scared- need some advice

[joshsmom]

hey mamas. i am so worried right now. i noticed some light pinkish spotting today and i just don't know what to make of it. i have had no cramping at all, and the spotting happened twice today- once in the morning and then at lunchtime. i don't have an appointment at the birth center until november 13th. i want to call my midwife, but i don't know what they would/could do. i'm 6 weeks right now, and never had any problems with this during my 1st pregnancy. any advice?

[Ks Mama]

If I were you, I would simply call your midwife, and tell her exactly what you've written here. It won't hurt a thing to call, and will likely set your mind at ease.

FWIW, my mother-in-law delivered 4 healthy boys and spotted during the first trimester of all of her pregnancies.

Try not to worry... just make the call! :)

[mackenziesmama]

Not part of your due date club, but couldn't read without responding.

Like KsMama said, I would call your m/w right away and tell her you're scared and spotting. She will most likely be able to put your mind at ease either over the phone or with a visit.

Although it has not hapened to me, I have heard that spotting is common during the first trimester.

Hugs to you!

[StacieM]

I would also go ahead and make the call. She may not be able to "do" anything. But she may be able to prevent a problem by instructing you on what you can try to do or not do.

I hope everything is okay.

[ChristineIndy]

:yeah:

Take gentle care of yourself. It's so hard not to worry, I know!

Christine

[torio]

Sorry you're having to worry, but the others are right. It could be perfectly normal and healthy. Your midwife would probably want to know and be able to give you some support. Best thing you can do is take it easy and be extra good to yourself. I'll be thinking healthy baby thoughts for you!

[mommamin]

Like PP said I would call your MW. :hug: I know it is hard not to worry!

[NCMomworld]

:hug


I would call the midwife. If she's concerned, she can schedule an ultrasound to check the baby.

[Jilian]

How are you doing mama? I hope everything is ok. Some people just spot during pregnancy. My aunt spotted for the whole first trimester and went on to have a healthy baby. I agree that you should contact your Midwife if you are concerned. :hug I'll say a little prayer for you.

[joshsmom]

thanks for everything ladies! the support here is so wonderful. i called my midwife and we discussed everything- she felt that at 6 weeks the bleeding may be a result of placenta formation. she was really optimistic since i haven't had any pain/cramping. still... the bleeding's a bit more today which makes me worry. my midwife said we could do one of three things: 1. wait and see what happens 2. have bloodwork done to check my hcg levels or 3. have an early ultrasound. so, i have some thinking to do. in the beginning i wanted my pregnancy to go with minimal intervention, but at this point i don't even care anymore- i just want a healthy baby.

[wombatclay]

Hugs mama...I'm glad your midwife was able to offer some peace of mind!

I spotted a lot when I was pregnant with dd (and I'm spotting again this time while keeping my fingers crossed)...I did have an early u/s at 8 weeks just to make sure everything was okay. It was SUCH a huge relief to see dd the "baby brine shrimp" wiggling and fluttering. So while I understand your concerns about interventions, sometimes the peace an early u/s brings is worth it. Stress isn't something you need right now and although an u/s can't stop a mc it might be able to let you know one way or the other what is going on.

There's a thread in the general "I'm pregnant" forum called "When the spotting was okay" that you might want to check out. Spotting (and even heavy bleeding) does happen to a lot of mamas (despite what the books say!) and there are some really hopeful stories there if you're in the "spotting mamas" camp. I know I've been pulling a lot of support from that thread since my own spotting keeps coming and going.

Anyway, know that you're not alone, and that you should go with your heart...would seeing the heartbeat help you feel more calm? Or would you worry more about a threatened mc once you "saw" your babe? Are you at peace with the "waiting" approach (though really, there's nothing that can be done this early in a pregnancy, and nothing you can do to make a m/c happen...it's hard to remember that, but no matter what happens, it's NOT something you did!).

Stay gentle and good luck!

[mommamin]

I am glad so she offered you choices to help put your mind at ease!

Get some rest!

[teniprice]

I had an isolated spotting incidence with my second pg and I remember freaking out. My dr pretty much told me there was nothing I could do at that point anyway (I was 5 weeks.) That little one will be 5 in a week.

[joshsmom]

well mamas i want to thank you again for all of the support here. unfortunately i lost the baby. i wish you all a healthy nine months.

[wombatclay]

I'm so sorry...be gentle with yourself as you heal. I hope you find emotional and physical peace...

[StacieM]

I so sorry to hear that. Please take care of yourself and allow your body and soul to heal. :Hug

[SongbirdSinging]

for your loss :(

[lilgsmommy]

I am sorry for your loss mama! Please take good care of yourself for the next few days and know that your ot alone. We are all here for you!

[mommamin]

I am so sorry :hug: