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pottermamma
05-20-2003, 11:50 AM
After a very amazing and thankfully uneventful pregnancy I had a very WONDERFUL and uncomplicated birth. This is a GREAT forum, and I just LOVE birth stories ~ So, here we go!!!!!!:love

This is what I wrote to Isaiah, about 3 or 4 days after his birth, in his little book I am keeping for him:

We fouind out that you would be coming in March 200. We were so very excited and began thinking about all the htings expecting parents think about... will we have boy or girl...when will he/she come...what will the baby look like.
You blessed me with a very easy and uneventful pregnancy. We went to the birth center often and they took good care of us there, Elizabeth, Ashley, Julie and Joan. It was a very hot summer this year and very dry. We went to the mountains many thimes and we talked about all the blessings God gave us while your daddy chopped wood so you would be warm all winter long.
You first announced your coming on Saturday 11/4/00 around 3 in the afternoon. Mom didn't believe you though ~ I just thought it was my body doing its thing. Dad and I went out to dinner at the Trading Post that night with Ashley and then we all went to see a movie. I still didn't think you were coming.
Dad and I got up that night together because I wasn't feeling so well, still having those pains ~ yet ~ I still didn't believe you were coming. It is now Sunday morning 11/5/00. I'm still having the cramps but they aren't bad ~ can't be labor ~ oh well ~ lets just time them for fun. Very irrecular, and they said they'd be regular (every 5 min 1 min apart) can't be labor.
FInally your dad convinced me to call Ashley. We decided that you would be coming but not fo a while. We decided to get some rest. Ashley called back though and said she thought we should get on our way to town, so we did.
We got to the center around 10:00 or so that night. You were on your way so mom got into the tub and was VERY comfey. It took about 45 min to push you out and I almost thought I'd get up and leave. I was done and I figured you could just hang out inside my belly and live with me. You didn't agree though and there you were. at 11:40 on 11/5/00 you came in to this world. Your daddy watched the whole thing (mom's eyes were closed until you were put on my belly). Ashley caught you and handed you up to mom. Daddy then cut your cord.
You were and are so amazing. Gazing into your eyes I thanked God for you and that you were a healthy baby boy.
I feel so lucky that you chose me to be your mom. What follows is a journal of your life. I'll try my best to keep it until you can choose to do so yourself.
I love you with all my heart Isaiah. Your dad and I feel so blessed and lucky to make you part of our family. We hope to have many years wit hyou and we continually ask for guadance so that we may suppor tyou on the life path you have chosen

All my love
Mamma
xxoo



Birthing a baby is so amazing. It was so primal and so powerful ~ I can't wait to do it again (God willing)!!! I still find times when I think so fondly of his birth. I also feel so lucky and thankful that there were no complications as I know it is an amazing feat to carry and birth a healthy baby without any intervention or complication ~ so many things have to come together, and until his birth, I took all this for granted. :love

There was only one time that I lost it. I imagine I was in transition, but I was 10 cm the first time anyone checked me so I don't really know. I was screaming and groaning but knew somewhere I had to get it together so Dh could drive me 30 min to the birth center and I couldn't go the whole way screaming or we'd have an accident. So, I breathed and breathed. When I got to the center the midwife (Joan) said you sure are working hard huh!!!!! All I wanted was to be 5 so I could get in that tub. They checked me and said I was 10 ~ Woo Hoo!!!! I threw off my night gown and got into that tub, puked and pushed him out!!!!!! His water didn't break until I pushend him out, there was hardley any blood and thankfully my greatest fear did not come true (I had horrible visions of pooping in the tub when I was birthing). He was so calm, I had to ask him to cry. They gave him a few puffs of O2 and he was pink but still so calm. His dad held him against his chest while I got stiches. Everyone else then slept, but I couldn't. I just layed beside my 2 guys in disbelief that this was now my family!!!!!

I also loved the feeling of connectedness I felt to all the women that went before me and all those that will go after me, bringing babies into this world. It was just awe inspiring. I don't think I will forget that either.

Love to all you that have birthed are birthing and will birth babies ~ You are my sisters and thank you for taking the time to read about Isaiah's magical arrival:love




Doodlebugsmom
05-20-2003, 04:46 PM
What a beautiful story. It brought tears to my eyes! :crying

Birthing a baby is so amazing. It was so primal and so powerful ~ I can't wait to do it again (God willing)!!!
That is soooo true! Dh can't believe it every time I say I can't wait to do the whole thing over. I think I actually said it about 20 min. after dd was born!

Our labors and births sound very similar. That is so cool! :D

lisamarie
05-20-2003, 08:56 PM
what a story! so nice to be able to share such a joyful event w/everyone!!!!!!!!!

hugs-

lisa:love

Missgrl
05-20-2003, 11:17 PM
Oh my....what a great story!!!! I liked that you mentioned you
puked. NOt many will mention that! I didn't puke but I did poop
a tiny bit with ds#1. I can't be certain, but I remember feeling
like I did and the nurses wisked it away without blinking an eye.
I remember being worried about that too....but at the time I
didn't care at all. I just wanted that baby out!:LOL I know my
sister got an enema before her birth and I thought that was just
ridiculous.

thanks for sharing

Spark
05-21-2003, 08:00 AM
I'm so grateful for this forum, too! I love birth stories. I loved reading your birth story. It was so beautiful! Thank you!

I can totally relate to wanting to do it again! Within 20 minutes of giving birth to my son I turned to my husband and said, "I'd do this again. Not tomorrow. But, definatly the next day." I loved giving birth. What a high point of my life!

Thank you for not making me feel like a freak because i had a natural (in every sense of the word) birth that I enjoyed!

pottermamma
05-21-2003, 09:07 AM
Yeah, I've been ready to birth a baby again since probably the day or so after Ds, but not ready to raise another one till recently!!!!!!

Those birth attendants really know how to take care of ya huh!!!! I said I think I'm gonna be sick and they put a pan right under me, I pouked and they cheered me on, saying great, now theres more room for the baby!!!!!!! I wqas so worried about the poop thing I almost got an enema, but when I said that to the midwives they said that is natural, it is OK if that happens!!!

I'm just really glad to read these stories from everyone, they are so inspriational, and I'm not even pregnant!!!!!! What an amazing gift weve been given as women, makes every menstrual cramp in the world totally worth it!!!!!!!

mom2tig99Nroo03
05-26-2003, 12:07 PM
that was so beautiful- and i love the idea of a journal 4 him...