeper sack thingys and long pj's and tons of onesies. I've also got a bunch of undershirt t-shirts for the summer for baby to wear with just a diaper and cover or soaker shorts. I'll have some little short sets too. HTH!

Fiddlefern-So far as I know, once the baby starts going head down, you'll get those pelvic pains (and butt ones too). Some are sharp and stabbing and some can be sorta crampy and they are worse once the baby's head is engaged. From what I can tell, it is a combo of the baby running out of room and pushing (mashing!) you down there and its big head trying to settle btwn your pelvic bones. This is actually a good indication that baby is indeed head down and that he/she will be able to fit for your pelvis for nat vag delivery, if that helps you deal with the pains. :) One cool thing for me is that our baby will actually turn its head to hear dh talk. Yeah, it brings on some serious pains, but it is sooooo cool to know that's what is going on, and a relief to know this one is head down.

About bh's, I've always had 3 distinct types of bh's: ones that feel like menstrual cramps, ones that start at the bottom of my uterus and tighten me up then radiate up and out like to my legs, and then the ones that start in my back and radiate around and out to the front. My bh's have gotten more painful and pronounced with each pg and my pelvic pains are definitely the worst (just more frequent, I think) w/this baby. I've already had some rough days but I figure if the practice contrax are this painful then it is good practice for my hypno scripts and less my body will have to do once I'm in labor.

[PattyCakes]

Hey May Mamas! I'm still here too!
35 weeks now. I start my weekly appts next Monday and get the GBS test next week as well. I'm not too worried about it - whether it's +/-'ve. We'll manage.

I'm so, so, so looking forward to being done work. 7 more work days! Whohoo. I've been saving my nesting (the baby's stuff in particular) until I'm done work and I can't WAIT to get my hands on that. heehee.

As for food - I'm borderline GD so I still have to be careful. I'm. So. Sick. Of. Eggs. I eat them pretty much every day for breakfast - cos it's easy protein - but man, am I getting sick of them. I'm dying to just scarf down a huge plate of pasta. BUT... I'm trying to still be good for a while to keep our (me and babe) weight's normalized and to stay healthy. I'm having a hard time with swelling though (esp since it's been warm here) despite drinking lots and lots of water.

I've had a few random contractions/cramps - but nothing too serious. I have been getting twinges in my cervix (that are definitely not babe poking around) so I think that my body is starting to think about getting ready. I'm due the 25th of May, but I think I'm going to go the weekend before. (just my gut talkin' here).

As for layette - I've got a PILE of onesies and bunch of cotton sleepers - various thicknesses for the changeable spring weather here in the NEast. I have a few cotton gowns as well. I also have a few warmer outfits incase it gets really chilly - but really I have so many blankets that we can always just cover babe up with that and be fine.

The piece de resistance though is an adorable apple hat (It's red with a little stem and leaf at the top) that my best friend knitted for me. Of all the things I have, I can't WAIT to put that on my babe. :)

Stay well Mama's and Babes!

[scbegonias]

wow, it sounds like we're all getting ready!

elfmama and fiddlefern, i'm with you on the pelvic pain. definitely not bh for me...i've had those forever, and even when they're crampy like phishmama described, its different. my pelvic pain is exacerbated by sitting at my desk. by friday of last week there was no way i was walking...i spent the night on the couch, and trotting to the bathroom was a nightmare. at one point during the week i told my dh that i wished i could ride my bike from room to room...so much more comfortable than walking. anywho, saturday morning i was up and running...and between that and a busy sunday i figured out that movement keeps me sane and pain-free. yes, i was exhausted at the end of the day, but i slept well. being at work now is frustrating b/c i'm not totally invested in it intellectually (baby on the brain) and b/c sitting here gives me pain. yesterday i took a rest on my left side on the hardwood floor...not ideal, but it helped (in addition to my three 15 minute walks).

otherwise, i'm 35 weeks now. my mw does not do internals until 40 weeks...when they offer them (not required). i'll continue to go in every two weeks until 40 weeks...and then the real wait begins.

as for layette, i've got a bunch of onesies, a few cotton gowns, and tons of blankets (i've been making them forever). dh keeps saying how he can't wait to keep the house cool...he's in for a shock b/c babe and i will not tolerate that!

be well, mamas!

[Mere]

Hi everyone - I haven't posted in a while....I'm one of those negligent lurkers I guess! KKMama, re: keeping track of active posters/lurkers, I think doign a check-in is a good idea! Also, what about starting a separate thread for those who have had babies and want to post announcements/stories/pictures? I know I enjoy looking at the 'other months' and reading about their births, but it would be much easier if I didn't have to sift through all the other posts. Of course I realize there is the Birth Stories forum too, but this one could be just for May babies.

It sounds like we're all getting close! I'm not technically due until mid-May, but I'm 36 weeks now and I feel like my body is really ready. This scares me a bit, because as anxious as I am to meet the baby, I'd prefer for him to stay in utero until at least 38 weeks. My midwife said 36-38 weekers are notoriously bad nursers (can't stay awake, poor suck/swallow coordination), and after having had one child with bad colic, I'd just as soon have this one incubate for a while longer to make sure his digestive system is fully developed and on board.

Anyways, all day yesterday and so far today I've been feeling really crampy...I assume this means something is happening in my cervical area. Also tons of BH of all different types. My breasts are feeling super full, my lower back is achey, and the baby has really dropped; people have commented on it, and I have to pee ALL THE TIME (7-8 times the past couple of nights - ugh). All these things are telling me that the baby is ready to go, so I'm just hoping he'll hang in there for another week and a half!

I go in tomorrow for my GBS test, and thus begins the first of my weekly appointments...fun fun.

[scbegonias]

KKmama, I too like the idea of a roll call of sorts. (Did I use the right role/roll there?)

I also like the idea of a birth stories/baby thread after.

[mcsarahb]

Hi-

Lots of May mama activity all of a sudden! I think we are all feeling like these babes are coming soon. I feel like it could be any day now for me! One of my mws said yesterday that this weekend would be "a good weekend for a baby..." !!

I did get an internal, I know it's silly, but I really wanted to know. I am 50% effaced, anterior cervix, 1 cm, 0 station, for what it's worth :rolleyes: . And lots of bloody show. Blech. Sorry if TMI. Still having tons of those down low BH. In response to the previous posts, maybe they're not really BH, but they do include a tightening sensation, and feel like something's contracting, so that's just what I've been calling them.

So DH is now in super nesting mode, now that I'm done with that and just plain exhausted. He really got into it last night, putting up the shelves in the baby "corner" finally, cleaning, whistling baby lullabies, etc. :LOL He's unofficially free from major work duties from now on. Not that he wouldn't have been able to leave work before now in case of labor, but now his deadlines are all past and he's feeling more ready to focus on the babe. Makes me feel better. And he can spend more time at home, only going in to work now about half a day. I feel so lucky that he works for himself!

Glad to see some new people, and some MIA May mamas back in the loop. I'm excited to start seeing some birth announcements!

