i was supposed to get legally married on tuesday

[honeybeedreams]

my partner and have been together almost 4 years. we had a non-legal union ceremony 3.5 years ago. i need to be legally married to him to get on his insurance and since i stay home i have no insurance of my own.

the town justice was supposed to come over and marry us on tuesday night. the day i lost the baby. i postponed it till friday, but man... i still feel terrible.. ugh. i know we just need to get it over with, we don't have rings or anything and aren't doing anything special.... but it just feels so screwed up.

and i should get on insurance so i can get my thyroid levels checked, and i should have insurance just in case. but it's all so surreal this week.

[surf mama]

That's nice that you will get to have insurance, but sorry about the timing! I know after my m/c I dropped out of most things for a bit and spent time just resting and healing. It's a bummer we can't pause the world for a bit of time to heal.

[mama4gals]

Honeybeedreams, :hug . I'm sorry about the loss of your baby. That's wonderful that you and dp are getting married. I'm sorry it had to be postponed.

Liz