There's something about Mother's day that makes it easy for other's (particularly the men in our life) to mess up. When I was pregnant, dd's dad and I got into a HUGE fight. Huge. It was a horrible day. My first MD as a mommy, dd's dad had me a sobbing mess....again.
This year, my second MD, was great. I spent the day at the park with my baby. I honored the reason I am a mother. That's what it's all about.
Mother's Day 2009 is NOT over yet either! Go to the store and buy a cute outfit for your new bundle that's on the way. Buy yourself a "happy-mother-to-be card". (There is nothing wrong with that!) Or treat yourself to a pedicure and get your toes painted. Don't sulk around worrying about what the other half is doing. I've learned my lesson the hard way...don't depend on him and do NOT let him ruin it for you!
I agree-mother's day's there are some good memorable ones and some tough ones that I'd rather forget. Here's hoping you and the little one you are carrying will have many happy mother's days in your future.