timing/etc

[japanellie]

Hi,
My DS is 11 months now and DH and I are thinking about another one, maybe in the new year. Any thoughts about whether its easier if No. 1 is a bit older or younger??
Alos, I am still BF DS quite a lot and havent gotten my period yet. I guess i am a bit stupid about this, but how can I get preg if I havent gotten it yet? I guess I could do the temp thing but was wondering if there are other methods to figure out fertile times.

[kerikadi]

Most women have a retun of their period before they become fertile. However, there are also women that don't have a cycle between pregnancies. It is unlikely you are fertile unless you have seen some egg white quality mucus which will likely appear after you have had your first PP period.
When you want to get pregnant once your cycle returns may depend on if you want to tandem nurse and how long you want to nurse your older child.
I would suggest waiting for your cycle to return naturally and looking at the timeline then.

Keri