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So my grandmother said something to my husband this morning(I wasn't there) about an incident involving my father during my early childhood that made me wonder if it's possible that something bad happened that I don't know about, can't remember or may have blocked out. And I'm wondering what I think about that.
What would you do? Try to find out/explore the topic with a counselor? Or stick to the issue at hand, namely that I'm not too interested in having a continuing relationship with my father? And this is not exactly a pattern- I've always thought I've had a pretty close relationship with him even though it's been quite disappointing at times- never as blatantly, unavoidably so.
Thanks for your thoughts, I'm feeling confused.
. people without memories seek therapy becasue they are screwed up in some way and have reached a block in their ability to grow or cope.
I have some nagging feelings about my step dad. Visiting him or having him visit me (and my 2 kids) always throws me into a tizzy and I watch everyone like a hawk. My grandmother and Aunt mentioned recently that they were always worried my step-dad was abusing me. They didn't do anything or say anything. frankly, this bothers me more than the nagging feelings about him.
I am doing nothing except limiting contact.
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