Sarah

[Sarah'sMama]

I'm 39w1d as of right now, and the phone calls have begun...."so how are you doing/feeling? Think the baby is coming soon?" Um, she was born last week, did someone forget to tell you? :LOL I get annoyed. And I feel bad complaining about it, since they are all people I love, and only are concerned about me and the baby. I'm not sure how to respond "I feel larger than life" would be a start!


Feet....are anyone elses as fat and ugly as mine??? I get a kick out of taking off my socks every night to see how big of a sock line I have. They are like sausages, I swear! One day I was walking in my kitchen, and my feet were sore on the top. It didn't dawn on me until later that it was because my feet are swollen, and the skin is stretching! :LOL :rolleyes: The joys of pregnancy!

Sarah-I'm thinking you're gonna be first! Bloody show and all. I didn't have bloody show until the day before my first dd was born.

I have my checkup tomorrow. I'm really hoping I go into labor on my own Monday or Tuesday. I really don't want to go too much past my due date, because I really don't want to go down the induction road. Dh is workingn this weekend, so he'll have the next weekend off, so I'm hopeful that the baby will cooperate, since he works just about every other weekend.

I like the roll call idea. Maybe just start a new thread for everyone to post their info on and be accounted for?

:scratch

I got the cutest little spring jacket in the mail for the baby today. I realized the other day that I had no spring jacket, so of course, had to do some online shopping!:p

Other than that, just getting anxious. Feeling like a ticking time bomb these days.

Take care mamas!

[mittendrin]

mcsarahb, waaaaa:eek bloody show! that means our first may-thread-baby is about to be born. yeah!!!!:thumb :jammin

had my mw appt today. i see a group of mw's and one of them is actually due 3 days before me. so we got a little race going...:LOL
i told her i don't want any internals and wanna be retested for the gbs. who knows, maybe i'm lucky and it went away.

this baby is still a pain in the ass, can't believe how much more uncomfy i am this time vs. last pregnancy. or maybe i just remember the good things... :rolleyes:

[KKmama]

I agree--yea wrt the bloody show! :D

Do you think if we start a thread just for roll call it will get too complicated? But at least there would be "complete" info there... Maybe we can ask a moderator to make that thread "sticky"?

I've been having more and more Braxton-Hicks contractions, kind of very mild crampy-feeling. (I know it's still early, and I don't think I'm going to have a baby anytime soon, FWIW.) More and more discharge. The BH aren't very organized at all, but I see the fact that they are very mildly painful as a *great* sign (never got to that point with ds). It also felt a bit last night like the baby was trying to get lower. I see all of this as more evidence that things are different this time... (I had an emergency cesarean at 42 1/2 wks with ds, obviously going for a VBAC this time.)

[mcsarahb]

Hi-

I want to clarify about the show: this was during/right after my internal check. In other words, it didn't start spontaneously. So I don't know if it actually means I'm going to have this baby anytime soon. As far as I know I could go another two weeks! It was quite a bit of blood, and that's what the mw called it, but I think it was directly related to her feeling my cervix. Am I right, or is that pretty exciting after all??

Sarah

[KKmama]

Doing my middle of the night iron (don't ask) and pee break...

I started a roll call thread and have asked that it be "sticky"... let's continue doing our discussing on this thread, but please go to the roll call thread and post your pertinent info... Here's a link. http://www.mothering.com/discussions/showthread.php?s=&threadid=137568 I feel kind of sheepish for going first, but someone needs to get the ball rolling... :p

[PattyCakes]

Sarah's Mama - I'm SO with you on the feet. OUCH.

I can't believe how close we all are (I know I keep saying that). :)

[Jacqueline]

PattyCakes-I'm so with you on being sick of eggs! I'm also borderline GD, and I've got my pattern down when it comes to food...eggs for breakfast, celery and almond butter for a snack, cheese and whole wheat crackers for a later snack, etc, etc, etc. I'm so tired of taking my little "snack bag" with me to work and am wanting to just eat whatever! But, I also want to keep the weight in check, so I'm still mostly being good. However, I've snuck a little chocolate here and there this week, so I have lightened up on myself a little.

I'm glad I'm doing so well, also, and the perfectionist side of me wants to keep it up, but the other part of me really wants to not think about food anymore!

I guess it helps that I'm not as hungry as I once was.

Okay, there's my mini-rant for the day!

KKMama-thanks for setting up the roll call. Great idea.

[Mama Faery]

So, I saw my OB today.
Got the GBS (that's the Group B Strep abbreviation, right? :LOL) test and she felt my cervix (I asked her if I had to have an internal exam every time from now on and she said "definitely not! I won't even ask you if you want another one till 38 or 39 weeks"--I just have to mention that I really like my OB--she's so awesome)...I don't know--I liked knowing that though my cervix is softening, I'm not dilated at all yet, nor has my baby dropped (well, I could have told her that! Heh)...it makes me feel like something is happening!
Baby's head is facing down (yay! I was kinda worried about that for some weird reason), his heartbeat was at about 140, my proteins and bp are fine, and I'll know the GBS result next week.
I also got some more pediatrician names...I still haven't found one yet! :eek
And I can't call to make appointments yet today because everyone's at lunch. Foo.
Anyway, just thought I'd give an update now that I've seen my OB!
Hope all you mamas are well!

-Renae :fairy

[Sarah'sMama]

G'day all!

Anyone about to burst yet? Had an OB appt. today. Got an internal, my OB usually waits till 39 weeks to do them. I am just so curious, even though I *know* it doesn't mean much. But I'm 1cm and baby's head is still high. So who knows? My OB told me that he's out of town this Saturday, but is only a page away if I need him, or go into labor, so I thought that was a very nice gesture. I'm really crossing my fingers that I go into labor before next weekend. We'll see I guess!

Dh's office ordered me lunch. They're so nice!:love They all are taking bets on when the big day will be.:LOL

Anyway, not much else going on here. Just thought I'd say hi!

[PattyCakes]

Jacqueline: yep - I know what you mean about the same snacks etc. I got a routine down so I wouldn't have to think too much about it, but it's getting pretty boring. I think I'm doing really well - as my weight and baby's growth is stablized.

My midwife said a little bit of chocolate is ok - she said to get the good stuff and dark and that it's an ok treat.

We have a baby pool going and everyone is entering their guesses for baby's weight/date of arrival etc. It's a hoot.

[MorningDove]

Hi everyone,

KKmama, thanks for keeping these threads organized and creating the new sticky and everything.

I've been on bed rest at home for 2 days because my blood pressure was still up at my appointment on Tuesday. My nurse midwife was so wonderful at that appointment - letting me cry, answering all my questions, being completely calm, etc. Today I went in and my blood pressure is down to my regular rate. They were so excited for me. I didn't have to get blood work again or get my cervix checked. I still have to stay home and take it easy, though, so I keep the blood pressure down. They are also encouraging me to engage in activities which might cause the baby to come next week. (I am currently 38 weeks, 2 days). Dh returns on Saturday, so I'll feel better about trying things then.

