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06-12-2007, 07:52 AM
I swear dh and I only argue and fight when I'm pregnant. :lol Yesterday I was so angry at him.
I made my first prenatal appointment and needed to speak to the nurse about possibly seeing me sooner to do a u/s for the heartbeat because I really don't want to wait a month 1/2 if this pregnancy is another missed miscarriage or blighted ovum. So she said she'd call me back.
I told dh to take the call if someone calls for me. Normally if anyone asks for me by my full name, then "I'm not here." because its a stupid bill collector who harrassed me for a really low credit card bill that is 7 years old. :irked:
so I was in the other room with the girls when I hear the phone ring. I ask him if he can get it. He never calls back to tell me its for me, or anything. So I assume it was for him. About 20 minutes later I go out in the living room, do a few things, and he says "Oh btw, the nurse called. Call her back." Of course, I glance at the clock... try the phone anyway. But nope! The office is closed now. Had he told me when she CALLED, I would have been able to talk to her. But noo... or maybe if he remembered when I said "I have an important call today, please pick it up this time." Basically he just told her I wasn't here, she said who she was, and instead of making something up like "Oh wait, she just walked in." he just hung up. :dizzy:
So I was angry. Probably unjustified because its not like yesterday was Friday and I'll have to wait all weekend... but still. I was irked. I guess he didn't realize just how anxious I was waiting for that phone call. I don't think I realized it either until I missed the call and was so upset! :lol
I made my first prenatal appointment and needed to speak to the nurse about possibly seeing me sooner to do a u/s for the heartbeat because I really don't want to wait a month 1/2 if this pregnancy is another missed miscarriage or blighted ovum. So she said she'd call me back.
I told dh to take the call if someone calls for me. Normally if anyone asks for me by my full name, then "I'm not here." because its a stupid bill collector who harrassed me for a really low credit card bill that is 7 years old. :irked:
so I was in the other room with the girls when I hear the phone ring. I ask him if he can get it. He never calls back to tell me its for me, or anything. So I assume it was for him. About 20 minutes later I go out in the living room, do a few things, and he says "Oh btw, the nurse called. Call her back." Of course, I glance at the clock... try the phone anyway. But nope! The office is closed now. Had he told me when she CALLED, I would have been able to talk to her. But noo... or maybe if he remembered when I said "I have an important call today, please pick it up this time." Basically he just told her I wasn't here, she said who she was, and instead of making something up like "Oh wait, she just walked in." he just hung up. :dizzy:
So I was angry. Probably unjustified because its not like yesterday was Friday and I'll have to wait all weekend... but still. I was irked. I guess he didn't realize just how anxious I was waiting for that phone call. I don't think I realized it either until I missed the call and was so upset! :lol