View Full Version : Please welcome Winter Alexander!!!!!
DreamsInDigital
12-04-2005, 10:38 PM
In a few short hours I will be 15 days past my due date.
I took 4 oz. of castor oil and have been taking black and blue cohosh all day to absolutely no avail. I haven't had a single contraction all day.
Revoke my crunchy card or whatever, I just don't care anymore. I am calling my midwife in the morning and telling her I want to be scheduled for an induction ASAP. Maybe some people can handle going 3 weeks overdue but I am not one of them.
Edited to add:
Updated at end.
spiralmg
12-04-2005, 10:41 PM
Oh, the best of luck. Poor castor oil eater - I don't envy you that. You've certainly made a heroic effort to get things going. Well maybe your baby will just surprise you tonight and decide to come out now that you've really threatened it. With DS, my water broke early, but there was no labor at all until the midwife, with a monitor on my belly, threatened induction. And then lo and behold, labor started within a minute. May something wonderful like that happen to you too. And in any case, good luck. You will have your baby soon.
mamajessica
12-04-2005, 10:45 PM
:hug DID. Just checking in on you from the PDX thread. I wish you weren't sooooo overdue and burnt. sending you some vibies :dust
coloradoalice
12-04-2005, 10:46 PM
Good luck, I hope your birth goes smoothly! You have been a real trooper and I don't blame you one bit!! :hug Let us know how things turn out!!
EStreetMama
12-04-2005, 10:47 PM
Oh...that stinks, DID! Sorry you're going through this. You can definitely keep your crunchy card, though!!!!
We're with you in spirit...wish we we could do one collective PUSH and get that baby out for you. Get lots of sleep if you can!!! Let us know if we can help you.
anniegirl
12-04-2005, 10:49 PM
Bless your heart, I just read your castor oil thread. Smooth and easy labor vibes to you.
birthjunkie27
12-04-2005, 11:06 PM
DID :Hug . I would probably get to that point at 41 weeks....I really admire that you've hung in there this long! I'd be begging for an induction by that point, to hell with my crunchy card. I'm feeling desperate and I'm not even to my due date yet! I went early with my first 2, so I *feel* like I'm overdue. I wish you luck and lots of gentle labor vibes for you tonight.
cobluegirl
12-04-2005, 11:33 PM
I just pm'd you DID. (((HUGS)))
amis2girls
12-04-2005, 11:40 PM
:hug Can't wait to read that he's here!
ljpmom
12-04-2005, 11:58 PM
So sorry things didn't work out the way you had hoped. I am a going on 4 days overdue and it is hard enough. I don't blame you at all! Good luck, let us know how things go :)
bri276
12-05-2005, 12:06 AM
I shouldn't be in here but I'll make you feel better by saying I turned in my crunchy granola card at 8 days past dd (I *knew* it was at least 8 days past, had tons of early bloodwork and ultrasounds due to past miscarriages). I just absolutely freaked out and had to do it and I don't blame ya one bit. I bet your cervix is so nice and ripe now that once they get you going you'll be able to do it semi-naturally, lol. Time to come out, little one!
(whoa we're starting to look like a mainstream board! pretty soon I'll be telling you don't worry, so and so was formula fed and he's healthy as a horse and don't carry that baby around so much, he'll never learn to walk!! lmao!)
pamamidwife
12-05-2005, 01:06 AM
I wonder if your mw will break your water...it's one of the first things they'll do at the hospital, anyway. if you're serious about going in, then I'd try that first. definitely. couldn't hurt since they'll be wanting to do it anyway.
{{hugs}} - it is hard to be overdue. I'm so sorry. Perhaps doing something nice for yourself tomorrow? Massage? Pedicure? You could do both while leaking water. :)
though I'd venture to say just saying "F*$k it" like this will get things going. :)
I had a client that went 4 weeks and two days over...first baby. hot days, no less. I have no idea how she managed. :)
wanted to add, too, that I have much MORE success with homeopathic versions of blue & black cohosh rather than the tinctures. IMO, the tinctures suck to get labor going. Once you have *some* contractions, the only tincture I really like is cottonroot bark.
judybean
12-05-2005, 01:29 AM
Can't wait to hear your birth announcement!!
(and NO WAY am I even going to *think* about revoking your crunchy card... it shouldn't be about rules anyway.. it's about doing the best you can with what you have... and I think you've been a trooper... but... let us know how it all went, okay?!?!)
DreamsInDigital
12-05-2005, 03:17 AM
Pam I think you may be right. Saying f*** it was all this baby needed.
Contractions are strong enough to have woken me out of a sound sleep, coming every 5 minutes and getting stronger. No cohosh since 9pm, no castor oil since 2pm.
Apparently he is only motivated when mama is really pissed.