I was feeling really frustrated by the sudden interventions but I spoke to my doula and she said that all the midwives in my area would recommend the same treatment. If my blood pressure stays down, they will probably let me go until my due date. If it starts to creep up again or I show signs of preeclampsia (none yet), then we will have to induce. We talked about that a bit today. I've really had to do a lot of letting go over the last few days. I want to have a natural childbirth, but if interventions are needed I know I've done what I can and that in my case they are appropriate. Even the doula said that if my blood pressure shoots up in labor an epidural might be called for. I'll be confined to bed at that point anyway (no changing positions) and an epidural usually helps lower blood pressure. I'm still hoping that doesn't happen, but I'm feeling supported and like I still have some degree of control. Now if only dH can come to the same point of acceptance. I really need him to.

Baby seems to be getting ready. At my last appointment I knew I had dropped and sure enough I was decreased 2 cm in size. In the last 2 days, I've decreased 1 more cm. My mom told me yesterday that she had a dream the baby came early, so maybe the midwife will get her wish. I've had no Braxton Hicks or other signs (like mucous plug loss, though). Funny to think that I might actually be one of the first to have my baby. I mean ---- SCARY!! I'm in denial!

[Jacqulyn]

So nice to see the anticipation rising on our thread! I have always lurked on boards of those who were pending labor and now it is our turn. No more lurking:p . Even though I am not due until the end of May, it is awful fun to part of a group that is so close to bringing their babies home!

I have three weeks left at work and that is stressing me out. Besides the director, I am basically the only other full-time employee. We run youth sports camps and I have to figure out all the details of our 15 summer camps in the next three weeks. Yikes! I am just taking it one day at a time.

We have a college student (my DH is a collegiate coach) living in the room that will be the nursery. I will move him out of that room here in about two weeks, but I am just itchin' to get in there and decorate. Until then I have been sewing away, making the cutest soakers and diaper covers. I am currently working on the crib bedding...oh how fun!

We have decided to hire our childbirth educator as a doula. She is the state DONA representative and anyone I mention her name to looks at me like, " no brainer, you gotta hire her!" So, we are scrounging up the $ and making it a priority.

For some reason, I know I am a little naive, but I am really looking forward to the labor. I don’t' just mean the coming of the babe, but the actual labor part. I just find it such an interesting experience that I want to go through. Kind of like a right of passage. I want to know that I did it and that my body was and is capable of doing something that so many believe isn’t'... anyone else feel that way, or am I just kidding myself?

Well, sorry so long, I will try to post shorter, more often:)
Ta for now!

[PattyCakes]

begin Mini rant.

I'm 35 going on 36 weeks. I'm done work in a week. I'm short and baby is WAYYYY out front.

One of the atty's in my office said very quietly to me this morning... "You're really, really big, dear. Are you sure you're not having twins? Maybe you should have another ultrasound just to be sure".

Granted, I do look huge but when I said all is fine, I'm not worried. She gave me that "uh, huh - I don't really believe you look". Sigh. (this is from a woman who has never been pregnant).

Thank goodness I'll be home soon and won't have to worry to much this kind of junk on a daily basis.

done mini rant.

MorningDove - I'm so happy that your bp has stabilized. Keep taking care of yourself and your babe.

[mittendrin]

pattycakes, i know how you feel. thank god i don't work during this pregnancy. with the last one all i got to hear was that i'd be having twins or they must've miscalculated my edd. i used to work in an eyedr's office and it was mainly the (male) dr's who would make remarks like that. :bang

i'm so convinced this baby is gonna come early. i'm in a huge panic mode cause there's still so much stuff to do. all the baby's things are washed, but i wanted to get things done around the house that i won't be able to do once little missy is finally here. everybody around me thinks i'm crazy. they say "you're not due until the end of may, right? there's enough time" yeah, end of may will be 40 weeks. i could go at 38! plus when i tell them i've got this vibe and about how dc has been jamming her head into my cervix for the past few weeks like she's desperately trying to get out, they don't understand what i'm talking about. hey, whatever happend to "a mother knows best":scratch

have all of you ladies cooked your supply of freezer meals yet? i don't really know what to make ahaed, any suggestions and maybe even some recipes? wouldn't it be fun to share a few ideas of timesavers? so far i know i'm gonna make gallons of chickennoodle soup from scratch, i love the stuff, real comfort food for me. and then spaghetti sauce. and gulasch (kinda like a stew). what's on your menu???:yum

[PattyCakes]

Yes! I've started my freezer foods.:) What I've been doing is cooking extra of the stuff I've been making regularly so that we won't have GALLONS of one thing and will have lots of variety.

So far I have:
beef stew
taco filling
corn chowder

I have a little chicken that I'm going to roast up and with the leftovers make chicken pot pie filling (YUMMO - my absolute fav meal) and then have 2 pie shells (I cheat and use the grocery store ones) ready to stuff the filling in and bake later. I'll probably make some chicken soup too and will DEFINITELY have pasta sauce in there too.

I'll make other stuff too - (haven't figured out exactly WHAT yet). :) I try to freeze in single portions as well as larger portions in case we want different things or eat at different times. I only have the small freezer over the fridge and have NO room for a chest freezer right now, so I'm trying to be smart about the space.

Other friends have highly recommended getting a crockpot. I think I"m going to. They said you can just throw everything in the pot in the morning and dinners ready by the evening - without heating up the kitchen to hell-like temperatures in the SUMMER (and without much effort at what could be a baby melt-down hour). :)

[Mama Faery]

Ahh, the preparing of meals! I haven't done any of that yet and I feel like time's a wastin! Taco filling....great idea! I am not the best from-scratch-cook, but I am trying to think of things I can make that will freeze well. I guess I have a couple of weeks but the anticipation is indeed making me crazy! :LOL

I, too, got some comments when I was still working. A woman who taught oboe to one of the kids I nannied asked me when I was due, like back in February, she said "you've just got a few weeks to go, eh?" and I'm like "um, months. I'm due in May" and she was like "ohmygod! You must be having twins!" and I was like "um, no..." And you think she would stop there. :p But THEN she said "oh, you're having a boy then" I wish I could have said she was wrong just to say it, but no, she was right. Hehe.
But it was so annoying! sheesh.
Later when she saw me she would say "oh, you look AWESOME!" :LOL Whatever, lady. Heh. I'm over it.
Especially since I don't have to work for that family anymore! :thumb

Sigh. Nothing much up here. I slept most of the afternoon because I slept like 4 hours last night. I went to sleep at midnight and woke at 4:30. Ugh. So I am going to get some dinner and put my swollen feet up. :o I was shopping for shower gifts for the hostesses of my shower earlier this morning/afternoon and my feet totally swelled! Ugh! I woke up from my long nap and they were still kinda puffy.

In good stuff, my shower is TOMORROW! And my dh and I cannot wait! :binky
Hope you all have a great weekend!

-Renae :fairy

[KKmama]

Pattycakes, I'd be tempted to gouge her eyes out. At best, she thinks you're huge, which is not a polite thing to infer, at worst, she thinks you've gotten inadequate medical care (because how else could they miss twins? :rolleyes:).

I've been filling up the freezer/pantry. Whenever I make soup (which is really often these days), I stick a container or 2 in the freezer. I also have frozen extra beans (for hummus, for making refried beans, etc.). And we love waffles, and I make super healthy ones (with wheat germ, yogurt, blueberries, etc.), and I just used one of ds' naps to throw a double batch into the freezer (we just toast them for snacks--don't have to put anything on them). I got some easy stuff (that we don't normally necessary eat) but which ds likes) for my mom to fix when we're in the hospital... Annie's shells and cheese, pasta and red sauce, etc. Trying to keep the fridge well-stocked with fruit, too.

