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MaryLang
08-16-2004, 12:53 PM
Ok, with dd I never really had a desire for it, but this time its all I can think about. And I am still worried though, but what a stress reliever, I've got too many other things to worry about, will I be able to have a VBAC, how long will dd nurse, ect... Anyways, are you ladies still doing it on a regular basis? Any worries about it?




Green4God
08-16-2004, 01:41 PM
Well we held off for about 3 weeks and then we caved in - what is it about being in a strange bed! Since they we have done it again. Yes, I'm nervous about it, particularly in light of my m/c, which is why dh wanted to wait, but the hormones are very hard to resist right now!

LoveMyLife
08-16-2004, 05:39 PM
Well, we were thoroughly enjoying ourselves the first few weeks of pregnancy and I thought "Wow, this is going to be awesome!" :love But then we were ordered to stop because of the spotting I was having but it's gone now so I think we'll just wait a few more days to make sure it's not coming back and then get back into it.
DH is totally fine with holding off- I think I was having more of a problem with it. And of course the nurse-practitioner apologizes to HIM when she says we can't do it until the spotting stops! :eyesroll He is scared he could make something bad happen but I'm more confident that everything will be okay. I don't think I'll have to twist his arm too much, though...

jessikate
08-16-2004, 06:00 PM
Well, if we could ever sneak out of our bed without DD waking up, we certainly would be having sex. I wanted to this morning, as a matter of fact, but she decided to wake up instead. :bang

At least I have interest in sex this time around. Last time, I couldn't care less about it.

saharasky
08-16-2004, 09:10 PM
Ditto on the sneaking out of bed without waking the toddler LOL...

We want to BUT she's always awake.

JoyAnne
08-17-2004, 04:21 PM
I am more interested than usual- dh less.

rectorgirl312
08-17-2004, 06:10 PM
I'm so not into it right now. I feel bad for my dh, he's not used to waiting so long. Is there anything I can do to increase my desire for it?