cyrusmama
09-05-2007, 01:19 PM
Why can I not find an OB? I need to vent.
For the first time in my life, I am on Medicaid. I am not proud to be on it, but I am not ashamed either. Dh and I have worked most of our adult lives. He is currently working. About 2 years ago, we had a major decision to make. If we wanted to make our marriage work, he was going to have to leave his well paying job (it kept him from home 24 hours a day some days and put a huge strain on us) and so he did. We moved and he began working with father in construction. So, flash forward 2 years, we live a lot more simply, a lot less pay, no insurance, and are expecting our 2nd little one. So yesterday, I went down and signed-up for state assistance. I thought everything was going to be fine, until today when I started trying to find an OB who would see me. And, none will take me as a patient because of the Medicaid.
I want to labor at the birth center that is about 30 minutes from here. I don't want to use the hospital that is 10 minutes. Its dirty. We have 2 sets of friends who have given birth there in the last year, both told of how their was still blood on the floors from the last person who labored in the room before them. I don't want that.
What is the point of having a state assistance program if no one will take it?
For the first time in my life, I am on Medicaid. I am not proud to be on it, but I am not ashamed either. Dh and I have worked most of our adult lives. He is currently working. About 2 years ago, we had a major decision to make. If we wanted to make our marriage work, he was going to have to leave his well paying job (it kept him from home 24 hours a day some days and put a huge strain on us) and so he did. We moved and he began working with father in construction. So, flash forward 2 years, we live a lot more simply, a lot less pay, no insurance, and are expecting our 2nd little one. So yesterday, I went down and signed-up for state assistance. I thought everything was going to be fine, until today when I started trying to find an OB who would see me. And, none will take me as a patient because of the Medicaid.
I want to labor at the birth center that is about 30 minutes from here. I don't want to use the hospital that is 10 minutes. Its dirty. We have 2 sets of friends who have given birth there in the last year, both told of how their was still blood on the floors from the last person who labored in the room before them. I don't want that.
What is the point of having a state assistance program if no one will take it?