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I can't give too much advice. But one thing that did stick out to me was that if you're even debating leaving your boyfriend to move to LA with your ex...then the relationship probably isn't doing all that well anyways. If he was the "one" then I doubt that you would be considering this. Unless you have a history of making impulsive decisions or something.
I live in LA (and teach yoga for that matter) and the economy is bad here too. Most yoga studios require a lot of expensive training before they'll consider hiring you (there's always jobs at places like 24 hour fitness, but that is not full time work). Plus the cost of living is just crazy. Not trying to be a downer, just making sure that you know.
I hope you can figure something out that you're comfortable with.
|My ex is remarried, but were committed to stay close together for our son's sake. Feelings for him have nothing to do with me thinking about moving. In fact, he's a total ass.
I'm considering moving because there is no work where I currently live. My relationship with my boyfriend is going amazingly well. Even when we disagree about something, we are able to just laugh about it.
My ex has trained to teach yoga, is really good at it, and him and his wife have been offering teaching jobs in LA already.
DS1: 2/02 DD: 9/04 DS2: 9/07 and EDD: 11/13
Who does your child live with? If your ex goes to LA and you don't,where would your son live? Are you feeling torn between your boyfriend and your child? Or between your boyfriend and a job? Or between your boyfriend and your ex?
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