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dancingmama
04-04-2005, 01:25 PM
Hello everyone! I have been waiting and waiting to jump in here, as I had a m/c in November at 9 weeks and had jumped in with two feet and told everyone and it was so so awful. I'm now 8 weeks along, and we haven't told anyone yet. I'm having an u/s in one week and if all looks good, then I'll start telling. It feels so weird to not tell people. Especially dd. But she took it hard when I lost the last one ("... so I'm not gonna be a big sister???") and it was painful.

So far, though, I'm feeling adequately yucky, though not terrible. Alternately crampy, bloated, mild nausea, breast fullness, fatigue. And I love it all, cuz last time I felt almost nothing and I was worried, and as it turns out worried with good reason.

DD will be a little over 3 when number two comes, and we are definately stopping here! It took us ages to even decide to go for a second one!

Anyway, I look forward to getting to know all you mamas in the upcoming months!!!

:love




memory maker
04-04-2005, 02:06 PM
congrats! hope you are here for the long haul with us

sarahcecile
04-04-2005, 04:24 PM
Welcome and good luck with everything Dancingmama! We're glad to have you here!

-Sarah

pixiedust
04-04-2005, 05:14 PM
welcome and best wishes. :) I've told one good friend and my mother but beside that no one but me and hubby know for the same reasons. (I've had 4 m/c) I know it's nervewracking to be preggie after a loss! I have a u/s this week at 8.5 weeks and am really hopeful that we will see a heartbeat agian. :) If so I'm ready to tell. :LOL