I also have gotten some labor food... there's all those Clif bars from my dad (for post partum), some leftover clear gatorade from morning sickness days, couple of bottles of white grape juice (normally, I prefer the purple stuff, but if we have to take it to the hospital, I think they'd prefer something clearer), some healthy instant soup, trail mix for dh... Also a bunch of limes in case I want limeade (just a hunch--might be totally off). Any other suggestions?

[owen&mama]

Sarah, after my first internal, I had a lot (okay, not a lot, a lot, but a significant) amount of blood & mucous. That was two and a half weeks ago, and nothing since. Not even after this last internal. So, go figure. I think you're right, although we're all different. I just think it's fun to check what my body is doing, but I try not to get too hopeful.... :eek

And, Jaculyn, I too am so looking forward to this labor. You're so lucky to feel that with your first. I was really frightened going in the first time, and it was for a lot of reasons, one of which was that I just didn't know my body and hadn't been taught to trust it. So you're very lucky and I know you'll have a wonderful, goddess-like experience.

I had a blessingway last week. My friends came over, painted my belly with henna, brought beads and trinkets for a necklace that I'll wear during labor, and surprised me with freezer meals. I was so touched....and relieved, because I haven't done any. In any event, we have an overstuffed freezer and plans to go buy an upright for our garage any day now (we suddenly remembered all the breastmilk that I have to store!). My guess is that there will be no extra cooking between now and baby time for me. It's all I can do to get dinner on the table these days.

It's so nice to hear everyone's vents and musings. Thanks for letting me drop by now and again!

3 cm and holding!

[mcsarahb]

Hi-

owen&mama, thanks for telling about your experience with blood after an internal exam. I didn't think it was that big a deal, but everyone seemed excited. I'm still hanging out pregnant, so I guess it could still be weeks...:)

Jacqulyn, I am another first-time mama looking forward to labor. Not only for getting-this-baby-out-of-me-now purposes :LOL, but because I think it will be such an amazing experience. I have had a few people recently tell me how empowering and wonderful their labors were...it's great to hear that! I am not scared, either.

Otherwise I am getting more and more disgruntled with waiting...just trying to keep myself occupied. Not that I don't have anything to do (freezer meals? oh yeah, freezer meals!), but I don't WANT to do anything but sleep and whine! I try to get out of the house as much as possible and see people other than my dh, so I don't drive him over the edge.

I am planning on doing belly henna with a friend tomorrow, fun!

Got acupuncture today; she did all the labor and uterus-stimulating points since I begged her to. We'll see if it works...

Take care everyone,

Sarah

[Sarah'sMama]

I just have to chime in how much I LOOOOVE my crockpot. It is fantastic. I have a site that I stumbled on a while back. I haven't looked at it much, so sorry if its not exactly what you're looking for. Just thought I'd share: Crockpot recipes (http://www.crockerykitchen.com/)

Other than that, taking dd to the circus tomorrow. I think she'll like it. She really likes making lion noises. Hope I don't go into labor before then, because I already promised her I was taking her!

Have a good weekend ladies!

[karenpl]

Wow, you all sound way more prepared than I am. I am still trying to empty the freezer from all the 'old' stuff, so I can start filling it with new stuff. Maybe I should just accept that that is not going to happen and start making freezer meals to put in. I tend to do what KKmama was saying. Make bigger batches from meals I am making anyway, so I can throw one or two meals in the freezer without any extra work during cooking (ok, maybe cut a bunch more veggies, but not real work)

Met another May mom today, that was fun! (Hi Annika! :-)

Most of the time I am doing gardening stuff, now that the weather finally has turned nice. Who wants to be inside trying to find baby stuff in our black hole basement when you can be out gardening instead???? I can always just put a receiving blanket around the baby, right? Who needs clothes anyway? LOL

Karen, 36.5 weeks, but in denial, glad I always go overdue!

[PattyCakes]

I like the new board design. Very cool.

I just bought a crockpot this weekend. I think it will be great to have over the summer especially since it won't heat up the whole house. I think it will be handy to just throw everything in in the morning and dinner will be ready when DH (oh, that sounds so dang domestic!!!) gets home from work. I'm also thinking that this will be a life saver if we happen to have the early evening witching hour with babe... this way we can just serve ourselves from the pot when we can. Thanks for posting that site Sarah's Mama.

On a not so fun note, I get the GBS test today. Not looking forward to that. I'm at appts every week now. Holy Macaroni!

This is my last week of work!!! ahhhhh! I dont' know whether to be happy or scared outta my wits!

[mittendrin]

karenpl, it was nice meeting you, what a surprise!!! :balloons

thank goodness i'm not the only one who hasn't cooked in advance yet. dh doesn't like freezer meals and when ds was born we really didn't need any, i was watching the baby and dh cooked. but i figure, with 2 kids it might make sense, we'll have our hands full.

we've been trying for weeks to get ds's dresser painted, so we can move his 1000 clothes in there and make room for babyclothes and diapers in the old dresser/changer.
i also want to get a little playarea ready for him on our porch with a swing and a sandbox. people under us might get a sandshower now and then, but i need sth special to keep him happy.

i'm getting stiffer and achier every day and totally regret not to have done any stretching or yoga during this pregnancy. but it's hopefully only a month left... :thumb

[Jacqueline]

Hey everyone,
You're all so prepared, making meals and all. It's all I can do to make meals during the regular work week! The crock pot recipes look like a good option, thanks for the link SarahsMama. Hopefully, once work is over (2 1/2 more weeks) I can be more "domestic." However, I've got a good community of friends here at the seminary and they usually make meals for people after a birth. It may not be the food I'd eat on a regular basis, but I'll take it for the first few days!

We had our first baby shower this weekend. It was an "all ladies" shower at church and I hardly knew most of them. But, we got lots of nice things and not a lot of junk, which is good. Someone asked me where the birth would be and I said "at home." I could hear it making it's way around the circle..."oh, at home..." Also, on the invitations, we indicated we'd be cloth diapering with a link to the website where we've registered for basics. I received no cloth diapers at this shower, but lots of comments from women (all older than me who used the old kinds of pin diapers) "cloth diapers are a pain...disposables are so much easier..." and "don't feel like a failure if you can't make it work...it's okay to give up..." I held up for myself pretty well, however, since it was a church group, I used the argument that I just couldn't justify it on a level of being a good steward of the earth...blah blah. One lady came up to me privately and said "I think it's great that you're going to cloth diaper and I don't know why those ladies felt it necessary to tell you what they did." It was all quite funny, actually,and I'm sure it's the first of many times I introduce new ideas to people in the church. That's kinda what DH and I feel is part of our mission in life.

Sorry that story was so long...just figured you'd all appreciate it. We have another shower this Saturday given by our friends at the seminary, so these folks know us a little better and it sould be a bit more fun. Plus, it's co-ed!

My mom comes this week and I'm taking her to my mw appt. on Friday. Should be fun.

Have a good week, everyone.

[Mama Faery]

So...
We had our baby shower this past Saturday...
And would you believe we still need to get a few things?! (the baby monitor most of all!) But we got a lot of cute stuff, and many things we needed, and it was fun (I even saw a friend I hadn't seen in over a year! That was a nice surprise)...
But I feel bad because I admit I ended the day rather disappointed! Has anyone else had this sort of "slump" after the shower?

For me it was a combination of things--somewhere in the middle of all the pastels and boy-things (now I wish I hadn't told anyone what we were having--oh, the trucks and trains and FISHING equipment! And blue, blue, blue!! My FIL is an avid fisherman, and though I wish it was different, I just KNOW he would NOT have purchased the tiny fishing pole if we were having a girl. This is a man who wouldn't let me pick up "heavy" things even when I wasn't pregnant!) I noticed that there was nothing that stood out about this shower--it was fun, and it was very nice, and there was good food and friends and family
(my husband's family, I'm not close to my family--my father and brother know I'm expecting, but pretty much have ignored me all these months; they didn't come to my wedding either)
--but it could have been any suburban mom-to-be's shower. NOT to say there's anything wrong with that...but I'm a Pagan faery-mom, dammit! :fairy There should have at least something that was more me there...I read stories of these amazing blessings and beads and hennaed bellies...and I feel sad that it just would NOT have happened at my MIL's place (and the people who would have done things like that are many miles away...). She even told me that the reason I may not have received a breast pump (and it's not the money--I registered for a hand-pump that was less than $50) was because "some people may think it's embarassing".
What ever. I bought the damn thing myself the next day. Along with returning some of the more heinous clothing. :wink We did get some really cute things too, though.
And we also had a co-ed shower. My husband was there, along with a few of our male friends, and his father. But my best friend's husband kept making stupid and rude comments throughout it, so I wish he hadn't come now.

And I miss my friends who are far away (I'm in New England, they are in California), who WOULD have made the shower more interesting. These were the people who gave me incredible things as wedding gifts, and never let me forget that I was still me.
I went home and cried because I was scared that I was losing myself to motherhood. :guilty
The other reason the slump happened was because this was something I was looking forward to and now it's over...now I really AM just waiting till Baby is here! I'm nervous! :eek

So I had a weekend of mixed emotions. After washing the clothes and putting together some things like the stroller and bouncy seat, and returning the not-so-great diaper bag in favor of a much cuter and easy-to-carry one, and finally acknowledging these feelings, both good and bad, I feel a lot better and back on an even keel.
I guess I have no excuse now. It's time to pack for the hospital. :jaw

p.s. I hope no one thinks I'm being ungrateful. I just had a lot of mixed moody emotions this weekend. Gosh, I got things I needed and planty of luxuries that baby won't need for a while! :wink And all in all I did have fun. I'm just getting kinda emotional, you know?

[mcsarahb]

Hi all-

Renae, I know how you feel about the shower thing. My shower was similar, a lot smaller, but still a very "average" shower (no henna, beads, blessings, etc.). Of course I appreciated everything and was very grateful to my friends who threw it and the friends that were there. And actually, I got quite a few things that I needed and wanted. But sometimes I find myself getting upset at how much money is spent on things that I don't really need, that are cute, but not necessary. I am so thrifty, and that $50 pile of brand-new pink outfits could have been 3 dozen cloth diapers, KWIM? But overall, we also got so much great stuff from friends for free, hand-me-downs like a carseat, bassinet, etc.

Also, I took it upon myself to do the fun, "me" stuff at other times - I henna'ed my belly this weekend, I got great artsy pregnancy photos done, etc. Sometimes you've gotta take matters into your own hands!

So I am huge, uncomfortable, whiny, READY to have this baby. I feel like it could be any minute, literally. PLEASE don't let it be another 2 weeks, PLEASE!!

Have a good week everyone-

Sarah

[KKmama]

Jacqueline, I got the same thing about cloth diapers before ds was born. But they're really not that hard! Just make sure you get all the dipe tucked into the cover (to prevent wicking) and you'll be fine. Honestly, I don't know why people who've never used cloth feel the need to advise against it (probably the same thing as formula users advocating against breast milk, hospital birthers advocating against home birth, etc. ;)).

And Renae... even if they didn't know the gender now, they'd nail you with the gendered stuff later, believe me (we go through that, and dh and I basically have to try to balance out the trucks etc. ourselves). And you can be a pagan faery-mama, no matter what kind of shower you had. Personally, I dreaded (and disliked) my showers... they don't represent what motherhood is like, though!

I'm pretty crabby. Not sure why. I feel very slightly under the weather... I've been having nausea in the a.m., which is not fun, and a resurrection of ovary pain. :( We're doing perineal massage, but for whatever reason, it's almost intolerable for me (but I tolerate it because I sincerely hope it will help me not to tear). Still have BHs, but not as many. According to dh, my cervix might be moving anterior, getting squishier, about a fingertip dilated. Whenever I have a crampy BH, I really visualize my cervix opening... I decided to schedule another massage for this Friday (my pre-mother's day gift to myself ;)). I'm also thinking about doing acupuncture sometime soon, but I need to try to figure out whether it's safe in conjunction with VBAC. My brother's b-day is in 1 wk--that's when I really, really want to have the baby.

I've been thinking about our collection of May mamas and hoping someone will have a baby soon. I'll do it myself if I can. ;)

[theelves]

Renae...... I know what you mean about the emotional stuff! Hard to control! I had a moment myself last Friday. Our house is a mess and needs a mojor overhaul of clutter dispersion, dusting, and organizing. I started to do it myself, as DH is working overtime a lot lately and too tired in the evenings. I managed to get 1 1/2 shelves cleaned off and baby things on it, but that was all! i was so tired! I poop out so quick. I looked around at everything else that needed done, and felt VERY overwhelmed! :hide: I thought about how unprepared I am for this baby, physically and mentally. I have mainly been caring for others (dh, ds, grandmother, animals, etc), and neglecting myself. I felt SO guilty! :shake Then I thought about how I am going to deal with TWO now! Especially during the adjustment period in the beginning. Anyway, I just started bawling!! :crying I cried about an hour I guess, when I had to stop because I needed to go give a riding lesson.
I told Dh about it later when he got home. He felt really bad for me and promised he would help out more. So this past weekend we really got rocking! :banana It was very hard work, but worth it, we got our bedroom in order (where we ALL sleep), and that was the most urgent and worst off. So now I feel good about things again. Just 3 more rooms to go, and they aren't TOO bad. So hang in there! I am sure we are ALL going through very emotional times, we are allowed to cry and vent, that is wjat makes us human! :grouphug HUGS to everyone! Elfmamma

[mcsarahb]

I am sure we are ALL going through very emotional times, we are allowed to cry and vent, that is wjat makes us human!

Hear, hear! I think I've cried at least three times in the last week: once over what to eat for dinner, once over my dh trying to joke with me but I wasn't in the mood, and one actually legitimate, over becoming a mom any day now and still not knowing yet if I got into full-time, 50+ hours per week grad school that starts July 7th!!

