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cardigans
03-25-2007, 06:54 PM
i should know the answer to this but im torn!


I work in marketing for a natural foods store and as a member of the "marketing team" i have been volunteered to walk in a local parade next sunday. By the time sunday rolls around i will be 27 weeks 6 days. The parade is going to be during a really hot time (i'm in florida) of day and we are the 2nd to last in line to walk. I looked at a google map and from were we are in line it will be a little over 2 miles from start to finish. (not to mention getting back to my car, so another 2 miles) My fear is that something bad will happen. Lots of hills, 80+ heat, not being able to take breaks at all or eat = not soo fun times. They are estimating it to be from 10:30-1:30, yikes.

So what should i do? get out of it? get a note from my midwife on wednesday at my appointment?

It's pretty last minute of me but im stressing out really bad. My boss is not so understanding so i really don't know how to talk to her about it. We have been planning this thing for the past 3 months so i feel very stuck. ugh. My mom called me freaking out telling me not to do it because of preterm labor etc and a few other people are urging me not to do it.

I have about 20% volantary use in my left leg so it makes extra hard to walk long distances without limping really bad and being painful as is...me being the idiot i am did not disclose my disability to employer, mainly because i dont have to..

What would YOU do???




queendom lady
03-25-2007, 07:13 PM
It sounds like you really don't feel comfortable doing it so you shouldn't. If it's going to stress you out and you're not looking forward to it and you have so many reasons why you shouldn't then..... it just doesn't sound like it makes sense. I don't think this is the time to push yourself to do things you're not comfortable with. So, IMO, I probably would just back out and expect that my co-workers are understanding people. I'm sure it will be fine. Good luck.

pianojazzgirl
03-25-2007, 07:48 PM
I agree with queendom lady. Everything you've posted screams "I don't feel comfortable doing this". If you think it will take getting a note from your mw then don't hesitate in doing so. Even if your boss is totally unreasonable (which she'd have to be to not let you out of it without a hard time), I'm sure your mw would be more than happy to write you a note.

Doula Gina
03-25-2007, 09:18 PM
If you like your boss, and if you think she might just be upset that there aren't as many people with your store logo on it, maybe you could find someone to sub in for you from your store? Otherwise, I would be tempted to just drop it. It shouldn't really be considered a requirement for your job, and if you do get a note from your midwife and put it in your HR file, that should CYA....

Marvelleaux
03-26-2007, 07:55 AM
What would YOU do???


I wouldn't do it. I'd ask in what other way I can offer my support, but this was more than I feel physically comfortable doing.