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merpk
01-17-2003, 02:24 AM
Got this e-mail from my only other AP list ... very cute ... but figuring out what mama had enough to time compose it floors me ... must've been her husband, with all that time they save not having to feed the baby :D ...


Definitions of breastfeeding terms:

Boob Lift - The unconscious lifting of one's breasts to check which is fuller. May be done at any time regardless of where you are or whom you're talking to, grocery sackers and priests notwithstanding.

Nursing Flip - The action of adjusting you and your baby to make ready for nursing. This means moving your tee-shirt off your butt, doing the "boob-lift", putting the baby in the crook of your arm and unlatching your bra, all in about 15 seconds, with no attention taken away from your previous task.

Wet-Nurse Syndrome - The unconscious urge to nurse any fussy baby you happen to be holding; you may be engaged in casual converstion while holding your neighbor's baby, she fusses and you do the "nursing flip," your neighbor looks at you shocked, "oh my, she must be hungry," you mumble as you pass her infant back. *A side-effect of this is the "breastmilk
fixes everything" philosophy. Actually pumping your milk for the stray kitten you found, under the rational that, of course, human milk is better than cow milk for a starving kitten. You may also find yourself using breastmilk for your family's various wounds: "Got a sore, earache or zit? Put some breastmilk on it, that'll fix it.'' (least that's what they say, can't hurt)

Boobie Wrangling - The acrobatics your toddler does while nursing, including but not limited to flips, headstands, & taffypulls, all while surrounded by relatives who believe that baby should have been weaned months ago. The benefit of this exercise is that you can now nurse your child while each of you lie on your backs.

Twiddling - What happens if everyone fails to mention that your baby caressing your other breast while nursing is NOT sweet. Never, never let your baby know that you can possibly have two breasts at the same time. Always keep the unused breast covered, lest you want your little nursling to use it as her favorite toy. This becomes a habit quick, heed our warning.

The Steal - The act of removing your nipple from your already sleeping baby's mouth so that you may roll over or sneak out of bed for some midnight internet use. Typically takes 2 or 3 tries to succeed.

Just a Sip - When your now-walking baby comes to you, lifts your shirt, grabs a drink to refuel him/herself for 10 more minutes of play. This act of helping themselves is a show of independence for them, and a show of breast for everyone else in the room.

Car Surfing - What you are doing when you strategically hover your breast over the baby's car seat while daddy drives down the interstate, ignoring your butt in the rearview mirror.

Ecstasy Eyes - Picture this: baby is screaming at your feet while you are talking on the phone, cooking dinner, and getting a band-aid for your toddler. You finally sit and pick up the baby to nurse, and she goes from screaming wildly to rolling her eyes to the back of her head in ecstacy in only a few seconds.

Kneading - The act of dang near maiming your breast tissue while your adorable (and sharp nailed) little one nurses. This can result in your breast looking like you've just nursed a baby kitten.




Kate
01-17-2003, 06:45 AM
This is a riot! Thanks so much for providing an early-morning giggle. SO TRUE.

Yinsum
01-17-2003, 08:48 AM
I love it. Ditto for the early morning giggle. I'd like to add one more term:
Boobie Sling Anchoring - hiking up the sling to just the right position so you can bf baby and take care of another little one, go potty, go online, yada yada yada. :bgbounce

DaryLLL
01-17-2003, 12:14 PM
Those were fun! Here I thought it was going to be a thread on what the heck these means--BM, EBM, EBF, ABM, NIP, etc.

mama2m&m
01-17-2003, 12:52 PM
That was funny! They should add a disclaimer under the twiddling one about how long it takes to breat this habit once it's started. My dd is almost 22 mos. and I still can't get her to stop this irritating habit!

AutumnMoonfire
01-17-2003, 02:16 PM
twiddling can occur even when you make every effort to prevent it. Mine both went through a stage where they had to gently caress parents...soothing for 2yo but absolutely not for the adult getting "diddled" *shivers*

mama2m&m
01-17-2003, 02:19 PM
AutumnFire, I'm just wondering how long the phase lasts! We're slowly working away (after months of redirection), but when I've found she's left the twiddling in one situation, she finds something else equally irritating such as pinching the underneath of my breast or scratching my armpit :rolleyes:

Xenogenesis
01-17-2003, 06:20 PM
Fiddling and twiddling can be even worse when the ... uhm ... affected nipple fills with milk right behind the tip like some hugely engorged conical-looking thing that might explode any moment <just so they can really quickly switch to the other side with the added bonus that everyone else in the room gets to see your whole "chest-al" area. {Of course they all FIRMLY KNOW Babe "should have been weaned months ago."}

Anyone familiar with the old lifesavers commercial?