Sarah

[pottermamma]

Gosh, gone for a few days and everything has changed!!!!

Glad to hear everyone is doing well and hangin in there.

I am spending my days on my left side and taking Passion Flower, Hops and Evening Primrose for my blood pressure. It was really high last Wed and i had to get some blood work and a urinalysis done...all was good though, just this dang high blood pressure. On Friday though when I had my appt it had gone down....YEAH!!!! SO I am still doing the same things and hoping it stays down, I get another check today. We also did an internal...said I wouldn't but she really wanted to have some idea of what was happening given the blood pressure thing and I am dialating on my own (up to 3 cm) and 60% efaced....Means nothing...but then yesterday I lost my mucus plug!!!! So, guess we're gearing up.

Thanks also for the info on the Vit K. I think we'll go with the oral dose as well.

Take care mammas and hopefully we begin hearing some birth stories soon!!!!!!

[TurboClaudia]

Hi May mamas-to-be!

I've been out-of-touch with this group for a while, but I've been reading all your updates -- just haven't posted my own. Feeling kind of reclusive, I guess...

Just wanted to say hello again and send everyone hugs and peaceful birthing vibes as we approach the month of May!

warmly,
claudia

[DawnaRose]

hi May Momma's,

checking in and getting sub'd to the new thread, I sorta lost track of everyone in the other one :(

I've been having lots of Bh too, some pretty darn painful! I've been to the hospital twice to try to move the baby and both times I got there she was head down already! My appts are on Thursdays now and every Thurs for the past few weeks they have checked her position and she's been either transverse or breech, so they gave me the choice of doing the version or scheduling a c/s. Luckily she was head down both times I got there for the versions, so I didn't need them, but it was pretty stressful thinking about them! I'm pretty convinced she is still head down now, and my OB thinks because she keeps flipping they should induce me at 39 weeks if she is head down. I'm not too keen on being induced so we shall see, everyone around here thinks I'll have her this weekend anyway. Sure hope so!

Cloth diaper service is ordered and will start delivery on Monday, I'm pretty excited about that, I won a cute dappi cover on ebay the other day plus the service provides 4 to use, now I just gotta learn how to fold them, heh. I have some handmedowns to practice with though, plus a woman I know gave me a TON of medium and large covers, mostly pro-wraps, so I have lots of those just need to get some more small ones probably. Really excited about that!

Nothing else is new, about to walk to the school and get my kidlets. I'll try to keep up better I just get so darn behind then I feel like I don't have anything worthwile to post about, ya know?

[merpk]

Hey there, ladies. Livin' large, ain't we ... :LOL

Just wondering how everyone's labor/birth preparations are going. You all feel ready to relax? Steady for the surges? Born to breathe?

Gosh am I silly today. Must be time for one of those laughing/crying jags that seem to be showing up ever couple of days. :eyes

Had a weird dream about labor last night. Very weird. Anybody else dreaming about their labors?

:)

[Marco Esquandolas]

Hey hey mamas! :D

*phishmama grumbles*...crazy, prepared, on top of things, freezer mamas! Pppttthhhhbbbb :p Nah, I'm just jealous. I always say I'll do that and then never do.

Good to see ya back, Turbo! :hug

Pottermamma-I hope your bp stays down for you. Mine has been up and down but not as bad as with my other two boys. Plus, no swelling or sudden weight gains or protein in my pee this time around so pre-e might actually just be high bp and that's all folks for me! :D

Merpk-yep, as a matter of fact, I just had a very vivid dream on Sat or Sun evening about my whole L&D...as in, I actually DID the whole L&D complete with birthed boy that we named Silas! It was so intense that I actually felt tired when I woke up, lol.

That's about it for me. Our fridge died suddenly yesterday so we had to buy a new one and got a super phatty deal on a GE side by side. I had a lot of contrax most likely as a result of all the running around and then cleaning and switching out fridges yesterday. Otherwise, I'm just cranky, weepy, crampy nauseous, and am fast getting board of feeling like blech all the time. Lovely, huh? ;)

Take care, mamas!

[Mama Faery]

I love using colored text! :shy
First of all, thanks to all of you mamas who responded to my moodiness regarding my baby shower. I felt so much better reading what you all had to say and it made me feel like I wasn't alone. :grouphug
What's up with me this week?
Well, I have been trying to read (and finish!) my Hypnobirthing book because our LAST class is Sunday!! I don't want the instructor to think I was being a flake so I have to finish the book! Even my DH finished it, for goodness' sake! :LOL
And I have been slowly but surely trying to pack for the hospital, I'm 37 weeks this week and though I don't think I'm that close to labor (darn it!) I want to be packed before my 38th week. I wonder if that's possible...:rolleyes
Am I prepared for labor? I think so. As much as I can be. I'm getting really excited! As for the freezer meals...:laugh: I am working on it. I'm not as awesome as some of you other mamas, but I'm planning on what I can and WILL do before my little boy arrives.
Oh, and I found our pediatrician this morning!! :jammin I rock! He's the third one I've met over the past few months, and I really, REALLY like him! He is in tune with everything my husband and I wish for our baby and family, he goes to the hospital we are delivering at, and though he talked a mile a minute, he really listened and took the time to answer every question I had. I am so happy I have one less thing to worry about now!
I am meeting with one more Dr. next week but that's it. And I'm pretty sure my decision has been made.
That's what's up right now. I see my OB Friday.
Oh, an issue these past couple of days (it's a recurring one...): constipation. :blush No matter how hydrated I keep, no matter how much fiber I think I've added to my diet...my lower belly hurts all crampy, and there's NOTHING (ahem-if ya know what I mean) I can do about it. Eeeew. I feel bloated and yucky.
I'm ready to meet my baby! I'm ready to be done being pregnant! :wink

[Sarah'sMama]

:W

This is me. On my due date. Just waitin'.....

How are you all doin? Just wanted to say hi. I've been lazy about posting lately. Finally think I'm ready for this baby to come. I've got everything around the house pretty well ready, and mentally I'm coming to terms with how to handle alot of stuff once she's here. Dh and I are suddenly really nervous, and a little reluctant to give up the freedom we've come to be used to with our current dd. Shes at an age where we can go places etc. that it will be a shock to both our lifestyles once there is a wee one in the house again. It is just an adjustment, and we'll make it, it just kinda hit us, kwim?

Other than that, just fielding all the phone calls "did you have the baby yet?" :cuss For some reason that gets on my nerves. Oh well. I know people care and love me and all, but just let me be.

Take care everyone! Everytime I log on I expect to see a birth announcement!

[KKmama]

Go, Sherri, go! (And I think there are a few others about ready to go, too.)

I had probably 1 1/2 hrs of really regular BH contrax last night (~5 min apart, no idea on the length... I was too busy). Got ds ready for bed, had my big glass of water, laid down, and they petered out (as I expected). Still, I find it really encouraging.

