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sadiejane08
08-10-2007, 02:08 PM
I've mentioned it in a couple of threads here, and people have been very supportive and empathetic. I haven't responded to those posts (because I don't want to hijack the thread), but please know that I really do appreciate your empathy.

In a nutshell: in October 2006 we found out that my daughter (15) has very aggressive, inoperable brain cancer. It is either glioblastoma multiforme (GBM) or a supratentorial primitive neuroectodermal tumor (PNET). She was treated for the PNET (chemotherapy and radiation), which has a higher survival rate. Treatment helped some, but not enough. She is now in the terminal phase of her illness.

I don't want to turn this DDC into a big downer with my daughter's cancer, but then again, it's a big part of what I'm going through during this pregnancy, like m/s or other things we have to deal with. So I want to include it here, but I'm afraid of taking over threads on totally different topics because everyone feels horrible after reading my posts. KWIM?

So I'll just say here that I really appreciate all the empathy people have shown when I've mentioned the cancer, and I will continue to appreciate it, even if I don't post a thank you. And if anyone wants more information, the tumor has pretty much taken over my blog :) (see my sig). That's where I post updates--though I'm sure I will write about major developments here, too.




apriljoy
08-10-2007, 02:21 PM
I'm so sorry you're going through this. What a bittersweet time this must be for you. :hug

rmzbm
08-10-2007, 03:28 PM
Great big huge :hug for you and your DD! I am so sorry! And it's NOT a "downer" - it's a beautiful child's life, and we are honored that you've shared this with us.
Wishing you both strength & peace. :hug

apmama2myboo
08-10-2007, 04:44 PM
I am so sorry to hear of your dd's illness, it's horrible when something like that happens and even worse when it's a child who is the victim of such a critical illness. may you and your family find all the strength you need during this difficult time and find some joy in the upcoming birth. best wishes to you.

jen
caitlyn 2/9/04
edd 4/7/08

Jennisee
08-10-2007, 05:23 PM
I am so sorry. I have been thinking of you since you first posted about her. :hug

aept
08-11-2007, 12:45 AM
I am so sorry. I have been thinking of you since you first posted about her. :hug

Me too,
How's she doing now?

AntoninBeGonin
08-11-2007, 02:15 AM
Young people are so special. I wish I could give you and her a hug in real life. :Hug

mom22girls
08-11-2007, 02:48 AM
I saw your post and couldn't NOT respond. This must be very difficult for you, and I will keep you and your family in my prayers. I lost two friends to cancer when I was in high school - one to brain cancer. Because of who they were (and are still in my heart) they both changed my life for the better. They lived life to the fullest and were an example for my entire highschool. I think about their example often - these many years later. Hugs mama, and all the best with your pregnancy.

eksmom
08-11-2007, 09:21 AM
I'm so sorry. :hug Thank you for sharing. I can't wait to read your blog and learn more about your daughter.

~ATenthMuse~
08-11-2007, 10:38 AM
I'm so sorry, for your daughter, for you, and the rest of your family.:hug

ashtree
08-11-2007, 11:00 AM
:hug I'm so sorry. Thank you for sharing your story and I'm wishing you a happy uneventful pregnancy.

sadiejane08
08-11-2007, 01:18 PM
Thanks, everyone, for your kind words!

How's she doing now?

She's relatively stable, though the last week has seen some small changes. Pressure is building up behind her left eye, and acetaminophen doesn't help it, so it's probably the result of tumor growth. We'll have to see how that progresses.

willemsmamma
08-11-2007, 03:09 PM
mmmmm... I never know exactly how to express the sentiments I feel in these type of situations. I pray that you will find strength to cope and deal with all your and your dd's circumstances. :Hug

counterGOPI
08-11-2007, 05:26 PM
im so sorry. i just saw this :bighug

cking
08-11-2007, 07:10 PM
:grouphug

:1praying: for your family