Alana
10-25-2005, 05:45 PM
Dh and I are not ready for #4 right now. Our dd is 20mo and normally we are one month away from a birth. :innocent Since she was born we have just been going by fertile signs, well, I have, dh just listens. I havent charted because it seems too complicated. I just go by CM and how i feel, kwim? :wink Anyway, Ive been paranoid lately about getting pregnant. Last pregnancy was painful, recovery was painful and long, and I had very bad PPD, no rush to go through that again right now. I dont like IUD's or hormonal bc, so I bought VCF (vaginal contraceptive film) But, I think Im allergic to it. The next day Im VERY uncomfortable. I dont tolerate condoms well either. I used to have a diaphragm, but that was not very comfortable either, I always knew it was there. Right now dh is talking about getting a vasectomy. He is mostly concerned for my health, I have fibromyalgia and he does not want me to have to go through PPD again or be in so much pain again. Im not totally comfortable with something so permanent. We are planning on adopting in 2008, so I know most likely we will have more dc. I just dont know what bc to use in the meantime.