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gretasmommy
09-14-2006, 03:14 PM
Thanks for all of the support here, but I had an U/S today and there's no heartbeat . . . actually, an empty sac. I knew as I was watching that I wasn't seeing anything . . . My midwife was very kind, said a few things about perhaps we are off on dates (I know exactly when I ovulated) . . but my bHCG numbers are very high - this doesn't make sense with no baby in the sac. So, while I have another u/s scheduled for next week, it looks like this will end in a m/c.

I just hope it happens soon, as this has been almost 7 weeks now.

I have had a sense that something wasn't right for about 2 weeks now, and the sac measures 5.5 weeks. I should have trusted that instinct.

Wishing you all healthy,happy babies!




RobynFSU
09-14-2006, 03:17 PM
:Hug :Hug :Hug to you. How heartbreaking. I am so sorry for your loss.

MommyTeesa
09-14-2006, 03:24 PM
Oh, Andrea, I'm very sorry. :hug

lolalola
09-14-2006, 03:42 PM
:Hug
I am so very sorry for your loss.

Goldiemom
09-14-2006, 03:47 PM
:Hug So sorry for your loss Andrea.

Debstmomy
09-14-2006, 04:23 PM
I am so very sorry :(

tryingagain
09-14-2006, 05:41 PM
I am so sorry for your loss.

chrissy
09-14-2006, 05:56 PM
i'm so sorry andrea. :hug
:candle

darsmama
09-14-2006, 06:19 PM
:Hug
Too many mama's are leaving us, I am really sorry for it all. You are in my thoughts. :Hug

UrbanEarthMom
09-14-2006, 06:24 PM
How sad, I am very sorry for your loss.:hug

Mary

gretasmommy
09-14-2006, 10:19 PM
thanks

clavicula
09-15-2006, 05:08 AM
OMG, i am so sorry for your loss! :gloomy:

Goldiemom
09-15-2006, 07:43 AM
oops. posted here already. I am still very sorry for your loss. Please take care.

LoveBaby
09-15-2006, 08:11 AM
I'm so sorry for your loss, mama. :hug

Willzmama
09-15-2006, 09:22 AM
Oh, I'm so sorry to hear about this. Hang in there. :Hug

I've been there, I know how much it stinks. I'm thinking of you.

mamasara
09-15-2006, 09:28 AM
:gloomy: I'm very sorry.

rachellanigh
09-16-2006, 10:16 PM
Hugs! I pray for your peace and mind and your acceptance of what is. My friend once told me to buy an angel for my m/c. Or you can find a leaf and let it go off a bridge. I guess its good to do something symbolic. I still haven't done this, but when I'm ready I will.

gretasmommy
09-16-2006, 10:42 PM
thanks all.

I am waiting, which is just awful. Perhaps I will do something eventually, but for now, I really need for this to happen and allow me to move forward.

Peace.

scheelimama
09-16-2006, 10:47 PM
I'm so sorry. I hope things move forward quickly and you are able to be at peace with it.