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*Amy*
07-12-2004, 12:21 PM
I was feeling pretty down this morning; strictly hormonal, I'm sure...and I was thinking about Seren and Jenny.

On the way home from the gym, I started thinking about all of the reasons to feel good about this pregnancy, and life, and I thought it might be uplifting for some to share their gratitude as well. I feel like I've been doing a lot of complaining because it's so sanctioned during pregnancy, but I am not liking the way it's been making me feel. So here are my reasons for feeling thankful today:

* I got pregnant before DH and I were even officially trying. We had just stopped trying to avoid pregnancy, and we decided to let it happen when it wanted to, and BAM! The first month, we got the :+ !! This was a huge relief for me, because I had been on the pill consistently for about 15 years and I had no idea if my body would be capable of getting pregnant, or how long it would take. So, yes, I am hugely grateful that we did not have the stress of TTC for months or years on end.

* I have a wonderfully supportive and loving husband to share this experience with.

* We have a large family and every single person is just overjoyed about the coming baby.

* I have the most amazing best friend who has shared every moment of joy, and has empathized during the low points.

* I haven't had morning sickness or any significant physical ailments! I have been very surprised by this because I used to get really nauseated during the first day of my new pill packs because of the hormone surge; I expected to be over the bowl for the first few months at least. So far I've had one morning of dry heaves and some generally low-grade nausea, but nothing serious. I can still eat a healthy and balanced diet, so I feel like I'm giving the baby what he/she needs (including Tater Tots! Babies need Tater Tots.).

* I have the entire Summer to work at home, so I'm not on a rigid schedule that would make morning sickness more likely.

* There is a very active and large LLL community in my area.

* I managed to locate a wonderful midwife within the rigid military medical system. That, in itself, is a miracle!!

* Only two more weeks until I get to hear the heartbeat!

* I've had a sticky baby so far, and we're almost out of the first trimester.

* I AM GOING TO BE A MOM!!!

:jumpers: :jumpers: :jumpers: :jumpers: :jumpers:




jiminy
07-12-2004, 05:13 PM
Hey Amy,

you know, that is a great outlook to have! there are so many positives to look forward to and it sounds like you are have a lot of love and support around you! thats great. I have the opposite where i just can't shake this nagging feeling that something is going to go wrong....i know its silly but i just can't seem to pass it. I am so excited but everytime i let myself get to excited (eg-talk with hubby about names or nursery or things, as no-one else knows yet) It seems to shock me back to earth when i notice some spotting or similar!!! I just hope the cloud is lifted from me when i see the 12 week ultrasound(or sonogram is that what you guys call it in the US?)! but you sound like you are getting very excited, and good on you i cant wait till i can be like you, hopefully that is very soon!!!!!!!!!!!!!

xx
jiminy!

Ps How is spencer going?

shannon0218
07-13-2004, 03:19 PM
Amy, this is a good idea for a thread.
I'm thankfull that even though I had some bleeding last night and my U/S showed a small tear between the amnion and chorion, that my baby is still in there with his little heart beating.
I'm thankfull htat I have now made it farther than ever before.
I'm thankfull that my doc has found the appropriate medication to control my hyperemisis.

ekblad9
07-14-2004, 08:16 AM
I always trudge my way through the first 12 wks but I am grateful that we have been blessed this many times with babies. I love babies, I love kids, I love being a mom! I have great friends IRL that are helping out a ton with my other kids while I'm sick in bed or on the couch. I have five great kids who understand that I can't do a lot right now. My 12 year old is changing diapers, my 7 year old has dressed her younger siblings. I'm lucky, I know that!

Free Thinker
07-15-2004, 11:56 AM
I need this thread!

I'm happy that I have an energetic toddler who is a joy to be around! We will soon have another one to enjoy, and share our lives with. My DH has a good job, and I get to stay home with my beautiful babies! How fortunate am I? :love Despite all the sickies, I am still happy :)