<tweak-tweak....twiddle-twiddle....there's only one candy with the hole in the middle.....>

<written whilst nakking: nursing at (the) keyboard>

rwikene
01-21-2003, 07:56 PM
oh...I love those!!!!

I especially can relate to the steal and ecstacy eyes

oh yeah, and the infamous boob lift

hehe

owensmom
01-22-2003, 11:40 AM
That was great!!! Thanks for sharing - all soooo true!

Ds (1) just figured out that the boobs are under my shirt. He lifted my pj top and was like, "hey! there they are!" He tried it later and I had a bra on and he seemed perturbed.

I also love the universal giggle they do just before latching on, or while you do the boob lift.

mama2m&m
01-22-2003, 12:00 PM
Originally posted by owensmom


I also love the universal giggle they do just before latching on, or while you do the boob lift.

Isn't that the greatest??!!! Sometimes my dd will even say "thank you" right before latching. Gotta love EN

mamaofthree
01-22-2003, 01:35 PM
:rotflmao :bgbounce :rotflmao :bgbounce :rotflmao :bgbounce :love :love :love



That was so funny and SO TRUE!!! THe kneeding was a riot!


HEATHERH

NoraB
01-23-2003, 04:55 AM
ROFLOL!!!

I'm seriously guilty of the boob lift! I catch myself doing this all the time!!

CollegeMama
01-23-2003, 10:44 AM
Originally posted by mama2m&m
AutumnFire, I'm just wondering how long the phase lasts! We're slowly working away (after months of redirection), but when I've found she's left the twiddling in one situation, she finds something else equally irritating such as pinching the underneath of my breast or scratching my armpit :rolleyes:

Have you all tried nursing necklaces? My stepsister made me one and it works wonders!

Marcy

mama2m&m
01-23-2003, 10:55 AM
marcy - thanks for the suggestion of a nursing necklace. my problem is the twiddling comes in the middle of the night and I can't imagine wearing a chunky thing then. otherwise, it's the greatest of inventions for nursing moms!

Chi-Chi Mama
01-23-2003, 11:48 AM
:rotflmao :rotflmao :rotflmao :rotflmao :rotflmao

:LOL :LOL :LOL :LOL

:love :love :love

so funny... so true :D

meister31
01-23-2003, 12:12 PM
:bgbounce :bgbounce
my boob lift is more of a boob juggle--- I lift quickly right-left-right-left---and that universal giggle IS the greatest!

honeybear's mommy
02-26-2004, 03:30 PM
this is sooo funny and sooo true, mine giggles like "heh heh heh...heh"
and has been for a really long time! (22 mo old now!) and when he first started i loved it so much not for humor but it was one of his first "words" i thought..for nursing or letting me know he wants the boob!

this is my first post ever!!!! but i've been reading these threads for a long time but it is exciting to finally be able to chime in!:D :D :D

my son is so obsessed with twiddling that i have to keep my free hand clamped down over my other breast (even if i have a bra on, he can get in!!) and he then instead of twiddling, focuses his energy on trying to pry (and i mean hard) his little fingers between mine to get to the nipple!

and the twiddle "shiver"! as i read someone call it - i rarely hear anyone mention or acknowledge this...but yes, this is probably WHY twiddling bothers me so, and why i now will not allow for ANY twiddle action...regardless of what my ds thinks of this!! :( :angry :crying :scratch :confused: ...i'm sure it does not make sense to him though....

rareimer
02-26-2004, 03:54 PM
LOVE IT! very funny!

i like the "breastmilk fixes everything" complex...i got a tattoo several weeks ago, and dh was like, "are you going to put breastmilk on it?" :LOL

Gidget
02-26-2004, 04:40 PM
I saw this when someone posted it elsewhere while dd was still nursing. She used to look for me to get off work at the normal time and as soon as I walked in she would do this maniacal sounding half laugh half cry thing until I lifted shirt and nursed her. Someone suggested calling it "Sweet Anticipation." :love

Ginger

FitMama
02-26-2004, 04:47 PM
Ahhhhh that was such a great big belly laugh for me. Thanks OP!!! :love

mom2tig99Nroo03
02-26-2004, 05:35 PM
too cute :):LOL