I'll keep you guys updated since now I can't sleep. But in a good way, we hope!
mamaesol
12-05-2005, 03:18 AM
I hear you! :Hug I am going to be induced tomorrow too. I not overdue, but I am too swollen and my blood pressure is almost too high. I don't want to take any chances... And, I am about 4 cm dilated.... I am so nervous...
mamaesol
12-05-2005, 03:20 AM
Hey, Good news!!! Good luck in you delivery!!! :thumb
DesireeH
12-05-2005, 03:55 AM
Oh yay! The updated news is much better sounding for you! I hope this is it.
stillill
12-05-2005, 04:03 AM
DID:
I am 5 hours overdue and feel like you at 15 days. You are bad a$$ for sticking this out and I hope your last posting means that your babe is complying. I am just barely starting to experience the emotional torture and physical strain you have been through... you're awesome and whatever happens you made the right decision.
"I am woman, hear me roar"
IncaMama
12-05-2005, 05:40 AM
oooh i hope this is it for you!!!!!!
Spark
12-05-2005, 05:45 AM
Oh! DID! :dust LABOR VIBES THAT DO NOT GO AWAY!!!!
Come on intensity! Come on productivity! Come on baby!!!
(For the record - Crunchy cards just don't get taken away in my book. You know your body and your baby better than anyone else.)
DreamsInDigital
12-05-2005, 06:34 AM
Yay! I'm really in labor! My midwife is here and last check I was 4cm and my water broke at 4am.
Yay!!!!!!!!!
Spark
12-05-2005, 07:23 AM
YAY!!!!
:dust Sweet sweet baby in your arms soon!!!
StarCat
12-05-2005, 07:26 AM
HOORAY!!!!!!!!!! I hope things go super smooth for you today. I can't wait to hear your beautiful birth story and see pics of that baby!!
atozmama
12-05-2005, 07:38 AM
:dust Oh, I hope these have continued and by now you are so close to holding your baby! My last two deliveries had real quiet day (as far as my uterus goes) before bam! waking up in the middle of the night in full blown labor.
One day or one event does not define crunchiness or lack thereof. You could still keep your card even if you had needed to do a hospital inductioon.
coloradoalice
12-05-2005, 09:30 AM
Yipee!!! How wonderful!! Here's wishes for a good labor and a happy babymoon!!
:dust
aisraeltax
12-05-2005, 10:54 AM
thank goodness DID! you are awesome! and you know how men are...sometimes they don't listen until women get pissed! lol!
happy labor vibes.
rach
MistyB
12-05-2005, 11:43 AM
Woohoo!!!! ; )
darkpear
12-05-2005, 11:59 AM
Yay! Bet you're holding that baby by now...
DesireeH
12-05-2005, 12:39 PM
Yay! I bet you are holding baby by now too!!
judybean
12-05-2005, 02:10 PM
YAYAYAYAY!!!! :banana :banana :banana (because I figure you can never have too many dancing bananas -- especially when celebrating a birth!!!!
Can't WAIT to hear your story!
anniegirl
12-05-2005, 03:30 PM
Yay! So happy for you!
IncaMama
12-05-2005, 03:32 PM
Woohoooo!!!
DreamsInDigital
12-05-2005, 03:46 PM
http://www.mothering.com/discussions/showthread.php?p=4228849#post4228849
He's finally here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
anniegirl
12-05-2005, 03:51 PM
Congratulations!!! I love his name.
PatchPixie
12-05-2005, 04:04 PM
YAY!!! I am so glad you had baby Winter!!! :) I love his beautiful name, too - what a gift you gave him, mama!! And a nice *big* boy - glad everyone is so healthy & happy!!
Enjoy each other!! :love
juliasmum
12-05-2005, 04:12 PM
Hooray!! I am so glad he is finally here. I am so amazed that you made it 15 days!
I love his name.
amelissam
12-05-2005, 04:16 PM
Congratulations!!
DesireeH
12-05-2005, 04:30 PM
Awww congratulations!!! YAY!
mariposita
12-05-2005, 04:32 PM
Congratulations to you and your family!
darkpear
12-05-2005, 04:47 PM
Wow, what a big healthy babe! Congrats!
stillill
12-05-2005, 04:52 PM
yippee... BIG BAYBAY!!!!! awesome!
cariadanam
12-05-2005, 04:52 PM
LOVE the name, congratulations!!!!
allnaturalmama
12-05-2005, 06:09 PM
You are a saint. I'm so glad the Labor Fairy finally got the correct directions to your house! Congratulations and welcome to baby Winter (beautiful name!)
wawoof
12-05-2005, 07:44 PM
Congratulations, DID!!! You are a trooper!
Spring Sun
12-05-2005, 08:54 PM
Yea! Finally! His name is so beautiful!
DreamsInDigital
12-05-2005, 10:32 PM
Thanks so much for all your love and support. I totally could not have made it through without you guys here. I promise I am getting pics, but seriously they are not kidding when they say afterpains are worse with each baby. Ouch!
judybean
12-06-2005, 01:58 AM
HOOOOOOORAY!!!!!!!!
Congratulations mama! I'm so, SO glad you were able to get the birth you wanted even though there were certainly hurdles along the way!!!
:hug to you and to your now-expanded family!!!!!!!
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