[mcsarahb]

Morning-

Sarah'sMama, I'm so impressed and jealous that you're :W on your due date. I am more like :bang :cuss :demon and it's the day before mine!!! :)

But I am trying to be patient...patient...this baby will come when she's ready... babies don't stay in forever...breathe deeply...okay, I feel better now. :LOL

Anyway, had a mw appt. yesterday, all looked well. Baby's not too big, well engaged (not that I didn't know that already - hello, bladder!), and LOA. The other clients of my mws with a due date close to mine had their baby on Thursday, about 5 days early. Now I know for certain we won't go on the same day - which means I'll definitely have both of the mws and their apprentice there. Makes me feel better.

Tried to go for a walk last night with dh - we go every day that we can - but got about 2 blocks before my tailbone/sacrum started killing me. I could barely walk home. This has happened before, but usually after at least a mile or more. Don't know what's up with that. Luckily, it went away once I stopped walking.

Determined to have a good day today...wish me luck! Take care everyone!

Sarah

[Marco Esquandolas]

Aggghhhhh! Sarah and Sherri...I keep popping back on here to make sure you're still posting b/c surely your absences will mean you're busy bringing new people into the world! :D I am getting sooooo excited for you two and for all of us, really!

Remember girls-walk, sex, walk, sex, walk, sex, spicy food, walk, sex, LMAO!!!! (Yes, you can cyber slap me now, bah hahahahahahahhahaaaa).

Have a good day, May mamas!

[Jacqueline]

Sherri & Sarah-wow! our first to hit their due dates. You're all a month before me, so I've got a little while. But, still, hearing that you're actually THERE! It's making it so much closer. Keep us updated!!!!

I woke up with a bad leg cramp in my calf this morning...it's at times like that that I wonder if I can really handle labor. Then, I remind myself that my body was made to do this...it CAN do this...and it WILL do this. Leg cramps are not helping get the baby out...they just HURT! So, while I didn't dream about labor last night, I've been thinking about it a lot obviously. I've had dreams before, though, and they're all very reassuring. I even got to "see" my baby in utero in a dream I had last weekend. Very cool.

I've been doing some birth art from the Birthing from Within book and that's been good. I've never thought of myself as an artist, so using that part of my brain is part of my labor prep. I figure it's helping to activate that non-rational, intuitive part of my brain that needs to take over for birth to happen. It also helps me to see how I really think about birth...beyond words. Pretty fascinating, really.

Pottermama-I hope your bp stays down. And, you sound like your getting close! I think we're due about the same time, so it's encouraging to me. Hang in there!

[Sarah'sMama]

:W

Still here.... :love

Thanks for all your well wishes ladies. Sure makes me feel :love I'll be sure to post every day from now on, just so you know I'm still here.
Have an appt. tomorrow. I had dh check my cervix the other night (thanks for the idea KK). He said baby's head was "right there" and that my cervix felt verrrry thin and he guessed maybe 2cm. So who knows? I went to the store yesterday and bought some raspberry tea,, and some plain ol' raspberries. Well....dd ate most of the raspberries before we even got out of the store :LOL: she kept leaning over saying "mo' berries" and sometimes even threw in a "pees". Who can say no to that? Too funny. Oh, got some pineapple, too. Read somewhere something about that. Figure it can't hurt, right? Walking, hunting dh down, ya know, all that get labor going stuff....

KKMama-so glad your uterus is practicing for you! My BH's have been more intense the last week or so, not really painful, but make me stop in my tracks a little more sometimes, so I'm reassured by that. Told dh my uterus is the most toned muscle in my body right now.

OK, should be resting 'cuz dd is napping, but feel like playing with my scrapbooks right now.

Take it easy gals! I'll try to hop on the net if/when I ever go into labor to let you all know!

[TurboClaudia]

I've been feeling extra tired the past few days, and the top right of my belly has been achy when I wake up in the morning. Add my major lack of motivation to do anything (laundry, final to-do list, paying bills, cleaning the bathroom, etc.) and I feel just plain lazy. I wish my mommy was here now for a few days to help me get ready...

warmly,
claudia

[MorningDove]

Hi All,

I keep thinking I could have this baby any day. My blood pressure is staying down (I hope yours is too pottermamma), but I'm going stir crazy with all this bed rest (although, obviously I'm not in bed right now - but I'm not active). I talked to my doula and she said I have most of the early labor signs - but I've been that way since Sunday. Maybe this baby is going to wait until the beginning of May. The frustrating thing is that I feel like all this sitting and lying down I'm supposed to be doing is not helping baby come. I want to walk! I have another Dr. appt tomorrow. Hope the blood pressure is still good or I'm pretty sure they will induce.

We still haven't finished packing the hospital bag. Every time I mention it to dH, he wants to wait. I guess it will be an early labor activity for us. I haven't put anything into the freezer other than some beans (I'm not supposed to be standing up in the kitchen much anyway). Dh seems to think that he will cook for us. I'm not sure how reality will play out. He may be rushing to the Costco freezer section. At least it is almost time for farmer's market to open so at least we can eat vegies and fruit.

Hope to reading about births and posting an announcement of my own soon. Just remember, moodiness is one of the signs of impending labor. That kinda cheers up my grumpiness. :shy

[kids'ncows]

Geez Louise! I'm gone for a few days and this place is all changed around (looks nice but loads slower) and there are a bunch of posts from the May Mama's to catch up on!

Wow! Some of you are at your due dates!!! I'm happy for you but freaking out for me, I'm afraid I won't be able to live in my nice little state of denial much longer! Yes, I'm happy that we're having another one, but this may be my last pregnancy and I'll miss the awesomeness of it and there is so much still to do!!! So make sure you gals post your birth stories - I love to read them and I need those doses of reality. (Though I do hope this kid comes before I have to spend anymore money on clothes...)

I am not hungry - there is no room for food! But I feel so tired that I find myself sticking sugary junk in my mouth for the instant boost - uuggghhhh!!! My ligaments are definitely softening, unfortunately they are not just the pelvic ones, I've become a total klutz and really wrenched my ankle last night.

OK, vent over ;) We got some good news last night that makes it more likely that I'll get to be a SAHM and homeschool - yippee!!!! (I'm a WAHM now and that is a HUGE challenge. DC #1 would probably have to go to school next year if I were to continue my work schedule.)

My 4.5 yr old told me this morning that it must be time for the baby to come out because my belly is getting so big that it might pop!

You ladies keep taking care and I really do look forward to reading birth stories!

[Jacqulyn]

WOW! So many of you Mammas are close.

I went to the MW yesterday and she said I should start getting things in order because form the looks of it; this baby could come sooner than later. I am not due for another 4 weeks, so that was kind of a shocker for me. She said she still thinks it will be full-term, but could come more around the 38th week instead of the 40th. YIKES! I still have someone living in our nursery!! I will kick him out (well, downstairs...) this weekend. I still have to finish making the nursery bedding and washing of clothes, packing, cooking, making a call list.... so many things :eek

My job is stressing me out. I mentioned before about how much I had to do before I left and my boss keeps giving me more and more things to do. We kind of got into it today. I tried to tell him I just can't take any more projects and he just doesn't listen. :irked:

The Farmers Market opens this weekend! I just love to go there, even if I don't buy anything, I love the atmosphere.

Have a good Wednesday!

[Marco Esquandolas]

So I had my appt tonight and the MD examining me is palpating away and she gets this odd sort of look and then all she says is "hmmm, baby is big...". Then she asks if I've been having many bh's and right on cue, I have a nice one for her to feel right on the exam table. It has been a looooong day-crampy, bh's, and the v&d (my body seems to evacuate from both ends a week or so prior to labor) are pretty tell-tale for me. Today was the appt to do my gbs swab so she *asks* (I like this particular MD a LOT, btw) if she can go ahead and check my cervix while she's up there and all, lol. Yep, dilated btwn 1-2, thinning out nicely and baby is fully engaged. I kinda figured all that, esp the head being engaged part, but it was actually kinda nice to hear the rest after the discomforts of late even though all it means is that I'm close (like a calendar couldn't tell me that one, haha). Soooo, she gave me the final weeks rundown about call or come on in when contrax get 5 mins apart or if water breaks and all that good stuff. I am still trying to not get excited but whatever, that's right out the window. I AM excited!! Actually, I keep vascilating btwn cranky & tired as all get out and giddy & energized as a kid in a candy store. Just thought I'd share!

Morningdove-I hope your bp cooperates. Keep lying on your left side if you're supposed to! I know it is a pita, but it is for the best. :hug

[KKmama]

Ds is taking a really long nap (and the house is clean ;)), so I decided to try to update/organize the "quick" roll call (the list of user names, edds, etc.) I also marked everyone who's replied to the current threads (because there are a lot of mamas either MIA or lurking! ;)). If y'all don't mind, I'll post it in a new sticky thread... The roll call thread is great, but as we're slowly but surely birthing our way through May, it will be nice to have a place to quickly see everyone's status (okay, okay, I'm really anal, but *I* want to know!). Here's the link: http://www.mothering.com/discussions/showthread.php?p=1387949#post1387949

I did this because I was wondering myself who was up soon (well, all of us ;)).

Could this be a nesting thing? ;)

[pottermamma]

Thanks for the continued well wished re: this blood pressure. Morning Dove I hope yours continues to stay down. When the midwife checked on Mon, my left arm was 122/88 but my right arm was 116/74 and then lying down was 112/62...so that is good although we were both amazed at how off the two arms were!!!! So, still spending lots of time on my left side and taking my herbs and I'm off of work except for some stuff I'm doing at home. Dh is run down though as he is doing EVERYTHING!!!!...whatta guy!!!!!!

Thanks KKmamma for all your "nesting" you have made it nice and easy to keep up with everyone.

I can commiserate with you Sherri and Sarah, I'm on my way to Friday (4/30) and I never thought I'd make it....see, I told you guys when I posted so long ago that I thought for SURE I"d have an April baby it would end up making me go into May...which is fine...it is why I joined this thread instead of the April one anyway....aside for not wanting to switch after getting to know you lovely ladies!!!!!!! :love But I SOOOOO want to meet this baby...I am trying to just enjoy the last few days/weeks we have together in this special way cause the baby can only stay in about 2 more weeks right!!!!!!!!

[mittendrin]

kkmama, sounds like you really have finished all your nesting, since you felt the urge to organize us now, :LOL
how 'bout you come over to my house and knock yourself out? i got 2 kids dressers to organize, a bassinet matress to make and if you want to, fill my freezer with yummies :wink

the list is actually a lot longer. when i hear you ladies talk about thinned out cervixes and mucus plugs, i just keep telling myself, wow, i still got a month! so i can be lazy, right?

baby is being a pita again today, i just can't believe how much my butt is hurting. somebody said sth about being constipated. yep, let me join the club... :irked:

i have a vibe, we'll be hearing our first birth story before the week is over :thumb
good luck to all!

[fiddlefern]

Hello all-

Just 2 days of work left- hooray!

I'm due in 2 weeks, but I have a feeling it'll be more like three. Momma's intuition combined with the fact that first-timers are often a week late, from what i hear.

I am not freezing anything. I'm letting other people take care of me after birth.

I'm letting dh pack for the labor- I printed out a list for him.

I will wash the baby clothes next week (assuming baby doesn't come sooner).

Honestly, what I hope to accomplish before baby comes is filing. I have a huge pile of papers in the office that I haven't dealt with- basically since I became pregnant. I have a bunch of other projects it'd be nice to complete (marriage was 4.5 yrs ago- I've done 3 pages of the scrapbook), but if I can get the filing done, I'll be happy.

I wish you all peace and plenty of sleep.

:) fiddlefern

[PattyCakes]

DANG it! I just lost my post! GAH!

Hang in there Sherri and Sarah!

I'm down to 2 days too - tomorrow is my last day! I'm so ready to be done. THings are very, very stressful right now. Despite me planning for months for this - my boss has only JUST realized that I'm ACTUALLY having a baby and leaving in 2 days- he's being an ass and I'm having piles of contractions.
Not good.

On a good note, we found our ped yesterday. She's really nice, open to talk about everything - is TOTALLY ok with delayed/modified vax and she practices homeopathy. Whohoo!

Also - we took an infant/child CPR class last night. (yay for us). Glad we did it, though I really hope that I don't have to use it.

Due in 3-4 weeks - but I think I may go a bit early. (not that it matters to me if I'm early or late). My Mum comes in less than 2 weeks and I can't wait to see her - nor can I wait to get to nesting at home. I just wanna get in there and get my stuff done.

Have a great day everyone!

[mcsarahb]

Howdy mamas-

Well, everyone wish me a happy EDD...Thanks! :wink

I'm doing okay, having some sort of weird pains up at the top of the uterus, right below my ribs. Can't tell if it's uterine or just gas...

Trying to keep myself busy and not second-guess every single contraction (Is this it? Is this the one?! Did that one feel different? Is that five in a row in half an hour?!?!?!). I'm such a stereotypical first-timer. :LOL

DH is being an absolute peach and hanging out with me all day today. Even has a special dinner planned that he won't tell me about. We're planning to go to the awesome Japanese Garden here in P-town and maybe go buy his birthday present (yes, his, but it's still a fun game for me, too). Also might peruse some baby resale shops.

Have a good day everyone-

Sarah

[KKmama]

Go Sarah go!!!! I'll be like a 1st timer, too, because with ds, I had an emergency cesarean with absolutely no labor. (It's part of the reason I was so excited that I have some dilation and effacement going on--never had that before!)

All of a sudden it hit me today--I'm SOOOOOO ready to not be pg anymore. Gad, I hope I have this baby soon. (I'm 39 wks tomorrow.)

I scheduled an acupuncture session for Saturday. I have kind of mixed feelings about doing it... On the one hand, I think it's better to try to do some of the "get the show on the road" stuff early enough and gently enough that it has a chance to help very gently, etc. On the other hand, I wonder if I'm doubting my body's ability to do it's own thing. But then I consider things half-way rationally and realize that one thing I'm trying to do is to avoid having major surgery again unless I really need it, it seems pretty prudent (yeah, the knife doesn't look so appealing). I also realized something really weird... if I just decided I was sick of being pregnant, I could just call the dr's office and schedule a cesarean. That is so weird (and kind of nasty). I mentioned that to dh (no, I'm not considering it), and he said, "Yeah, just call up and say, 'Please cut the baby out of me.'" :eek

We may have come up with a name, but it's a really weird name,