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Fishie Kisses
05-05-2007, 11:35 PM
Ok, so I just got my BFP, and now I'm imagining (I hope at least) cramps. And everytime I wipe, I am expecting to see AF!




Mommy2Austin
05-05-2007, 11:57 PM
My DH keeps telling me not to get my hopes up and I'm trying not to, but two tests w/ faint lines (but still lines we both saw!!!) I'm convinced. What's your due date? Mine is around Jan 8!

Fishie Kisses
05-06-2007, 12:02 AM
I'm due jan 11, but I just have this feeling I am going to go early....no reason for feeling this way....I just do.

Mommy2Austin
05-06-2007, 12:03 AM
I pray I do! I want a December baby :D

sunflwrmoonbeam
05-06-2007, 12:44 AM
I'm feeling really confident. I had a m/c in December, and I knew it would happen. Now, I know I'll be holding my baby in January.

paniscus
05-06-2007, 08:33 AM
I am paranoid!!

I still expect to see AF when I wipe. If I remember correctly - it lasted, off and on, throughout the whole pregnancy with ds. So I just try to laugh at it now. Can one really be paranoid and confident at the same time?? That is what I am!!

I haven't been to see the dr yet (have to go get a pregnancy test so they can refer me to the mw). I am scared they will do the test and it will be negative. I know it is silly but . . . .

daysofelijah
05-06-2007, 08:40 AM
Oh yes, I am very paranoid. I had a m/c in the middle of the night in Oct. so every night I wake up panicked that it's happening again. I'm telling myself that when I hit 6 weeks I will be fine. 6 days to go!

zenma
05-06-2007, 09:22 AM
with dd i checked the toilet paper everytime until i heard the heartbeat and could feel her moving - then i always knew she was ok.

this time i only check the tp about once a day, so i'm relaxing a little. as long as i have some symptoms i'm ok, but i woke up feeling great this morning and now i'm nervous. i'm not supposed to feel great!! :lol

matey
05-06-2007, 04:49 PM
Everytime I start to feel too confident, I panic, and become worried that it will all end. I have to make it to 10 weeks to feel safe, since I m/c my last baby at around 8 or 9 weeks. I keep thinking about how far away that is.

bobandjess99
05-06-2007, 06:57 PM
OMG!! Hi fishiekisses! you know, this si gonna sound weird, but I had this feeling from the ONE thread we would be preggo together!!! congrats!!!

Surfacing
05-06-2007, 09:47 PM
Just chiming in to say yes, I'm paranoid too, keep checking after wiping, expecting to see AF. With each passing day (and greater nausea) I feel like this one is sticky....we'll see.... Good vibes to all and lots of healthy hormones :dust

beansavi
05-06-2007, 09:51 PM
Ok, so I just got my BFP, and now I'm imagining (I hope at least) cramps. And everytime I wipe, I am expecting to see AF!

Oh I went through this and made myself a nervous wreck. It si normal to have a little cramping and some spotting
A) after an exam
B) around the time your period was due
C) at the time of implantation

My implantation spotting and cramps seemed to come AFTER the time everyone said they would. I was so worried... but sure enough---I had a big ole' chunky baby boy who is 15 months now.

:hug

My midwife taught me to light a candle every night before bed to be thankful for that day, as a way to feel calm and centered and in the moment.

Remember, your hormones are shooting around a lot, too, and that can make you feel lots of things!

pampered_mom
05-06-2007, 10:25 PM
Oh yeah...definitely a tad bit paranoid here!

sunflwrmoonbeam
05-07-2007, 09:10 AM
I'm starting to get that way too. I had no morning sickness yesterday, but terrible m/s on Saturday.

It comes and goes, right?

Chavaleh
05-07-2007, 09:24 AM
Definitely nervous. I've never know I was pregnant this early before so I'm trying to temper my enthusiasm a bit until I'm a bit 'more' pregnant.

Mommy2Austin
05-07-2007, 09:48 AM
I'm starting to get that way too. I had no morning sickness yesterday, but terrible m/s on Saturday.

It comes and goes, right?

yes it can come and go :) I actually only had two incidents of m/s last pregnancy.

I'm pretty go with the flow this time with the exception of being uber excited and anxious to have this baby here already lol!

sunflwrmoonbeam
05-07-2007, 10:04 AM
I'm mostly going by intuition, instinct, and I'm fairly relaxed. But I had an early miscarriage in December, so I'm also a bit nervous.

leafwood
05-07-2007, 06:57 PM
I have been checking, but not really expecting to see AF. I also swing from feeling really pregnant to feeling just fine and that gets me a bit paranoid. The fact that I could have fallen asleep at the dinner table at 6pm provides me with confidence for today :lol . I also have had the strange thought that I will go for my first visit at 8wks and they will look at me like I'm crazy and tell me I'm not pregnant. It will be nice to hear a heartbeat.

Surfacing
05-07-2007, 07:42 PM
Yeah it will be great to hear that heartbeat, won't it? :throb

BallBaby
05-07-2007, 09:13 PM
I was totally freaked because I had 2 mc prior to this. But, I just made it past the dates I spotted with each of the 2 mc and so i'm feeling a lot more confident. Not relaxed yet, but getting there.

Kimber

Surfacing
05-07-2007, 10:01 PM
:hug

Chavaleh
05-12-2007, 07:37 AM
So my morning sickness has all but gone away this past week, just shows up occasionally now and then and today my breasts are barely sore at all. My DH laughed at me for being freaked out by this but I can't help but wonder if maybe the two pregnancy tests that were positive were false and I'm about to start my period or maybe miscarry. I'm having a hard time being rational. It still doesn't feel real. I wish I could relax.

sunflwrmoonbeam
05-12-2007, 08:36 AM
Chavaleh, I have the same thing going on. I took a test yesterday, and it was still positive.

I've noticed my symptoms seem to take their turns. Two days ago it was sore boobs and peeing all the time. Yesterday was incredible moodiness. We'll see what today brings.

Cullens_Girl
05-12-2007, 08:53 AM
Oh yes, I am very paranoid. I had a m/c in the middle of the night in Oct. so every night I wake up panicked that it's happening again. I'm telling myself that when I hit 6 weeks I will be fine. 6 days to go!
(waves to Amy!)

I have the usual paranoia, but the symptoms are there so there's no doubt in my mind about this!

tyisrrs
05-12-2007, 09:47 AM
I was sick as could be two days ago, and now today I feel great. I am definately paranoid that something is wrong. I hate that I had a miscarriage, it seems to have robbed the joy out of this pregnancy. I keep thinking I am headed for another miscarriage. I hated feeling sick, but it was better than this paranoia.

elisent
05-12-2007, 10:54 AM
I've had period-like cramps for several days now. I'm 4 weeks 2 days. No pregnancy symptoms, either, so I'm having a hard time believing this is real.

Mommy2Austin
05-12-2007, 11:46 AM
I had a horrible nightmare last night and am still remembering it now. It was terrible, and has made me terribly paranoid. GAhhh!

Fishie Kisses
05-13-2007, 02:46 AM
So my morning sickness has all but gone away this past week, just shows up occasionally now and then and today my breasts are barely sore at all. My DH laughed at me for being freaked out by this but I can't help but wonder if maybe the two pregnancy tests that were positive were false and I'm about to start my period or maybe miscarry. I'm having a hard time being rational. It still doesn't feel real. I wish I could relax.

Girl, I have ZERO morning sickness, breasts are almost not sore at all, and I still have cramping. Still VERY positive tests, and I have a much more positive attitude too! THIS IS IT.....IT'S REAL!! :lol

Chavaleh
05-13-2007, 05:02 AM
Sore boobs are back! Last night going to bed I breathed a huge sigh or relief and said to my DH, "I'm so glad they are sore again" and he looked at me like I'd flipped my lid. :lol