eastkygal
02-23-2006, 08:31 AM
My dd was born in August via unplanned (pushed on me) c section. I'm from a small town and had recently moved to a big city. I know no one, and I found no "natural" birthing centers. I ended up going to a practice with all female doctors. I practiced for a Bradley birth, and my doctors supported me, though said I needed to be at the hospital. My mother had to deliver all of us via c section because she didn't dialte past seven.
Now, the doctors worried that my dd was too large to deliver because I was 9 lbs. and my dh was 10 lbs. They did 6 ultrasounds and said she was upwards of 10 lbs. I went in for my 9 months checkup and they said I would have to be induced if I had any hope of a natural delivery. My step-sister did hers natural and I so wished I could too. She felt great afterward. I said okay. I was knew to the thinking of "natural" family/parenting. No one I knew subscribed to it much either.
When I got to the hospital, they would not induce me and the on call dr. from my practice said I needed a c section if I wanted to insure my baby's health. She said I ran the risk of cp, her getting stuck, etc... I was frightened and so wanted a healthy baby. My family of course all listen to the OB and made me feel like it was okay to progress with that method.
I did have a healthy baby, but she was only 8.13 lbs. I kind of felt like me and my dd were gyped.
I had a rough healing period, but my dd helped me through. I refused pain medicine because I was breastfeeding. I made sure my dd roomed in, so I took care of her. My incision tore open upon returning home, and I was 3 months before I felt close to myself again.
Don't get me wrong. I'm so pleased my baby girl is healthy and I have her to hold. Sometimes I feel guilty about my choice for the c section. People have told me though that you are there to have a baby not a birth. I try to think that way. I just wanted what was best for my babe.
Now, the question. I plan on getting pregnant again in January of 2007. How possible is it for me to hope for a natural birth this time? Who should I look for for support? I know it is probably too dangerous now to try for a home birth because of possiblity of uterine rupture. Can someone offer me positive advice?:innocent
Now, the doctors worried that my dd was too large to deliver because I was 9 lbs. and my dh was 10 lbs. They did 6 ultrasounds and said she was upwards of 10 lbs. I went in for my 9 months checkup and they said I would have to be induced if I had any hope of a natural delivery. My step-sister did hers natural and I so wished I could too. She felt great afterward. I said okay. I was knew to the thinking of "natural" family/parenting. No one I knew subscribed to it much either.
When I got to the hospital, they would not induce me and the on call dr. from my practice said I needed a c section if I wanted to insure my baby's health. She said I ran the risk of cp, her getting stuck, etc... I was frightened and so wanted a healthy baby. My family of course all listen to the OB and made me feel like it was okay to progress with that method.
I did have a healthy baby, but she was only 8.13 lbs. I kind of felt like me and my dd were gyped.
I had a rough healing period, but my dd helped me through. I refused pain medicine because I was breastfeeding. I made sure my dd roomed in, so I took care of her. My incision tore open upon returning home, and I was 3 months before I felt close to myself again.
Don't get me wrong. I'm so pleased my baby girl is healthy and I have her to hold. Sometimes I feel guilty about my choice for the c section. People have told me though that you are there to have a baby not a birth. I try to think that way. I just wanted what was best for my babe.
Now, the question. I plan on getting pregnant again in January of 2007. How possible is it for me to hope for a natural birth this time? Who should I look for for support? I know it is probably too dangerous now to try for a home birth because of possiblity of uterine rupture. Can someone offer me positive advice?:innocent