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fiddlefern
10-26-2005, 01:26 AM
My ds wakes every 1 to 2 hours all night long. Three months ago I stopped nursing at every waking. It was an aweful experience for us, because ds was very attached to nursing back to sleep. We did it because ds is Failure to Thrive and the horrible gastro-enterologist (ok, not horrible, just very mainstream) wanted us to wean completely (NOT) so I felt like I had to have some kind of compromise.

Anyway, we're through the other side of that, and usually when ds wakes up after an hour or two, I can pat his back and he rolls over and goes back to sleep, often without any fuss whatsoever. Ds sleeps in a crib sidecarred to our bed (except when I fall asleep nursing- tee hee). I nurse him every 3 hours or so, more often if his tummy's grumbling at a 2 hour waking.

My question is... Why is he still waking so frequently? I realize this is probably hard to answer over the internet without knowing my child. I'm just feeling like there must be something else going on here, something related to the fact that he's FTT (gradually dropped to the zero percentile after being born in the 50%, his height/weight ratio is in the first percentile- basically way too skinny). We have no idea why he's FTT- he's been tested for food allergies, he's been tested for all kinds of nasty things which he doesn't have.

We're seeing a naturopath for the second time tomorrow and perhaps she'll have answers, but I just thought I'd post here on the chance ya'll could help me brainstorm.




chinaKat
10-26-2005, 02:50 PM
I don't have an answer, just wanted to give you some sympathy. :)

chinaKat

maciascl
10-26-2005, 05:08 PM
I don't have any suggestions, but wanted to say that my DS is 22 months & still a frequent night waker. It may just be your ds's personality. Are you handleing the night waking ok?

fiddlefern
10-28-2005, 12:22 AM
Thanks for the sympathy. :love

I'm handling the night-waking ok. Heck, I've been doing this since he was born. I get enough total sleep. I just worry about WHY he wakes up so much. I know a fair number of babies ds's age who are starting to sleep through the night finally (and whose parents did NOT practice CIO), so I guess I was kinda feeling like "why isn't mine sleeping longer too?" Maybe it is personality. :shrug

Bleu
10-28-2005, 12:48 AM
There is a distinct, heightened night-waking stage at about your ds's age. It lasted for my ds about 3-4 months. It really helped me to know that it was normal and would be over, even when the end was nowhere in sight. HTH.

my2girlsmama
10-28-2005, 08:53 AM
Mama no words of help for you but I am living your world, and I am NOT getting the total sleep. Read the Natural remedie to sleep thread....many of us share your pain.

Just huge :hug :grouphug

merpk
10-30-2005, 08:52 AM
My only suggestion (and I'm totally on one track lately :lol) is molars. My 17mo DD#2 has been getting these same two teeth for the last 3 freakin' months and I'm going nuts. One or two little points have finally popped out of her gums and that's it, you can see the rest of those ****ing sharp points and the rest of those @#$% teeth right under the surface of the gum, all white and sparkly ... and the gum is all red and painful ... :bawl

Anyway. Enough ranting about my baby's gums.

Checked any gums lately?

my2girlsmama
10-30-2005, 09:21 AM
Yeah I second the whole teeth thing...this babe of mine is a fast teether....she has 8 up front, and 4 molars, and I just checked again today and there are two buds from her eye teeth! ARGH!!!! I mean no wonder the Camilia (boiron) I gave last night didn't do too much other than drowsy but still cranky in her sleep........the Badger balm does the same.....she is a huge teether....my oldest was a slow teether and similar sleep issues but they'd simmered by this age. This kid just gets teeth faster than I can see! :irked: