Erin_82
09-07-2005, 01:55 AM
the other night one of my good guy friends told me that he thought my next pregnancy would be a miscarriage as well. We were talking about my miscarriage that i am currently still having (i've been bleeding and cramping for 2 weeks now) and he goes: "you're next baby will miscarry too."
at first i thought he was making a really really really bad joke. then he repeated it: "you're next baby is gonna miscarry".
I was like: NO ITS NOT!!!!!
and i went inside.
i was so offended and just couldnt believe anyone would say that, let alone a good friend who'd always been very caring and sensitive.
Worst of all, i'd always kinda looked up to him.
i'm a bit superstitious and i know no one knows the future but it just makes me feel like i'm trapped now, or that i'm cursed and my baby will die no matter what.
i'm so hurt that he said that. he apologized, and 'explained' what he meant, which was exactly what he said. he was even like "i'll take you out to lunch tomorow and we'll talk!" He never called. he has no idea how i feel now.
i feel only sadness and grief over this baby, and i have no hope that i will keep my next one.
please someone help. my bf is good firends with him too and is being somewhat less supportive then i'd like.
my bestguy friend was more outraged then my BF was....which is upsetting also.
at first i thought he was making a really really really bad joke. then he repeated it: "you're next baby is gonna miscarry".
I was like: NO ITS NOT!!!!!
and i went inside.
i was so offended and just couldnt believe anyone would say that, let alone a good friend who'd always been very caring and sensitive.
Worst of all, i'd always kinda looked up to him.
i'm a bit superstitious and i know no one knows the future but it just makes me feel like i'm trapped now, or that i'm cursed and my baby will die no matter what.
i'm so hurt that he said that. he apologized, and 'explained' what he meant, which was exactly what he said. he was even like "i'll take you out to lunch tomorow and we'll talk!" He never called. he has no idea how i feel now.
i feel only sadness and grief over this baby, and i have no hope that i will keep my next one.
please someone help. my bf is good firends with him too and is being somewhat less supportive then i'd like.
my bestguy friend was more outraged then my BF was....which is upsetting also.