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#211 of 213 Old 11-12-2014, 10:29 AM
 
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I LOATHE my MIL and I have been struggling to find coping mechanisms. She is "bipolar" and I use quotations because her behavior doesn't wuLify as bipolar, she's simply a terrible person. She has, on more than one occasion, told my husband lies about me to cause problems, fell through last minute to help me because I was giving birth to my son, had a 2 year old while my husband was deployed and she is the most self centered inconsiderate person I've ever met. My husband demands a relationship with his father and she's part of the package because she is in complete control of her husband, my FIL. They're around every 6-8 weeks and stay with us for the weekend. I don't know how much longer I can take this.
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#212 of 213 Old 12-04-2014, 05:05 PM
 
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Wow... This is still a popular topic, talk about a blast from the past. Must be the holiday season and enforced family get togetherness that is going around. Hang in there everyone, Christmas and attendant visitation by unwanted in laws is about to hit, but soon it will be February , blessed, quiet, peaceful February.
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Omg, I despise my mother in law. After we went through terrible infertility treatments and then lost a baby, my husband confided in her his sadness, and she used his vulnerability to talk him into leaving me while he still able to have kids with someone else. For 8 terrible weeks she fawned over a woman he took up with that works where my Mil works and was more to her liking. I almost lost my marriage and my mind. Now that we're back together, I have to have holidays with my in laws knowing they want me and my useless uterus out of their son's life. He loves them and says I shouldn't hold a grudge. Sometimes I think that it will just break me. If my husband ever leaves me again the one good thing about it would be id never have to see my MIL'S cold treacherous face.
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