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scheelimama
09-11-2006, 02:14 PM
I was afraid I wouldn't be here long, but so hopeful. I've had bleeding for the past week and I was afraid I may have miscarried on Saturday, since I've been feeling less pregnant since then. I went to the dr. this morning and my urine test was negative. I was then referred to an OB. I went there a couple hours after my first appt. this morning. I had blood drawn, but haven't heard from them yet. The dr. also did an ultrasound which showed nothing except that I am not experiencing an ectopic pregnancy and my IUD was in the right place.

I could tell the dr. hardly believed that I was actually pregnant, but I can tell you I know I was. He said that maybe the tests were wrong. How often do you get two positive pregnancy tests that are actually malfunctioning and wrong, at the same time that you are experiencing morning sickness and peeing every half hour. Coincidence? I highly doubt it! Stupid male OB-gyn's. (I know, that was a terrible huge overgeneralization, but I know my body). Anyway, he said it would be too early to see anything on an ultrasound anyway. I did have him pull my IUD so that dh and I don't have to go through this emotional rollercoaster again. It sucks.

I'm pretty sure dh will want to go ahead and start TTC as soon as possible. He was wanting to get pregnant anyway when this happened. I was wanting to wait another 6 months, but after feeling the excitement of actually being pregnant again, I'm ready to go for it. So, maybe I'll get to join the June DDC. I wish you all healthy sticky pregnancies! And I'll be sure to update with my blood results later when I get them.




MonkeyPrincess
09-11-2006, 02:28 PM
I am so sorry to hear this!

My sister is actually going through something very similar...she is two weeks late, feeling vomity and super tired. She got three faint pregnancy tests, each one lighter that the last. She also has an IUD and went this am for her bloodwork. She's still waiting for the results.

I'll have to pop over to your new ddc and see how things are doing. :wink
Good luck!

EricaE
09-11-2006, 02:35 PM
I'm so sorry :Hug

And don't listen to that doctor - it's very unlikely to get even ONE false positive on a HPT, not to mention TWO! I'm sorry for you loss...

MommyTeesa
09-11-2006, 02:57 PM
:hug

momto l&a
09-11-2006, 02:59 PM
:hug

lolalola
09-11-2006, 03:19 PM
I'm very sorry.

chrissy
09-11-2006, 04:14 PM
Oh Alisha,
I am so sorry! And I hate that the stupid OB was so insensitive. I know when I had my second miscarriage I was really scared the OB's weren't even going to believe I was ever pregnant. I don't know why I cared, but I did. I just wanted to share that with you.

I hope that you are able to get pregnant again right away.

:candle: for your little baby.
:hug for you.

Goldiemom
09-11-2006, 04:20 PM
So sorry that you had such an insensitive doc. :Hug Best of luck ttc again. Please let us know when you are pg again, so we can know how you are doing.

scheelimama
09-11-2006, 04:27 PM
Thanks everyone. It's nice to have so much support here. I'm not terribly upset about it since I was expecting it in the first place and I tried hard not to get attached to the idea of being pregnant. It just seemed rather uncertain from the beginning. Dh is having a hard time though, which I really didn't expect. And thanks Chrissy for sharing that with me. It does matter that we were pregnant, even though the OB may not care. It's a human life, whether for just 2 short weeks inside of me or for 90 years on earth. It doesn't matter. It's not fair for dr's to just write it off as an early and fortunate miscarriage (I say fortunate because I could have had a lot worse complications with an IUD, and that's how the dr. see's this, that's not how I feel.) Anyway, I really appreciate all of the support. I would have enjoyed getting to know you all more.

Luv2bemommy
09-11-2006, 04:50 PM
:Hug :Hug :Hug :Hug I'm so very sorry hun.:(

Slingin'Momto4
09-11-2006, 05:01 PM
I am so sorry for your loss :hug

amandajf
09-11-2006, 05:54 PM
:grouphug

WendyC
09-11-2006, 06:53 PM
Oh thats awful that the doctor treated you like that. Hugs to you :hug:

Debstmomy
09-11-2006, 07:10 PM
I am sorry. :hug

stacey0402
09-12-2006, 01:31 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss :hug I hope to see you around the pregnancy forums again soon! Many wishes for a happy and healthy pregnancy in the very near future :)

scheelimama
09-12-2006, 02:58 PM
Blood test confirmed it's over. Thanks for all the support. I have no doubt I'll be in the June DDC and hopefully the next one will be a healthy baby. I'll come over and let you all know when I get pregnant again. DH is very anxious, so hopefully we get pregnant quickly.

gretasmommy
09-12-2006, 04:50 PM
So sorry to see you leave us . . you'll be back soon, though! :grouphug

clavicula
09-13-2006, 12:52 AM
Alisha, i am so sorry for your loss...you are in my thoughts!

UrbanEarthMom
09-13-2006, 07:02 PM
I ams so sorry. Wishing you health and healing.:hug

darsmama
09-13-2006, 07:14 PM
I'm very sorry...