mamatoady
08-24-2005, 10:34 AM
i am so stressed out. I am 6.5 weeks pregnant w/ #2 and my dh is being a complete ass to me. he was very excited for this suprise, but for the last couple months (ok, a lot of our marriage,but worse the last few months) he isn't respectful or loving of me/to me in the least. I read through the other posts about how attentive and caring everyone's dh's are and i am so envious because mine can't get out of himself.
I finally threatened him that he had to go see a therapist (who he's seen and likes and was helpful before) or I'd take it that he wasn't interested in improving our family and i'd have to leave. Well, i'm a stay-at-home mom,working on a degree, so even if I did leave, I'd probably have to work at a freaking grocery store or something while putting my beloved daughter in day-care and then in april i'm going to have a baby and 6 weeks later put him/her in daycare. i can't take it...this is more than i am equipped to handle!
everything i believe in child-rearing may have to be sacrificed because my dink of a dh can't take responsibility for himself.
just looking for support,
sarah
I finally threatened him that he had to go see a therapist (who he's seen and likes and was helpful before) or I'd take it that he wasn't interested in improving our family and i'd have to leave. Well, i'm a stay-at-home mom,working on a degree, so even if I did leave, I'd probably have to work at a freaking grocery store or something while putting my beloved daughter in day-care and then in april i'm going to have a baby and 6 weeks later put him/her in daycare. i can't take it...this is more than i am equipped to handle!
everything i believe in child-rearing may have to be sacrificed because my dink of a dh can't take responsibility for himself.
just looking for support,
sarah