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MissWorld
01-06-2008, 12:05 AM
Maybe I'm just slightly crazy but I haven't told DP yet because, well, I am just not confident yet, I guess. I was thinking about telling him around 6 weeks, after I hear the heartbeat (hopefully :love), but I don't know if I can wait that long. He has already asked if I am, and he keeps asking if AF has came yet. :eyesroll I really haven't talked about TTC with him much this month, except saying I'd like to be pregnant and you know, your basic "Hey, I'm fertile, let's DTD a lot."

So yeah. Sorry for my novel of a post. Do you guys think I should just tell him? I am so scared it won't stick. Anybody esle in this position?




dani76
01-06-2008, 02:39 AM
He's your husband. I think you should tell him. I had to tell DH first. He would have been so upset to know that everyone online knew before him.

Alcyone
01-06-2008, 04:06 AM
If it doesn't stick, what would he do? I can't imagine going through that without even my DH's support. Online support is not the same.

MissWorld
01-06-2008, 06:07 AM
Haha I told him last night anyway... he said "I knew, and I know it's going to be a girl. Now I'm going to sleep, goodnight." He squeezed me though and I know he's happy. Remind me not to bring up important things right when he's faling asleep. :lol